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- Best Friends and Lovers - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2009 from Lilly WhiteFirst meeting should be about building a friendship before initiating sex. The friendship will be the foundation to keep the relationship cemented in place. When working on a friendship there is no fear of being your self. Trust is built first out of friendship and grows more with every ...
Views: 2476(11 votes) - I Want My Ex Back - Yes You Can Have Her Back - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoIf you are thinking "I want my ex back", you have came to the right place for advice. You aren't alone, in reality you are experiencing the same thing that millions of people have felt and are feeling. Sometimes, we act on our first instincts and I am here to tell you, most of the time, your ...
Views: 2475 - 5 Ways To Be A Strategic Dater - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2007 from Amy SchoenToday’s dating advice for women and men, is designed to help you discover if you are a Strategic Dater. When you go out to singles event, do you: 1) stick with your friends? 2) hang off by yourself and look like you are available? 3) never would be caught at a singles event! If ...
Views: 2474 - Confidence Matters - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin Snell“It’s not you—It’s your technique.” This is one of the first things I teach singles. It is core to my coaching program and essential to your success in the dating game. To grasp the significance of this principle and how it can increase your confidence, you need to understand the ...
Views: 2474(6 votes) - Top Reasons Why Single Women Get Hurt Easily - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2016 from Kemi SogunleIt's so easy to become gullible with words without paying close attention to the actions in the words uttered. This usually happens when a woman has been alone (without a date) for a while. There's the longing and yearning to be with someone even though it may sometimes be denied. There's the ...
Views: 2474 - When it comes to dating, are you a Cougar? - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2009 from Debi BerndtIn case you haven't heard of this new phrase, a "Cougar" is named used to refer to an older woman who dates men much younger than her. Cougars come in all types and the reasons for their particular fetish with the boys are varied. Some are content with having fun and others seek more in the ...
Views: 2473(2 votes) - ***How to Write a Killer Email and Get Dates Online - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWant to know the number one trick to meeting men online and getting dates? Learn how to write a killer email. When I was online, I remember how it felt. I’d send an endless number of emails that seemed to go into the pit of Internet rejection hell. The truth is, there is a lot of ...
Views: 2471(3 votes) - How To Get Girls In A Bar To Come Home Back To Your Place - Fast! - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2011 from Dean CortezHi, it's your wingman Dean Cortez and I've got a few quick tips on how to use INFLUENCE and PERSUASION tactics to get girls attracted to you. The other night my buddy Hunter and I hit a nightclub in California. The joint was filled with women, including a lot of young hotties who probably ...
Views: 2470 - Think Twice Before You Contact Your Ex Again - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Mika MaddelaMany people want to contact their ex after a breakup. It could be that they want to repair the relationship and give it another shot or perhaps just gain closure after the breakup. Regardless, you must understand that in order to communicate with your ex in a peaceful manner, there are some ...
Views: 2469 - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm sick of waiting and feeling I'm not good enough - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, I am a young adult male who has always had some sort of complication in relationships. I need help on deciding what I should do from the point at where I'm at now. The situation is that I have been talking to this girl. She first started talking to me but I didn't really ...
Views: 2468(2 votes) - ***Dating and Looking for Love? Why You Should Think of Yourself First - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDo you know that you are special, that you count big time, and that you deserve to think of yourself first when dating and developing a love relationship? This is such a difficult concept for so many women. Think of myself first? That’s so selfish! I’ve never done that before…ever! I don’t ...
Views: 2467(12 votes) - DATING ADVICE: The Allure of the Unavailable Man - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2006 from Karen JonesYou’ve heard this story a bunch of times, right? Of perhaps lived it yourself? The irresistible man who sends mixed signals; one minute he’s crazy about you – calling and showering you with all kinds of attention. Then, when you find yourself succumbing to his charms, and let yourself ...
Views: 2467 - Dating for Men - How to Create 3-D Super-Attraction - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2011 from Ali BinazirRecently I finished reading a very interesting book on the inner workings of the human mind. It's by Jonathan Haidt, and it's called 'The Happiness Hypothesis: Finding Modern Truth in Ancient Wisdom'. If you're fascinated by the science behind how humans tick and how it relates to ancient ...
