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- Why Most Men Fail With Women - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2013 from Dustin HinesIt's a controversial issue to be sure. There are many opinions on why men fail when it comes to meeting, attracting, and ultimately keeping exceptional women. Navigating all of this info can be a daunting task and lead you just about nowhere. Through years of study, conversation, and testing, ...
Views: 2825(1 vote) - Why Rebound Relationship Rarely Works - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangIf you are a single woman over 30 and are actively dating, likelihood is you'll find many divorced men -recent or not- as your potential suitors. You -and your ex that you are not over with- are even perhaps on a rebound yourself! We all go through transitional relationships at one point or ...
Views: 16589(3 votes) - Why some people never recover from breakups - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2012 from Kevin ChonyuiA research was carried out on the level of breakups around the world after which it was proven that more than 65% of relationships end in breakups. If you decided to carry out another research, you will discover that the majority of these people who broke up was not because they did not love ...
Views: 6724(2 votes) - Why You Need a Plan to Succeed with Women - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2004 from Don DiebelTo succeed with women you must have a plan. You just can't leave things to chance and hope some gorgeous babe is going to drop out of the sky and jump your bones. You've got to come up with strategies to meet and approach single women. You can try all kinds of plans. Dating services, ...
Views: 1497(1 vote) - Why you never get a seond date: 7 reasons why that woman didn't return your call - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2011 from Luke PorterIt can be a real downer! You've landed the date, everything seemed to be OK but for some reason that first meeting was the last time you saw her. What happened? Well, assuming you didn't do anything really crazy like insult her mother or hit on the waitress there are a number of other reasons ...
Views: 797(3 votes) - Woman, not Women - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Stella SinglesIt sure is great to be a guy in this day in age, isn’t it? It is not uncommon for men to hold multiple relationships with women in various places, while they decide which one they want to be with. It’s almost like a reality show when you think about it. Yet, when women do the same thing they ...
Views: 1482(2 votes) - Wondering How to Get Back Your Girlfriend? - Try This! - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2010 from Chris TylerSo, you have had to deal with a breakup recently with your girlfriend. It's not what you wanted to happen and yet, it did anyway. And now, you want to be able to bring her back to you, have her back in your arms, and you want to know what you can do to make it happen. There are some breakups ...
Views: 1111(3 votes) - You Are All I See - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2011 from Womens Recreation, Inc.You are my heart, you are my soul. I want you with; as I grow old. You’re mean to me, but you are all I see. You will call and say you’ll be late, that’s ok, I’ll sit and wait. It’s ok, you are all I see. Don’t call me, I’ll call you, is what you say to me. I don’t understand, we were ...
Views: 1701(2 votes) - You Are Never Too Old for Love - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Cheri ValentineRecently, I received a call from a woman and her belief is that she is too old. She is turning 70 this year, and has been advised to lie on her online profiles. She does not feel right doing this and asked me for my advice. My response was that I could easily hear in her own voice how ...
Views: 1087(3 votes) - You Can Overcome Fear of Rejection - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2009 from Roseanna LeatonDating can be a daunting pastime. For some it is a wonderful game, full of interest and intrigue, whilst for others is an embarrassing and awkward nightmare. You start asking yourself what on earth you are going to say, whether to try a new chat up line or to talk about the weather and ...
Views: 1212(1 vote) - Your Attitude to Love, Dating and Relationships is Crucial in Your Ability to Develop a Successful Intimacy - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Doron GilThe attitude you have while going on dates is crucial to your succeeding or failing to extend a date to a meaningful relationship. The more you take the time to reflect upon your attitude this holiday season and realize whether it sabotages you or not, the more you can change and adopt a healthy ...
Views: 1633(2 votes) - Your Boyfriend Broke Up With You - Get Him Back - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversYour Boyfriend Broke Up With You - Get Him Back; You didn't intend to do it and you regret it, but that won't make it go away. You cheated on your boyfriend and he dumped you. If this is what you are thinking, you are only thinking of yourself. But what about your ex boyfriend? He is the one who ...
Views: 808(2 votes) - Your Ex Boyfriend - Why He Lies - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversYour Ex Boyfriend - Why He Lies; After a breakup, it might seem that your ex boyfriend is speaking in another language. He will say he loves you, but then he won't answer your text, emails or phone calls. This shouldn't surprise you if you think about all of the times he has said things when you ...
