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- Alpha male or bully? - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2010 from M.K. Joneshttp://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-10130-Cincinnati-Communication-Skills-Examiner~y2009m10d30-Alpha-male-or-bully
Views: 1497(6 votes) - Tips On How To Restore A Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2010 from Amy AndersonAttaining your goal in the game of love entails a great deal of dedication, energy, and hard work. Because so much effort is necessary, failing this game is undoubtedly upsetting. For this reason you'll find plenty of suggestions and guidance on how to fix your relationship. For a great article, ...
Views: 3126(6 votes) - Engagement Anxiety Relieved: Working with Projection - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2010 from Sheryl PaulMost people in an intimate relationship will, at some point, find themselves stuck in a projection about their partner. Projections are a bit challenging to define and even more challenging to see it when you’re in it. In Wikipedia’s words: “Psychological projection or projection bias ...
Views: 5824(3 votes) - What Girls Find Attractive - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2010 from Andrew HunterWant to understand what women think is eye-catching in a guy? Many people around the world think that women merely desire men that happen to be loaded, jerks, military guys, tall, good-looking, celebrities, young, or any mixture of these attributes. In fact, what women think is enticing ...
Views: 3895(4 votes) - Three Years of Tears - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2010 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dr. Neder I am hopelessly in love with a girl I met 3 years ago at a concert. She means the world to me! I’d give up the rest of my life to spend one night with her on a more than friend level. She has a Boyfriend but I truly care for her. I've tried to move on to different girls but ...
Views: 1226(3 votes) - How to make a girl fall in love with you? - by Submitted on May 08, 2010 from Dia ThabetHow to make a girl fall in love with you? Making a girl to fall in love with you is easy if you do the followings: 1. Radiate confidence- Based on scientific studies, the majority of girls are attracted to confident men. Girls don’t like guys who are not confident of who they are ...
Views: 3851(3 votes) - Bring Your Self to Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2014 from Emma ViglucciBring Your Self to Your Relationship It is a phenomenon when we feel energized, connected, and alive past the infatuation stage of our relationship. At the beginning, we fall in love. We feel euphoric, on top of the world, passionate, sexy, wanted, lustful, etc. This stage lasts and can be ...
Views: 2140(12 votes) - ***Be a Woman Who Knows That She is Enough - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerYour fear of being rejected because you are imperfect is exactly what is getting you rejected. Yah…I know I’ve written about this a million times, but two recent experiences reminded me of how major this is. So here I am reminding you in case you still don’t get it. Me…Popular? My Junior ...
Views: 1547(6 votes) - Dating tips for men, and women...Top 10 dating ideas that will have em wrapped around your little finger - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2010 from Elle PetesSaying I Love You... Maybe a strong "like"...? Either way, it's allot to swallow without a good date plan in place. That's where we come in. Our Top 10 dating ideas are a MUST read to get your game on for the saying I love you moment. From us and from our experts... YOU. Feel free to add ...
Views: 927(1 vote) - Female Attraction Tips - What Should You Say to a Woman? - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2010 from Chris TylerTrying to figure out the right words to string together with a woman is one of those things that a lot of men tend to struggle with. We all know there have been times when it seems like we can put our foot in our mouths when we are talking to a woman and to really be able to get past this stage ...
Views: 1268(3 votes) - Wondering How to Get Back Your Girlfriend? - Try This! - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2010 from Chris TylerSo, you have had to deal with a breakup recently with your girlfriend. It's not what you wanted to happen and yet, it did anyway. And now, you want to be able to bring her back to you, have her back in your arms, and you want to know what you can do to make it happen. There are some breakups ...
Views: 1079(3 votes) - Flirting With Women - What Are You Supposed to Do? - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2010 from Chris TylerFlirting with women can easily seem like more than what a man bargained for, especially when he finds himself at a loss for what to do next. One the surface, flirting with a woman seems like it should be pretty easy. I mean, all you are doing is having a good time with her, so, you should be ...
Views: 1093 - How to Attract Beautiful Women - 4 Powerful Characteristics to Attract a Sexy Woman - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2010 from Chris TylerFor some guys out there, it's almost an impossible stretch of their imagination to think that they could possibly attract a beautiful woman. Some guys kind of live with the idea that somehow and in some way, a sexy woman is out of their reach or out of their league. And then there are some guys ...