Views: 2467 - How To Find Satisfaction By Discovering What Is Missing In Your Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2009 from David SamuelThere is a nice story of two old friends, one who never married. His friend asked one day, why he never found a wife. John said that he did look, but there was always something. One woman just could not cook well, another was too selfish, another was not a good homemaker. On and on he went ...
Views: 2467(3 votes) - Relationships: Why Are Some Women Needy? - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperTo have needs is part of being human and this means that it is not something to be ashamed of. Yet, just because this is the case, it doesn’t mean that one feels comfortable with their needs, and this can cause them to come across as being needless. They then act as if they don’t have needs ...
Views: 2465 - How To Get A Girl In A Club To Come Home Back To Your Place - The Best Pick Up Strategy - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Dean CortezHey, Dean Cortez with some powerful tips on how to get girls using powerful techniques of influence and persuasion. A few nights ago, my buddy Hunter and I visited a bar in New York City. The joint was filled with women, including a lot of young hotties who probably blew off 20 guys a ...
Views: 2462 - Signs Your Partner Is Being Unfaithful - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaFew things in life can impact a person’s happiness as much as their relationship with their partner. As a result, suspecting that a mate is being unfaithful can be one of the most emotionally trying experiences for an individual to go through. If you suspect that your mate is being unfaithful, ...
Views: 2462 - Learn to Fight "Smart" - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2012 from Rhonda AudiaCouples have "dumb" fights when they don't have a clue about what they are really fighting about. Fights about stuff like buying the wrong bagels, bedroom frustration, and clothes strewn on the floor are really about someone feeling neglected, ignored, or misunderstood. When we feel ...
Views: 2461 - ***How Your Dating Can Help Your Daughters - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIf you're a Mom with children still at home, I'm sure you have concerns about how your dating might affect your kids’ lives. Issues such as jealousy and challenges with time-sharing are real. But I’d like you to consider the positives. Yes, it’s true that "a happy Mother is a good Mother." ...
Views: 2458(2 votes) - Decoding a Gay Guy's Dating Profile - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from Greg HalpenSo now you have the PERFECT profile on a reputable dating site like, MyPartner.com or OKCupid.com. One of the great features these sites have, is the ability to match you’re profile features to potential members who may meet your requirements. Add the human touch! Don’t let a ...
Views: 2458 - How to Attract My Ex Girlfriend Back Secrets - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreHow to Attract My Ex Girlfriend Back Secrets; Most of the time, when you look at a break up from an outsider's perspective, you often get a different view of what might be going on than the people involved in the break up. This can be a good thing, because the reality is that unless a ...
Views: 2458(1 vote) - I am Afraid to Date Again. I am Considering Online Dating instead of the Real Thing. - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2012 from Sam VakninThere is a delicate balance to be maintained between the need to process the trauma of divorce (to recuperate, heal, and recover) and the need to maintain the interpersonal skills essential to dating and, later, to bonding and pair-formation (pairing). The main problem may be the temporary ...
Views: 2458 - ***Dating Over 40: Why He’s Not Asking You Out (Part 1) - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerI can answer this in three words: You’re not memorable. That’s it. Whether it’s the hot man you had a nice chat with at the local coffee shop or the guy you had a great first date with, getting him to ask you out can take some skill. Yep, I said skill. You’re not 18 anymore, and the ...
Views: 2456 - Top 12 Annoying Things Women Do In Relationships - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2013 from Amy RosenthalyAny relationship can benefit from some help day to day. To help your love develop for each other, it's best to know and comprehend the little problems that each person in the relationship is put through. Here are some innocent things women do that annoy the men they're with. Seeing your ...
Views: 2454(1 vote) - Exciting First Date Ideas to Take Your Girl - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Richard LisoIf you're tired of the typical, boring dates in cafés and restaurants, and you thought about trying something new and adding a bit of spiciness into your dating life - then you are reading the right article. We all love getting out the typical frames and trying something different, especially ...
