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Yaa has been in a relationship with Kofi for three months now. When she met him, he used to drink occasionally. Now, she has realized her boyfriend is drinking more than he used to.
“I think my boyfriend has a drinking problem,” she says. “But I love him and I don’t want to leave him. I want to ... Views: 1003
Hey there, gentlemen (and some ladies, too). Hope things are going well. I've been getting a good number of great questions from you guys, so thanks for that. In the meantime, let's get to this letter, which sets up today's topic by bringing up some excellent points:
"I recently met a very ... Views: 1003
The following question is one I often receive from my clients who are struggling with the specific spoke of relationship anxiety that contains the longing to feel more love, connection, and attraction for their partner (and let’s remember that I use attraction or lack of attraction in the ... Views: 1003
In the quest to find a life-partner, millions have turned to online dating. What was once considered as a sign of desperation has now changed to a platform where lovers meet. It is easy to expect that once you register on an online dating website, you will find a partner in a few hours. That’s ... Views: 1003
Finding a partner for a long-term commitment is a serious venture indeed. First, you have to be honest about your intentions and plans the moment you realize the person you’re seeing is the right relationship material. Second, you have to learn to interpret the signals they’re sending you ... Views: 1002
If you are not sure how to plan your first date, you can always rely on the list of 20 fun first date ideas. Having a great time during your date does not mean that you need to spend money excessively. Fun first date ideas are not always expensive type of dates. Your girl will have a great time ... Views: 1002
Dr Alex here, reporting from the frontlines of human social research. At least that's what I call it when I go out nowadays.
So Friday night I was at this big ol' mixer. I've been co-hosting these for some years now, and they feature recent graduates from various colleges. About 300 people ... Views: 1002
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach, writes... ...
Sara from England asks: “Can Law of Attraction Coaching help me stay positive, expectant and hopeful while I'm attracting my ideal love relationship?~When imagining my dream relationship, how do I keep the faith? Can a Law of Attraction ... Views: 1002
Well it’s that special time of year again. For those of us fortunate enough to be in a happy relationship, Valentine’s Day's a day of honoring the spark that brought couples together.
My wife and I will probably go to ‘Dave and Busters’ at the Ontario Mills Mall. Not the most romantic place, ... Views: 1002
First dates can be some of the most anxiety-inducing experiences people go through. No matter how many you go on there always seems to be that element of concern; will they like you? Will you like them? Are you unknowingly going to have spinach in your teeth for a large portion of the date? The ... Views: 1002
If you don't want to rely on funny pick up lines, and you need real advice to elevate your skills and self-confidence with girls, here are some tactics to set you on the correct path.
You want to take your "game" to the next level, and start interacting with women in a playful, ... Views: 1002
Some people prefer these ways :
1. Smile at everyone you are aware of have no idea all day. When you see a stranger, eye contact is key and smile; you never know who might be watching you. Someone might see you smile in the elderly man who just received on the bus and become enchanted enough ... Views: 1001
If you're single and dissatisfied with the way your life is going, you can turn things around by seeing your situation from a new, more positive perspective.
Many single people are stuck in a "victim" mentality, feeling as if outside forces are conspiring against them to make them miserable. ... Views: 1001
Some years ago, it would be incredulous to think that you could watch ‘models’ perform to your pleasure or a group of people over a webcam. Now, different webcam sites have platforms where most models can create a personal profile or a broadcast channel to entertain their audience by stripping, ... Views: 1001
I think that probably every man can identify with he following sequence: 1) Meet girl. 2) Get along well with girl. 3) Feel attracted to girl and think she is attracted to you. 4) Tell girl that you like her (after getting up the nerve). 5) Girl disappears. 6) Call girl 47 times, but still no ... Views: 1001
Remember our question from Part One: How do I know if I am acting codependent or loving? Also, let’s review our definitions of “codependent” and “loving”:
Love: An intense feeling of deep affection. For the purpose of this article, we will include some more distinctions of ... Views: 1000
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have been "dating" someone for a year to this day. We get along great and enjoy spending time together. He is very romantic. We are both full time teachers and students. We do work in separate schools. I enjoy sleeping over. However, recently I have decided that I need to ... Views: 1000
If you have been going on blind-dates for quite some time now and haven’t yet succeeded in extending a date into a meaningful relationship, you may want to take a careful look at yourself and understand the reasons.
