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I am still in love with my ex boyfriend?
My ex and I broke up some time ago. We haven't seen each other since about 2 months before the breakup and that seperation was what caused us to fight and breakup. I tried moving on but I just cannot get over him. He is trying to date this girl that was ... Views: 838
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have just read your article "Keys to a Happy Relationship" and would be greatful for some advice. I havn't been with my partner long. We are both in our twenties and we met a few months ago and already live together because it's the only way we could see ... Views: 1597
Breakup fog.
Everyone suffers from it after a breakup. You can't think. You struggle to form coherent sentences. Even simple tasks, like brushing your teeth, seem impossible.
"What went wrong?" you wonder. "How did this happen? Why doesn't she love me anymore?"
"How do I win my ... Views: 5240
Number 7 Might Shock You
The way to know if your romance will last is to observe your partner's past and present behavior, especially in group settings, and to learn the proven skills to make marriage work. Because I see so much of the damage caused by people blindly connecting, rushing ... Views: 1609
How To Make An Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend Fall In Love – Ask Ex Out On A Date
Why Ex Lovers Tend To Get Back Together Again After A Breakup
No matter how far the quarrel goes, lovers tend to desire one another again. In such situations, the term "True love never fails" manifests here. ... Views: 858
I see it everywhere…including in the mirror…and it drives me crazy!
What is “it” you ask? Kick-ass women putting up with less than they deserve in relationships.
So many of us find someone that we think could be “the one” and then hold on for dear life despite all evidence to the contrary. ... Views: 1302
You’re a single parent. Whether divorced or widowed, eventually you’re going to want to start dating. One of the most common questions is “How and when do I introduce my new partner into my child’s life?”
Here are the top ten tips on dating after kids
1) Is your new partner a keeper or just a ... Views: 1161
When it comes to getting to know someone who has the potential to be a friend or a lover, it is not always easy. During the early interactions, there is the tendency for people to show their best selves. To present themselves in a way that is different to how they normally are or to exaggerate ... Views: 1812
Why Are You Still Single Jo"?
I can still remember cringing at being asked that question by well meaning friends and family members and my response really depended on my hormones and how I felt about being single at the time.
For the most part, those that know and love us, ask from good ... Views: 1275
It’s your fear of rejection that is getting you rejected. ~~ Bobbi Palmer
I know…I write about rejection a lot: how to recognize when it is and isn't real; how there’s no such thing as rejection when you’re meeting guys using online dating; and how to learn from it, recover and move on to the ... Views: 1358
If you’ve recently experienced a relationship breakup, regret is one of the many emotions you might be experiencing. But regret is usually just a form of temporary and needless pain. Here are a few perspectives to make the end of your relationship an exciting and bright start to a new ... Views: 1973
Does it seem like you’re running in circles when it comes to your love life? Well, you’re not the only one. I have come across a lot of ladies who seem to find themselves running around in circles. They keep getting themselves into the same situation over and over again and have no clue why. ... Views: 1234
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I had a disappointment today. I blew an opportunity to do well at something that was super important to me. I was struggling to find a way to fix it…to make it right. So I thought: What would I tell another sister to do in this situation? I came up with the ... Views: 1417
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Ungrateful children. Mortgage that’s killin’ you. Surgical scars. Chronic health problems…these are all realities of life after 40. Let’s face it: we’ve been around a while. We have “stuff!”
When you’re dating ... Views: 1248
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Last weekend was my live event in Los Angeles: Mastering the Art of Magnetizing Men. During this two-day event I gave women tons of advice and step-by-step tips to help them attract quality men so they could finally meet their loving lifetime partner.
If ... Views: 1265
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Since you all can’t all attend my upcoming Live Event “The Art of Magnetizing Men“, I wanted to share my #1 Top Tip for being a midlife man magnet. Then I figured: why not invite my two guest experts to share theirs! Let me know your ... Views: 1358
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What do you do when a man asks you out and you aren’t interested? Are you worried about hurting his feelings? I get this question quite frequently because, after all, we want to please men, right?