Views: 2453 - Dear Dr. Romance: I get upset that he hasn't been responding at all - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, I just wanted to express to you how I thoroughly enjoyed your article about how there should be a tennis match type of communication. The guy I like hasn't been responding when he usually responds and though he's a busy professional, I get upset that he ...
Views: 2452(2 votes) - 5 Dating Strategies for the Single Entrepreneur - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2005 from Amy SchoenMy friend Jonathan is self-employed and single. He talks about how it would be so nice to have a relationship in his life and yet I do not see him making the time for the process of dating. He tells me that his work is very demanding and that he is barely keeping up with his clients. Having ...
Views: 2450 - Convincing yourself doesn't win an argument - learn to fight fair - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2013 from Noreen RuthComedian Phyllis Diller once said, “Never go to bed mad. Stay up and fight.” Or another bit of her advice, “My recipe for dealing with anger and frustration: set the kitchen timer for twenty minutes, cry, rant, and rave, and at the sound of the bell, simmer down and go about business as usual.” ...
Views: 2449(4 votes) - Attract Women Like A Rock Star - by Submitted on May 23, 2013 from Dustin HinesRecently there was a study done in France about what women are attracted to. It was a narrowed study that focused on one prop, a guitar. They sent a young man in his 20's out to approach and try and get the number of several different women. Sometimes he was carrying a guitar and other times he ...
Views: 2446 - Help Your Teen Avoid Love Life Grief: 7 Tips - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2012 from Scott & Stephen PetulloWe get many questions from young adults about love life dilemmas. So many of them fall into traps that could have been avoided with good guidance and advice. It leaves one wondering, “Didn’t their parents or mentors help them distinguish love life fantasies from reality?” Sadly, many parents ...
Views: 2446 - How To Flirt With Women Without Looking Creepy - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisThe point of flirting with women is to get them to notice you and, hopefully, flirt back! And women love to be flirted with by a guy they are interested in. But there is a really fine line between flirting with a woman and losing the woman forever. If you flirt too hard you can come across as ...
Views: 2445 - Dating Success Secrets: 10 Lessons to Spice Up Your Social Life - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2006 from April MasiniIf you are ready to start winning in the dating world, follow this simple strategy for success: Lesson 1: First Impressions They are immediate, long lasting, and usually permanent. Regardless of how great you are, and no matter how sweet you can be once someone gets to know you, the reality ...
Views: 2444 - My Ex Slept With Someone Else: My Ex Is Sleeping With Someone Else Already - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2017 from Michael BradMy Ex Slept With Someone Else: My Ex Is Sleeping With Someone Else Already Have a cheating ex you'd like back? Think it will be impossible to work things out? Think again. Get your cheating ex back fast by putting these four principles to work for you. 1) Forgiveness is divine. When it ...
Views: 2444 - 3 Simple Seduction Techniques to Attract Anyone - by Submitted on May 10, 2009 from Michael LeeSeduction is a game anyone can play. Even if you’re just used to being part of an audience, you can still participate and find seduction techniques you can use. Don’t let the other players intimidate you. In fact, why not see them as possible inspirations? After all, there’s no better way to ...
Views: 2442(3 votes) - How To Make Her Want You More In 3 Easy Steps - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2011 from Michael LeeIf you want to know how to make her want you more, then you’re reading the right article. All over the world, many men are finding that their female counterparts are giving them less and less attention and importance as time goes by. There’s no reason to panic though. Like any other ...
Views: 2442 - Small Talk - In the office - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Ed WalkerIf you are a human being (I assume that if you’re reading this you probably are) you will most likely have to engage in small talk on a regular basis with fellow humans that you come across. You feel obliged to speak to them, even though you can think of a long list of things you’d rather do, ...
Views: 2441(2 votes) - How you can seduce women with alpha male characteristics- Using your life purpose - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2012 from Jacobs jesseMany popular men applying alpha male characteristics are seducing women by means of their purpose in life. Many men who lack purpose in life find out that they can’t seduce most women and the few women who listen to them do not go on a date with them. To help you use alpha male characteristics ...