OBSERVE YOURSELF WHILE GOING ON A BLIND-DATE
Looking at yourself doesn’t ... Views: 1000
For Terry Leslie, aggravated by the numerous rejections from women and always facing the challenges of dating women effectively, went on a personal mission in search for an answer.
Men have been trying to figure out what women want for ages. Without knowing what a woman wants, how can you ... Views: 999
I have a problem with my boyfriend of 7 months - I want sex more than he does. We have sex about 2 or 3 times a week, but I want it more. I’m told a lot that I’m very attractive and I've never had this problem with other men.
At first he was very eager, but then it faded. I often ... Views: 999
Nowadays, online dating scam is very common. Among thousands of dating sites, only a few sites offer quality dating and the rest of the sites are used to scam. If you are on those sites or if you want to visit a site for dating then you are at risk. You need to know how to avoid these dating ... Views: 999
Flirting can be seen as a magical black art that comes very naturally to some people while others can be left puzzled by it. The aim of flirting is to let someone know you are interested in them; it is not to try to impress them. If you flirt with someone you like and they like you they will ... Views: 999
Dear Dr. Romance:I read your article on the Age Differences in Dating and found it to absolutely be brilliant. I'm wondering though since I'm dating a younger woman, what tips you have on dealing with that. Thanks. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated.
Dr. Romance ... Views: 998
Dear Dr. Romance:
My ex and I lived in the UK. She dumped me a few months ago and she went to France as an exchange student. She will be back next year, but at that time I will have graduated and left school here, and she will be doing her final year here. so as you ... Views: 998
Do you realize how much work it takes to look pretty? We invest money and time into our craft to look attractive. We spend money on face wash, oil control lotions, skin treatments, vitamins, gym memberships, clothes that sometimes can only be worn once, shoes, stockings, makeup, tooth whiting ... Views: 998
You might not have even expected it. Your boyfriend broke up with you. After the unexpected incident you became conscious that you’ve been left all alone. You started wondering how to get your ex boyfriend back in order that you can bring an end to the pain as well as begin once more to make ... Views: 998
Listening to Celine Dion’s “All By Myself” music gets you into an emotional state of misery. However, life has taught us to hope, that we can find true love. With a lot patience and persistence, you can shake off that idea which limit your choices and eventually find true love in your ... Views: 997
During my years as a dating trainer, I've taught hundreds of men how to approach women in all types of situations. Many of them have been very successful. I've seen shy guys who were scared to approach women turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new girls all the time (even ... Views: 997
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have just read your article "Keys to a Happy Relationship" and would be greatful for some advice. I havn't been with my partner long. We are both in our twenties and we met a few months ago and already live together because it's the only way we could see ... Views: 996
Once you ignored to protect you in one night stand or other sexual trans activity, you are diagnosed with HIV. Your body starts to behave weird and you feel like there’s something wrong. Finally, you decide to take some consultations and take free and anonymous HIV test. You found out it’s ... Views: 996
Dating in South Africa can start on the web or with an unplanned meeting with a person who takes your fancy. However, with the growing popularity of online dating South Africa, it is far more probable that you will meet up with a potential date on the web rather than ever meeting them in person ... Views: 996
1. Send her a postcard with a romantic thought on it. It can be a simple statement like, "You're such a special lady and I wanted to let you know, I'm thinking about you".
2. Here's a great idea. Buy a erasable marker and write, " I love you" on her front windshield of her car. Also, put a ... Views: 996
In a Sea of Messages, This One’s Mixed
Hello Doctor,
I need your advice on a little dilemma of mine. There is this guy that I've known for quite some time now. It started off with just getting together for drinks and then a couple times for dinner, but it's been over a year and I don't know ... Views: 995
There is a chance that many of you have thought in the past about using a private detective to get rid of the possible suspicions you may encounter each and every day. At the same time, people are wondering if hiring a private detective is a moral, safe thing to do. The answer might shock you: ... Views: 995
Online dating was "the thing for teens" back in the early to mid 2000s, however with newer technology such as web cams and new dating sites such as eHarmony, Match.com, etc it has expanded. We are just gonna stick with the Teen Part for now.