Views: 5141(2 votes) - Your Ex Boyfriend Says He Needs Time - What You Must Do To Get Your Boyfriend Back In Your Arms - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2011 from Charles UadialeYour ex boyfriend says he needs time. Time is what you don’t want to have at all. You are aware that your destiny is inside that with him however he seems not to know that. It is very hard to be in this situation since the only thing you can imagine is a future devoid of the one man you love. ...
Views: 18101(2 votes) - Your Fear of Rejection Is Getting You Rejected (FemiType #3: The Scaredy Cat) - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerWe all know that dating over 40 can be a bit of a jungle with challenges, surprises and pitfalls. I'm sure you've encountered your share of Pingers, Needy-men and Players as you meet single men. I get it, and you belong to a large, loving sisterhood. But it's not only us gals who have dating ...
Views: 3181(4 votes) - Your Relationships Reflect Your Relationship with You - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Valery Satterwhite"Each relationship you have with another person reflects the relationship you have with yourself." - Alice Deville. You have a lot of personal and professional relationships in your life. Some relationships are loving, satisfying, uplifting, supportive and enrich your life experience. You ...
Views: 7121(2 votes) - YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS IS RUNNING YOUR LIFE...AND YOUR LOVE LIFE - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2019 from Dominique NicoleThe way we live and see our lives is created out of the very beliefs we have about ourselves and the world...our perceptions. When we can truly understand this, we have the power to change our circumstances...and our lives. Our unique belief systems our formed under the surface of what we ...
Views: 959(1 vote) - How to Make a Man Miss You - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Nicole GayleWhen we are talking about making a man miss you, we're not simply talking about responding with behaviors that he may react to. Making a man miss you goes much deeper and as you read further, you will understand how to find and sustain the mental attitude that will make a man feel as though he ...
Views: 21028(14 votes) - ***How You Can Help Men Make You Happy - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIf you don’t ask…you don’t get. I think this is the key to being happy with men. It’s one of my Dad’s favorite lines. I heard it so often growing up that it’s now a mantra in my already overloaded brain. Dad’s premise was that it is your responsibility to state what you want, and then give ...
Views: 1832(11 votes) - ***The Truth About Reading Men’s Minds – And Quieting Yours - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIf you’re a woman who tends to over think and over analyze (and let’s face it…what woman doesn’t?) I want to advise you when it’s appropriate to do so about men: N-E-V-E-R! Oh how we love to dwell in conversations with ourselves about all kinds of fascinating things. Is he attracted to me, ...
Views: 2838(10 votes) - The Health And Wellness Benefits Of Being Inlove - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIf you are afraid to love, here are some few sensible reasons that might make you change your mind or heart. Years of research have shown that there is a good symbiotic relationship between health and wellness and being madly and hopelessly inlove. Studies have proven that married or committed ...
Views: 766(9 votes) - 20 Do's & Don'ts of a Functional Relationship - by 1. Who you think you are is important. Like attracts like. Do you like who you are?
2. What you want in a relationship is important, and when you are willing to ask for it, you will be able to create it. But only ask for what you want when you are clear about what it is. Until then, don't go ...
Views: 25803(8 votes) - Can Marine Algae Help Prevent Cancer, STD’s and HIV? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Allura JoyNew research has found that an algae-derived compound called carrageenan is a powerful weapon against the virus that causes cervical cancer and various sexually-transmitted diseases. It is an extract of red algae – a type of seaweed found in the northern Atlantic Ocean. Carrageenan is purely ...
Views: 3490(8 votes) - 3 Flirting Body Language Signs of Attraction - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Michael LeeDuring pre-historic times, humans already have a way of applying flirting body language to show the opposite sex that they like what they see. Of course, we were a bit more frank then, and the codes were easier to decipher. Nowadays, we have already learned the art of subtlety, which makes the ...
Views: 9176(7 votes) - Is it Infatuation or is it Love? - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Angie LewisHow will you know if you are really in love or if it is just infatuation? Love is an action and infatuation is a feeling. Love, unlike infatuation and lust take commitment and devotion to a person. This is because when we truly love someone it takes self-sacrificing behaviors and attitude. ...