Views: 2439 - Sustainable relationships - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2009 from Maryanne ComarotoIf you have had a few relationships you know what I mean by “sustainability,” especially ones that have been a source of pain or suffering to some degree. (Some of which have compelled you to dispose of them by almost any means, organic or not.) But what of the ones you wish to keep, nurture and ...
Views: 2439(1 vote) - How to Get An Ex Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldHow to Get An Ex Boyfriend Back - Even if he has a new girlfriend It's understandable that most women who had been in a relationship are not convinced if their Ex lover desires to have them back into their lives. Most times, ex boyfriends show signs of desire to return into relationship with ...
Views: 2438 - Book Excerpt: The Shy Single: A Bold Guide to Dating For the Less - Than - Bold Dater - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2004 from Yolanda CardenFirst Date Dos Dress well. For a first date (and, really, subsequent dates), choose clothes that make you feel beautiful, handsome, sexy, and free. This might seem like an obvious bit of advice, but your appearance can provide you with 'props' that aid the conversational flow and bolster your ...
Views: 2436 - How To Impress Your Ex Girlfriend - How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Interested In You - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldHow to impress your ex girlfriend; It can be very difficult to win a love back. The emotions that we go through, including men, can be really stressful to deal with. Let’s say your girlfriend walks out on you what should you do to get her back. Of course a lot depends on why she left you, so ...
Views: 2436 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Play Games In Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhile it is often the intention to have a relationship that is free from games and all the drama that they can create; this does not always mean that one will avoid them altogether. And as a result of this, one may come to the conclusion that they have absolutely no control as to whether their ...
Views: 2435 - Reading Women: Body Language Briefing - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2005 from Aaron JonesBody language is the meaning behind the words or the “unspoken” language. Surprisingly, studies show that only up to an estimated 10 percent of our communication is verbal. The majority of the rest of communication is unspoken. This unspoken language isn’t rocket science. However, there are ...
Views: 2434 - ***Should I Waste My Time Meeting or Dating an “Imperfect” Guy? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi Palmer30 minutes. That’s about how long you generally have to “get to know” a man before deciding to have a cup of coffee or date with him. You meet online, or at the local bank, and that’s about it. But he seems imperfect. He’s clearly missing one of your must-haves. Should you gracefully decline? ...
Views: 2433(4 votes) - Expect The Unexpected: Dating Advice for Women - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2011 from Stella SinglesHello ladies - today we're talking about what to expect in love and dating. Expectations can be a useful meter to test a particular guy against what you feel you deserve. The obvious problem though is setting these expectations too high and demanding more from a potential relationship than is ...
Views: 2433(2 votes) - Relationships: Why Do Some Women Always Feel Trapped In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperIt is often said that women prefer to be in relationships more than men do. And while this can sound like the truth, it is not always the case. There are going to be men who appreciate being in one, just as there are going to be men who don’t. Some women will enjoy being in them and then ...
Views: 2429 - DATING TIPS FOR WOMEN: FINDING MR. RIGHT - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2011 from Devon A BrownIt’s easy to find dating tips for women that give mediocre advice, but what about advice that’s realistic? Sometimes searching for Mr. Right is much harder than going to an event stylishly dressed and seemingly available. There is much more to it than that. Not to worry though, in this article I ...
Views: 2426(1 vote) - Dr. Romance: Why am I assumed to be a cougar good for only one thing? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a single woman in my late 40's. I've had several serious relationships, but unfortunately, although I lived with a couple of them, I've never been married. I have a minor physical disability, a stomach condition, but I am attractive, I look younger than I am, I'm well ...
Views: 2426(6 votes) - Are BBW sexually attractive to every men? - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2018 from Wayne McElroyA BBW is just like any women, she is expecting to be kept on her toes when it comes to bedroom action. A man needs to understand that it does not matter how much weights a woman for her to be satisfied in the bedroom. Making a woman feel good is the best gift that you can offer her. Where ...
Views: 2424 - What is Seduction - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Etienne CharlandYou are learning about seduction… but what is seduction? It is not about seducing women, it is about living a seducing life. It is about seducing yourself, seducing life, seducing friends, seducing strangers, seducing customers, seducing allies, seducing enemies — and seducing women. How can ...
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