Why do People Do this?
The answer to that is ... Views: 995
So yesterday, my team lost in the semifinals of the World Cup.
In a completely unexpected finish, Italy scored in the last minute of overtime, right when everyone expected the game to go to penalty kicks.
Of course, my first reaction was complete incredulity. I mean, that ball didn't really ... Views: 994
When It’s Really YOU and Not Me
We've all heard the popular rejection, "It's not you but it's me." In actuality, we tend to internalize the statement to mean, "There's something about you that I cannot seem to get pass." But before one becomes overwhelmed by self-imposed inadequacy, it's good ... Views: 994
Healing a broken heart takes time. You can’t bounce back as your old self the next morning or even a few months after that. However, it can be done. And it will happen to you in time as well.
The first few stages of healing a broken heart won’t be easy. Sometimes, you’ll feel the urge to ... Views: 994
Throughout my long career as a dating instructor, I have taught thousands of men how to approach women in every imaginable scenario. A lot of my students have been ridiculously successful. I've seen shy guys who were terrified to walk up to girls turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began ... Views: 994
Flaking is one of the most common frustrations that men have when it comes to dating women. I think flaking is something that is just human nature; I guess its procrastinating being lazy etc. I’m sure we can all agree that when we have an arranged appointment to go to an event if you like, when ... Views: 994
Our hearts are encased in protection, layers of materials like iron or brick that create a fortress around our most sensitive selves. When these material first arrived, they came as friends, for our hearts as young people didn’t know how to rest undefended. We needed to harden in order to ... Views: 994
If a woman is attracted to a man, it’s in her best interest
to tell him. Many guys won’t flirt or make it clear that
they are romantically interested in you until you make it
obvious that you are interested too. Don’t over-analyze it,
just go with the flow and realize that ... Views: 994
Attractive women are rare and when you stumble over them the chances are they’ll probably have a boyfriend and even if they don’t they say they will, doesn’t really make sense does it?
But never fear as the following tips are to be used on women who say “I have a boyfriend” and are designed to ... Views: 994
Life is full of ups and down, and one extremely painful being the split up between you and a girl you've loved so much for an extended time. The damage and suffering causes it to become so challenging for you to deal with it in order to find peace once more. All the same, there are things you ... Views: 994
Dear Dr. Romance:
I read your monthly "Happiness Tips" newsletter and thank you your advice. However, I noticed that you try to help resolve or forestall relationship problems. My problem is still meeting a man that I like. When I go out and see a guy I am attracted to, I do look towards that ... Views: 993
If you're a busy professional, looking for the love of your life can be extremely daunting. You heard from a lot of people that true love waits, and that you should sit by the sidelines while, for some miraculous stroke of luck, a damsel in distress or a chivalrous gentleman will come stumbling ... Views: 993
Hey Doc!
I've noticed a trend in my dating life that is really starting to piss me off. It's rare for me to make plans with a girl and to not have her try to cancel on me or suddenly be "too busy" to keep our date. I'm so tired of games like that. Are they trying to see how much I want them or ... Views: 993
When everything is probably available online, then you might wonder why not a partner? Not an improbable question and the idea of which has struck some or other entrepreneur for quite a long time now. Therefore, we nowadays have a profusion of online dating sites which one can avail for every ... Views: 993
The attitude towards live-in relationships in different societies is diverse but its definition is the same almost everywhere. It is a kind of relationship in which a couple lives together without marrying each other and without any legal or social commitment. This arrangement is similar to ... Views: 992
You meet an awesome guy whose friendly, sincere, is charming, and has a good heart. A gentleman to the core, the one you’d bring home to– – –meet the parents. He was the kind of man that you’d think most women longed for and that everyone adores. What seems so perfect going on with your life ... Views: 992