Views: 3504(7 votes) - The 7 Reasons Why Women Love Bad Boys - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2007 from Chris WilliamsonHave you ever wondered why THAT guy always seems to get the girls? He's brash, cocky and he marches to the beat of his own drum. He's on (or over) the edge, bordering on rude and doesn't seem to give a damn about anyone but himself - what exactly do women see in a guy like that? You consider ...
Views: 54205(7 votes) - The Biological Reality: There ARE Psychological Differences between Men and Women - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Kongit FarrellMen and women think differently - I don’t think anyone will argue that point with me at all! In my work as a therapist, I see males and females totally disillusioned with the selection of mates of the opposite sex to choose from. I think that the problem is largely due to a misunderstanding of ...
Views: 3228(6 votes) - ***The 2 Things You Must Do to Be Heard in the Club Scene and Not Lose Your Voice in the Process! - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2009 from Nancy DanielsA surprising number of young men email me regarding the difficulty they are having being heard at the club scene. What is happening is that they are yelling and are ending up with sore throats. Is there a way to solve this problem aside from not speaking? The answer lies in learning how ...
Views: 3309(6 votes) - 13 Ways To Snuggle Into His Heart - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2007 from Kara OhOf course, being positive, is universal advice but when you're dating and looking for his long-term commitment, it's really important that you develop the habit of being a positive person. One of men's greatest fears is that the woman they fall in love with will turn into someone who is ...
Views: 5005(6 votes) - A few effective Ways to get your soulmate back - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Jessy parkerThere is no way around it: dealing with a breakup is a traumatic experience. Adjusting to this new scenario is not easy and it's likely you don't want it to end. The great thing is: it doesn't have to be the conclusion of your relationship. If you are really sure about it, there are ways to ...
Views: 6345(6 votes) - Blind Date Guidelines To Keep In Mind - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraBlind dates can be exciting and unnerving at the same time. I’m sure you’ve heard or had your fair share of blind date horror stories. I remember this one time when I agreed for a blind date with my long-time chat mate Rudy. We met in this coffee shop, not far from my apartment. Everything ...
Views: 840(6 votes) - Embarrassing Questions To Ask A Guy: Don't Ask These Embarrassing Questions That Make Him Uncomfortable - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2008 from Michael LeeWhile it might seem like guys don’t really care about being under the spot light, the truth is, they only mask their concerns with indifference. And sometimes, that mask slips off when a girl suddenly asks them one or two numbers from the ultimate list of embarrassing questions to ask a ...
Views: 5592(6 votes) - From a Bird's Perspective - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2009 from Chrissy KohlerWho’s not scared of love? I mean whether you are scared that it will or will not find you, that it will or will not last, that it can or cannot exist – in some theory we are each scared of love. Scared of getting our hearts broken – scared of taking a risk – scared of putting ourselves out ...
Views: 1591(6 votes) - FWB: Friends With Benefits, or Blinders - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2009 from Jan DeniseINSIDE RELATIONSHIPS BY JAN DENISE RELEASE: FRIDAY, OCTOBER 2, 2009 FWB: Friends With Benefits, or Blinders I just explained to my husband that "friends with benefits" refers to friends who have sex. But in a recent study, college students needed no explanation; 60 percent of those ...
Views: 2198(6 votes) - Getting A Second Chance At Love - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYou meet an awesome guy whose friendly, sincere, is charming, and has a good heart. A gentleman to the core, the one you’d bring home to– – –meet the parents. He was the kind of man that you’d think most women longed for and that everyone adores. What seems so perfect going on with your life ...
Views: 977(6 votes) - He Wants You to Need Him. How Can That Be Healthy? - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2009 from Rachael Jayne GrooverA masculine man loves to become aware of a need and fill it. That’s why they love to fix things, make things “better” for you when you are upset, and put a lot of focus on their work. Many men only put attention on what is directly and specifically needed, which is why many bright, confident, ...
Views: 1043(6 votes) - Keeping Your Relationship - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Steve RennoMost people believe that relationships will bring them happiness. When they enter into the relationship they have a list of expectations as to how things are to go, when things go the way that they want they think that they have found true happiness, however when things do not go according to ...