Here are my simple tips for how to say “no” to a ... Views: 1335
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Were you at last Friday’s Grownup Girls’ Night Out Live Man Panel? I had three men — ages 40s, 50s and 70s – generously share their thoughts and feelings about what attracts them to women, what to do on dates, how to tell if a man is into ... Views: 1330
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Do you feel like you’re in a bit of a rut? Sometimes, especially when we’re older and haven’t dated for a while, we can start feeling bored, boring or invisible when it comes to men. I recorded this video to help you shake things up! With very ... Views: 1373
I feel compelled to write this warning to all you wonderful women who have been reading my blog for the last 3 years. I want to tell you about my newest client and give you a heads-up if you’re Internet dating.
Marcie is 52 years old and a highly accomplished woman. She’s recently divorced ... Views: 874
Where are all the good men?! I asked myself this question over and over again when I was dating and trying desperately to find a man to marry. For years I was a magnet for men who weren’t good for me, men who were not the marrying kind.
I couldn’t stop myself from dating them and getting ... Views: 1303
I want to spare you the disappointment of getting your hopes up over a man who's going to waste your time, get you to fall for him and then leave. You can find out early in a relationship which men are good prospects for marriage and avoid a lot of heartache.
But you need to pay attention, ... Views: 1008
We’ve all been there, a phone clutched tightly in hand waiting for him to text, email or call. So afraid you might miss him, you carry the phone from room to room, from place to place.
You check your phone a hundred times while you refresh the mailbox again and again. You send an email to ... Views: 3650
I wish you could see the picture of my dog, Buddy, I am holding. When we rescued him he had a mouthful of rotten teeth. The vet had to remove 22 of his teeth. When we brought him home I noticed he looked different. Because of his missing front teeth his tongue now lolls out the side of his mouth ... Views: 1169
There are few exceptions to this rule and at the moment I can’t even think of any! If you’re faking it in any area of your relationship it’s only a matter of time before it comes back and bites you.
Once you’ve faked it, you’ve painted yourself into a corner with only two options: staying in ... Views: 1174
No matter where you are on your journey to romance there is always a reason to get more love in your life. The magical thing about love is that it’s free; you can’t buy it, trade it or win it in a lottery. Love is an action you extend to others that benefits you more than it does them.
So why ... Views: 1120
One reason your relationships tend to fail is that you start out well enough, but then slowly, without realizing it, you start to give away your power. This process is insidious and before you know it, instead of having a healthy give and take, the relationship has lost its balance. When you ... Views: 4233
“For all eternity you will be with you. There is no escaping your Self.”
~ Jacob Glass
If there were ever a reason to make the effort to love and appreciate who you are, this would be it. Just imagine you’ll be keeping yourself company for all time — so you better find a way to enjoy who you ... Views: 963
No one gets a free pass when it comes to healing from heartbreak. I’m not just referring to the grown up kind when we breakup with a lover, I’m referring to the heartbreak we experience as the natural result of just being a human being.
It begins in childhood; young people suffer a great deal ... Views: 985
Dating on the job is always fraught, but what happens when you are doing it in a high-stress environment? Whether you are a nurse, a doctor, an EMT or administrative staff, you know that hospitals are places where the pressure is turned up high and emotions run hot. This can make dating seem ... Views: 3964
Human beings always want what they don’t have instead of appreciating what they’ve got. We are always focused on our lack of something instead of our abundance of something. We always want what someone else has instead of enjoying what we have. We are always comparing our stuff to someone ... Views: 1823
There are a lot of clichés about the challenges people face when looking for a mate, and many contain at least a kernel of truth. Have you ever dated a woman or man long after it was clear that he or she was “just not that into you”? Do you ever “let the perfect be the enemy of the good,” ... Views: 888
Dear Dr. Romance:
I'm in need of some help. My partner has had some emotional problems and I don't know what they are. is she bipolar or what else? She gets angry about everything and is very negative, she is very incecure and thinks I dont love her even if I told her 10 mins ... Views: 1601
It’s normal to have conflict in relationships. People are different, and their desires and needs will inevitably clash. Resolving disagreements in a healthy way creates understanding and brings couples closer together. The objective should be the betterment of the relationship. This is positive ... Views: 2491
So, you have a crush on a friend; most of us have at one point or another.