Views: 1860 - How To Approach Women And Make Them Feel Attraction - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2010 from dhale mercadoThroughout my long career as a dating instructor, I have taught thousands of men how to approach women in every imaginable scenario. A lot of my students have been ridiculously successful. I've seen shy guys who were terrified to walk up to girls turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began ...
Views: 974 - A Journey to Find the Right Person - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2010 from Annie SherwoodIt all starts with yourself. If you really want to find your soul mate, you have to believe that your soul mate is out there, waiting for you, and therefore, you also have to work hard at finding that person. Here are some suggestions to find your soul mate. 1. Know yourself It's difficult ...
Views: 1014(1 vote) - Getting The Girl You Deserve - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2010 from Daryn BabcockMen seem to put a lot of stock into facts, figures and logic. Something they can sink their teeth into and cite at will. I'm with them all the way, though I am a female: irrational, emotional and irascible, by default of the stereotype of my kind. When it comes to stereotypes, though, the ideas ...
Views: 891 - The Ram and The Goat - Can They Walk Together? - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2010 from Christofer FrenchAries - Capricorn These signs are both "Cardinal", which means they share an Action-Oriented approach to what they do. And Aries is Fire and Capricorn is Earth. Capricorn's actions, and these people are not only action-based, but being an earth sign --- they also have A PLAN -- feed Aries' ...
Views: 1097(4 votes) - ***Ten Over-the-Top Valentine’s Day Makeovers So You Look Maahvelous! - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2010 from Dr. Diana Kirschner“Don’t be a shnook. It’s not how you feel—it’s how you look.” ~Fernando, aka Billy Crystal on SNL Fernando had a point. Kind of. Research shows that if you feel you look good, you do feel good or something about feeling and looking good. Or something like that. Anyway, Valentine’s Day is ...
Views: 3002(76 votes) - Things to do on a dateSubmitted on Feb 11, 2010 from harry golmesGo do something she hasn’t tried before. And before you grin lecherously, it isn’t even related to that. Take her ice-skating somewhere and hold her hand steady to balance her. Or take her out bowling and teach her how to nail those pins to the floor. Or go mini-golfing and teach her how to ...
Views: 689 - Valentine's Smalentines - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2010 from Debi BerndtI have to admit that I am not a big fan of Valentine’s Day. After decades of being single, that date caused so much heartache for me and my single friends. Even now that I am in a relationship, I don’t like to celebrate because it never brought any joy for me. The holiday only put additional ...
Views: 2533(1 vote) - Zero is the Norm? - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2010 from Chandi DeviWhat sort of people join dating sites? Well, you have respectable business people who have no time to find someone to date, people seeking others who share similar interests, there are shy people or people who do not have opportunities to interact or meet others in social settings, people just ...
Views: 1898(5 votes) - Signs she may not be Faithful - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2010 from David UtkeHow do you know if you have a cheating girlfriend? Women can be prone to infidelity as much as men. As such, you need to be able to spot the signs if your relationship is in trouble. From a broad perspective, women cheat when their unhappy in their current relationship, so if your doing ...
Views: 9579(1 vote) - She Will Fall in Love With You - But You Have to Know How to Make Her Feel That Way - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris TylerSo, you've met or know a woman that you just cannot seem to get out of your mind. Everywhere you go and everything that you do, you find yourself drifting back to thoughts of her. You want to be able to make her fall in love. You want her to say that she feels the same way about you. Feeling ...
Views: 1378(8 votes) - Friend to Girlfriend Secrets - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris TylerTime and time again, the question seems to come up from men that really want to turn around their personal life and finally get the reaction from women that they want. Guys want to know how they can turn a friend to a girlfriend and there is a very common and a very good reason for this. Men ...
Views: 3769(5 votes) - How to Reconcile With Your Ex-Girlfriend - Get Her to Want You Back - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris TylerThe hardest part of going through a breakup with your girlfriend is when you get the feeling that you want to be back with her. If you want to reconcile with your ex-girlfriend, then you probably are going through a lot of emotions right now. Sometimes she's all you can think about and then ...