Views: 948(6 votes) - Online Dating Headlines That Get Attention - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Christophe YoungSo, you already know that getting an attractive woman to open your emails is the first crucial step to online dating success. Hot women get bombarded with anywhere between 50 to 100 emails a day from desperate suitors trying to get their attention. You also already know that your ...
Views: 9981(6 votes) - How Women Can Prevent a Man from Drifting Away - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2010 from Dating Inspiration OnlineLove and hate go hand-in-hand. As much as a man wants to be with a woman, sometimes her behavior can make him tear his hair out… and tear out the front door. What are women doing that’s putting the kibosh on new love in their life? Women change. That old saying is true: “Women expect a ...
Views: 7245(5 votes) - The Conscious Groom: What Men Really Feel - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2009 from Sheryl PaulWhile I was researching and writing “The Conscious Bride” thirteen years ago, I simultaneously took notes and interviewed for the obvious sequel, “The Conscious Groom”. But when I presented the idea to my publisher they said that there simply wasn’t a male market for that kind of book. Perhaps ...
Views: 3473(5 votes) - Why You Still Can't Get Over Him - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2014 from Lorraine JacksonIf you’re still pinning for a man who has long since moved on with his life and a new love, it may be what you believe about a previous relationship that’s keeping you stuck. These insights will allow you to look at the break up from a more empowering perspective which may just be the key to ...
Views: 2008(5 votes) - Zero is the Norm? - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2010 from Chandi DeviWhat sort of people join dating sites? Well, you have respectable business people who have no time to find someone to date, people seeking others who share similar interests, there are shy people or people who do not have opportunities to interact or meet others in social settings, people just ...
Views: 1942(5 votes) - ***Do These 3 Things and You Can Sound As Good As You Look! - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2012 from Nancy DanielsAre you concerned with the image you project? If you are like most people, your answer is probably ‘Yes.’ When you hear yourself on your voicemail, answering machine, or some other type of recording equipment, can you appreciate that that sound is part of the image you are projecting? ...
Views: 3028(4 votes) - ***Ladies, Is Your Face a 10 and Your Speaking Voice a 2? - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2012 from Nancy DanielsYes, we are a sex very concerned with the image we project. We exercise on a regular basis; we are more aware of the foods we are eating; we try to get a good night’s sleep. As women, we want to look good; and, as we age, we know it takes more work. Our clothing is of the latest fashion; we ...
Views: 3156(4 votes) - 5 Ways To Instantly Improve Your Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Kara OhWomen are the leaders in the relationship. Men know it better than women do. A woman can change the tone and energy more easily then they realize… and it’s fun to watch a man respond. The quickest way to shift the energy in the moment–and as the primary way you interact with each other–is to ...
Views: 1788(4 votes) - Are You In A Toxic Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2013 from Virginia PintoAll relationships are complex. However, when one partner becomes intensely and chronically critical of the other, it becomes a “toxic” relationship. A toxic relationship is when a person essentially drains the life out of their partner with their criticism and discontent, thus killing the joy ...
Views: 1242(4 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: How Can I Let Him Go? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I read "Letting Go Takes Love" and it really spoke to me. I am in a situation and I was wondering if you could give me quick advice. I feel the need to let go of someone because he basically doesn't know what he wants. We have been going back and forth with the issue over a ...
Views: 1961(4 votes) - Five Silly Separation Errors To Stay Away From - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Raymond EhomaThere are various problems that lead to a bad break up and just quite as lots of things men and women carry out after having a break-up that turn out worsening an already challenging circumstance. In case you have just split up with your ex lover, there are a couple of important things you ...
Views: 1016(4 votes) - Good Conversation Starters - How to Start a Conversation With the Cliche "Haven't We Met Before?" - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Tracey BennettA good conversation starter is like a car engine. If you don't have one, you aren't going anywhere. When can you say, "Haven't we met before?" without sounding like a cliché? There is a way to turn this ancient ice breaker into a good conversation starter without sounding common as dirt, dry as ...
Views: 4813(4 votes) - How To Deal With A Break Up - 3 Ways - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangSo the relationship is over and you're wondering how to deal with a break up. Maybe it's the first break up you've had that really upset you. Or maybe it's not your first and you're looking for answers because even after all this time you still don't know how to deal with a break up. When a ...
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