But how can you get out of it? Staying hooked into the fantasy or hope that one day he’ll “wake up” to your sexy awesome-ness is just that: a fantasy. Instead, take action now to preserve your great friendship AND open ... Views: 1646
If you want to talk to boys but are really, really shy about doing it, here are some quick tips that you can try that will help you overcome your shyness and give you enough courage to approach a boy and have a conversation for the first time.
1. Get involved in social groups – Clubs and ... Views: 907
"Dating can be frustrating." from my book
Pillars of Awesome Relationships
If you are married, you think about how fun dating would be again. If you are dating you wonder why it is so hard to find someone to be with. Would it surprise you that the same problems hold back marriages and ... Views: 1498
A first date can be one of the most memorable experiences that one can cherish all their life. It is the time of your life which will be remembered forever, be it for the good or bad reasons. To make this first date experience more memorable both for yourself and your partner, it is best to pick ... Views: 1580
Affirmations: Two Powerful Words That Can Change Your Life
The two most powerful words you will ever say are "I am".
What are affirmations?
Affirmations, really, are simple. They are you being in conscious control of your thoughts. They are short, powerful statements.
When you say ... Views: 612
Once upon a time, online dating was considered as the arena of the geeks, the nerds, and the socially awkward. Most people who choose to date back in those times did not think that finding a lasting relationship online was even possible. They would rather hit bars, music festivals, or every ... Views: 1648
It is thought that guys are as different from women as cats are from dogs. Because of this difference, women can have a lot of wrong ideas about what guys want and how they think. Not only are we going to point out some wrong beliefs about men, but we're going to give you the truth about what ... Views: 947
If you've recently broken up with your partner, it's understandable if you are in a state of extreme emotional pain and stress. Frustration, sadness and anger probably make up the majority of the emotions you're experiencing on a daily basis. Before you even try to get back together with your ... Views: 698
If you've just broken up with your ex, you are at the place. I understand if you are depressed, angry and frustrated at the moment. This is a natural reaction to what is likely to be one of the emotionally toughest experiences you'll go through, especially if you and your ex had a strong bond ... Views: 5899
You love to tease her, you like to tickle her. You mischievously puzzle her when she asks you how much you adore her. You make her greedier when she simply craves for your love and affection. You love to treat her like a queen during those intimate moments. Well, we know why you have landed up ... Views: 1486
Whether you’re just getting back into the dating game or you’ve been in the zone for months, making sure you don’t make these critical first date mistakes can ensure you get to dates two, three and beyond!
Dating with Dignity has the eight first date tips you NEED to know to break the pattern ... Views: 1728
Breaking up with your partner is difficult to say the least. If you're reading this article you already know this since you're in a midst of one right now. However, you need to understand that circumstances that led to you breaking up are not important. What is significant is how mentally strong ... Views: 4809
Anyone who has been through a tough break up knows that overwhelming sadness, anger and frustration are the dominant emotions one feels when they are at this stage of their life.
However, regardless of how miserable you feel right now and the circumstances that led to your break up, there ... Views: 675
Almost every couple has issues that they argue about. What matters is how it's handled, so it doesn't damage the relationship. To help you handle these battles the best way possible, we`ve listed what couples argue about, and the best way to fix them.
Annoying habits- Different things ... Views: 1175
If you have recently broken up with your ex, I understand how you feel. You're probably depressed, frustrated and angry. These emotions are understandable considering that you just went through what is in most cases one of the most emotionally painful experiences one can ever go through. This is ... Views: 599
I suspect you're reading this text because your relationship with your ex has ended. The good news is that, regardless of the circumstances under which you broke up, there are certain strategies you can apply almost immediately to not only get back together with them but prevent you from ... Views: 514