Views: 7327(3 votes) - Are You Sexually Connecting With Women? - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Jonathon BirrellDesire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community… …but it may be our greatest undoing as well. The allure of it is all-pervasive. With the promise of complete sexual abundance, whether that be with many women, or just that “one” you’ve been ...
Views: 1107(4 votes) - Finding Love Through Online Singles Dating Websites - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Tamara WilkinsBeing with someone without ever having enough of them and still missing someone like crazy even though you're apart for just few hours is what best describes love. Love is an abstract emotion that has no comparison with any other, it can be impulsive, long lasting, mysterious, caring or ...
Views: 924(4 votes) - ***Dating Games Men Play - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2010 from Dr. Diana KirschnerDating Games Men Play 16 Deadly Dating Patterns You Need to Know Now Excerpted from Love in 90 Days By Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. © 2010 Have you ever asked yourself about guys … How could he disappear after he was so totally into me? Why hasn’t he ...
Views: 7447(62 votes) - What Does "Taking a Break" in a Relationship Signify? - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Andrew HunterHave you ever heard those words before? “We have to take a break.” It hits you like a bucket of frozen water. Taking a break inside a relationship regularly means doom for couples, however it really doesn’t have to. What does “taking a break while in the romantic relationship” really ...
Views: 14870(3 votes) - ***5 Must-Know Tips for Boomer Women Dating Online - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDating sites report that their fastest growing segment are people over 50. My clients, women ranging from 35 – 65, are having great success with it. Face it: online dating is the new hot spot for people who wouldn’t dream of meeting someone in a bar. You know I’m a huge proponent of online ...
Views: 1461(1 vote) - Three Resons Why Guys Breakup with Girls - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Andrew HunterMany my women friends ask me why guys breakup with their female partners. I made a decision that this was really quite a fascinating issue. You’ll see other women complain quite often about all the reasons why they suddenly find themselves alone. But I made the decision to dig just a little ...
Views: 4909(1 vote) - The Biological Reality: There ARE Psychological Differences between Men and Women - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Kongit FarrellMen and women think differently - I don’t think anyone will argue that point with me at all! In my work as a therapist, I see males and females totally disillusioned with the selection of mates of the opposite sex to choose from. I think that the problem is largely due to a misunderstanding of ...
Views: 3198(6 votes) - Time for a Change? - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Dr. Dennis NederSo here's the thing, I've been dating this girl for a while now. She's the type that seems like crave attention from other men, so she likes going out to clubs, parties etc. She also likes interacting with men online, flirting and things like that. I can't say I like the way she interacts and ...
Views: 1183(1 vote) - The History of Lipstick? - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Mary Anna DonovanI can hear it now – who cares about the history of lipstick? First, we are still in some pretty depressing and difficult economic times. Second, lipstick is a perfect way to perk up a gloomy day and add some cheap chic to our “wardrobe.” Finally, a brief look at the history of lipstick ...
Views: 902(1 vote) - Ask Maryanne Blog: Addictive love and relationships - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Maryanne ComarotoThe Greeks had five words to describe the different levels of love: eros, passionate love, essential desire and longing, romantic love; philia, friendship, loyalty; storge, natural affection; agape, selfless giving; and thelema, desire or will to do something. In the English language we have ...
Views: 1604(1 vote) - 5 Tips for Love - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2010 from Candace CzarnyIf your focus is on attracting love into your life whether it’s a new love or spicing up an current love feng shui will help you create the energy to make that happen. It makes sense that many Feng Shui tips are going to focus on the bedroom when you want to attract love into your life. And by ...
Views: 1077 - The Only Relationship Article You Will Ever Have To Read (Really) - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from William CottringerThe Only Relationship Article You Will Ever Have To Read (Really) By Bill Cottringer “Good relationships are when your head, heart and hands agree most of the time and besides it doesn’t matter quite that much.” ~The author. Centuries of research would agree that relationships fail ...
Views: 3821(3 votes) - How To Find Your Soul Mate - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from Candace CzarnyMarie sat and looked around her empty home. It wasn’t empty of furniture and possessions; it was empty of another person. Marie wanted her soul mate. Her last relationship was a disaster and after taking time to heal emotionally, she was ready to find the love of a lifetime. Unfortunately it ...
Views: 1649(2 votes) - Love - How To Find , How To Keep It - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from Candace CzarnyThough we hear that all we need is love, why is it so difficult to find the right woman or the right man? While it can seem as though we might never find the perfect person for us, this is far from the reality of relationships. There are many happy couples and many more happy married couples. ...
Views: 923(1 vote) - Dating Advice for Men: The Dating Power Gap - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Angel DonovanLiaisons and dating is undoubtedly the most important part of our life. Almost all our conversations are about them. They affect us emotionally more than most things in life. We get more dismayed , mad , convivial and educated through relationships. But it is the most 'bungling' area of our ...
Views: 1234(3 votes) - The Dance of Intimacy - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2010 from Darlene LancerThe relationship duet is the dance of intimacy all couples do. One partner moves in, the other backs-up. Partners may reverse roles, but always maintain a certain space between them. The unspoken agreement is that the Pursuer chase the Distancer forever, but never catch-up, and that the ...
Views: 7588(3 votes) - Rejection From Women - How to Get Over It, Under It, And Around It - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2010 from Chris TylerRejection from women. For some guys, the mere thought of getting rejected by a woman is almost more than they can handle. The catch is, if you really want to be successful with women, you have to be able to deal with it. Yes, the guys that ARE successful with the ladies, they get rejected from ...
Views: 1922(2 votes) - How to Prepare for Life Long Love - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2010 from Torri GriffinMany people spend their lives searching for that ONE TRUE LOVE--that one love that will satisfy all their human longings and fulfill all their needs. For most, that is expected to be created by one relationship that completes them and satisfies all of their love needs for the rest of life. They ...
Views: 2265(5 votes) - Overcoming Approach Anxiety - Overcome Your Fear Of Rejection - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2010 from Chris PadgettApproach anxiety is the only thing keeping most men from love, unwavering confidence, and true happiness. Unless you start overcoming your approach anxiety, you could be lonely for a long time to come. When I first started approaching women, I suffered from the same problem. Sometimes even ...
Views: 1993(2 votes) - How to Beat Anxiety: How To Meet 'Quality' Women Without Fear Of Rejection - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2010 from Chris PadgettApproaching women can seem daunting to any man who doesn't know exactly what he is doing with women. If you are letting your low self-esteem with women stop you from meeting the kind of women that you really want to meet, then you could use some approach anxiety advice, too. Learn how to beat ...
Views: 1375(3 votes) - Get the Love You Desire and Deserve - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from Candace CzarnyFeng Shui Love Advice Love is something that all of us want more of in our lives. Whether it is from friends, family or an intimate partner you can never have enough love. With a few simple Feng Shui tips, you can not only support the love you already have, but you will also be able to ...
Views: 901(1 vote) - 3 Way to Beat shyness and Improve Your Life - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2010 from Kate IrwinShyness can have a huge impact on your life. It can stop you socialising, getting on at work and generally living the life you want to. Do you often feel like there is no way to overcome your shyness? Have a hopeless feeling that stops you taking all sorts of opportunities? Take heart! ...
Views: 1741(2 votes) - 7 Ways for Women to Improve Confidence and Get More Out of Life - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2010 from Kate IrwinIt seems almost everyone would like to improve their self confidence. Women have so much to juggle it is all too easy to see why self esteem and self confidence can plummet - it is just not possible to do everything. Here are 7 small things that every woman can do regularly to improve ...
Views: 1525(2 votes) - Here Are 8 Online Dating Tips to Success - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2010 from Francis HoseinOnline dating can be good when you put into effect these simple ideas for finding your soul mate. 1) Taking your time It is important that you take your time to learn about your online partner so taking your time is necessary. Taking your time helps you to feel secure, and to learn ...
Views: 1123(1 vote) - How to Attract a Taurus Man - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2010 from Annie SherwoodOne of the best qualities of a Taurus man is his down-to-earth reliability. He can be counted on always to be the anchor in the storm. This can be a wonderful trait in a long-term relationship, but it can create some difficulty in starting a fire at first. You will have to be the one to move ...
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