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Access POWER - by Joseph Riggio- Common Listening Mistakes That Cause People Problems - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2008 from Peter MurphyIt is no secret that people often need to be involved in a conversation of some sort as part of their work, and/or family and social life. So, that means talking part of the time, and then listening to what they have to say. For most people, being able to talk and hold up their end of the ...
Views: 3281 - 3 Myths And Misconceptions About NLP - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2017 from Linda CattelanI discovered NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) about 11 years ago. At the time I was looking for ways to de-stress and reduce overwhelm. I stumbled on NLP as a result of a weekend retreat I participated in, in which the facilitators were using NLP techniques. That weekend was life changing for ...
Views: 3279 - Bridging The Gender Communication Gap - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2011 from Sarah RuizLet’s face it men and women are monumentally different in every way, but we need to figure out how to communicate especially since we are in businesses together, partnerships, marriages and even co-parents for our children. We need effective ways to communicate and bridge the gender gap. Here ...
Views: 3279 - ***A New Voice for 2010 Could Be Your Best New Year's Resolution - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2010 from Nancy DanielsWith the start of the New Year and the resolutions we vow to keep, there is one change that can improve your life – both professionally and personally – simply by discovering your ‘real’ voice. Easy to accomplish and guaranteed to get better with age, your ‘real’ voice is deeper in pitch, ...
Views: 3277(3 votes) - How To Qualify Yourself To Be Around People Who Celebrate You Instead of Tolerate You - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2010 from Sammy MaloofWhat is character? Character is who you are behind closed doors when there is nobody else around you. This is who you really are. Integrity is who you are in front of people. People will see who you are before they hear who you are. On a daily basis you need to challenge your character. If you ...
Views: 3273 - Peter Fogel's "Why You Never Want to Turn Your Back on Your Audience!" - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2010 from Peter FogelThere is a major 'problemo' that a lot of speakers sometime fall into when using Power Point. I call it upstaging yourself. 'Upstaging' is a 'technique' that stage actors have been using 'against' each other since Greek times. It happens when one actor moves up the stage which in turn makes ...
Views: 3271(5 votes) - 5 Tips for Having an Uncomfortable Conversation - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Pamela ZiemannThe experts agree that having uncomfortable conversations is the best way to succeed in your business. Timothy Ferriss, author of The Four Week Work Week talks about the importance of having uncomfortable conversations in this current economy and how it relates to small business ...
Views: 3268(2 votes) - Learn how to Play Santoor Indian Classical Music Instrument Training Lessons Online by GAALC - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2015 from Ebba MariaSantoor is a stringed instrument of Kashmir valley. Before Shib kumar Sharma comes to play Santoor the instrument considered as a folk instrument. Now Santoor is very famous and a common Indian instrument. Santoor is known as Shattantri Veena (100 strings instrument). Santoor is the instrument ...
Views: 3265 - Cut Out Your Filler Words - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2009 from Gilda BonannoFiller words include "um," "ah," and words such as "like," "so," and "ok," which are used as a verbal bridge to the next word. These words just fill in space while you remember or think of something to say next. Rather than being effective bridges, they are roadblocks, distracting the ...
Views: 3261(3 votes) - Top Qualities of a Good Anchor - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from Strengths TheatreBack in the day, most college students wanted to pursue a career in medicine, law or management. There were hardly any people who dreamt of becoming anything other than the top three. Later on, the advent of media channels and houses attracted the attention of the youth towards the dynamic, ...
Views: 3248 - Sample Smart Answers To Frequently Asked Interview Questions - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2010 from Daniel ChakrabortyInterview- the word is like a nightmare to a countless people all through out the globe irrespective of caste and creed. Well it might be a natural syndrome to be a little scared of this procedure. A little fear is your friend. It always makes you cautious. You do not make the mistake to take ...
Views: 3243(2 votes) - Spice Up Your Presentation With Vocal Variety - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2011 from Cynthia ZhaiWhat is vocal variety? Vocal variety refers to the proper variations in volume, pitch, rate, pace, etc. throughout your presentation. The purpose of incorporating vocal variety is to add meaning, interest, involvement, and impact in your presentation. What's the opposite of vocal ...
Views: 3240 - 25 Great Articles on How to be Empathetic - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2010 from Gil PizanoEmpathy enables a person to establish a connection with others and is necessary for mutual interaction and full comprehension of the experience. It is probably one of the most important aspects of being a leader in every situation. Without it, a person is virtually guaranteed to become out of ...
Views: 3237(6 votes) - Brand Essentials: Every Leader’s Image-Critical Messaging Tools - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2010 from Sarah HathornWhenever I’m working in a corporate environment and attending a networking event or meeting with my potential “leadership tribe,” it amazes me that the business tools of executive leaders look worn, outdated or overly casual. These are strategic business meetings where everyone present hopes to ...
Views: 3235(2 votes) - Top 3 Ways to Make a Girl Laugh - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2011 from Eduard EzeanuOne of the best effects you can have on a girl is to get her laughing. And there are specific tips and tricks you can use to get a girl laughing and having lots of fun with you. It’s often said that humor is one of the most attractive qualities a man can have. But if you’re a guy who doesn’t ...
Views: 3233 - How to Fix Your Social Life - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2012 from Eduard EzeanuOne thing that’s plain as day to me right now is that your social life contributes immensely to your overall life satisfaction. Sometimes even more than your career or dating life. This is why it’s important to have a rich, active social life. If you’re in a situation where you only have a ...
Views: 3227(1 vote) - Connective Communications - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2007 from Wendy GarridoNSFM introduces the first segment of our series on Connective Communication, or C2, which we developed for kids and parents as a fun, healthy, interactive way to improve communication skills and empower individuals. We want to evolve toward a future of more loving and peaceful families, ...
Views: 3223 - Empower Yourself with NLP - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from Carolyn RigieroEmpower Yourself with NLP If you have ever heard the term Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and its Representational Systems, you probably were intimidated and shied away from further contact! But with just a simple understanding of the process, everyone we encounter in our daily life becomes ...
Views: 3219(4 votes) - DEALING WITH INTIMIDATORS - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2004 from Robert NajemyAt times, we are confronted by people who seek to intimidate us. This offensive behavior is most frequently a cover-up for their fear. Let us investigate why we play this role and how we can communicate with those who behave towards us in this way. 1. As intimidators we seek to control others ...
Views: 3205(1 vote) - Pet Peeves About the Way You Communicate - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2009 from Karen ReismanPet Peeves About the Way You Communicate Karen Cortell Reisman, M.S. The Wall Street Journal dedicated an entire front page of its Journal Report to the issue of pet peeves. The subtitle, adjacent to a pictured unhappy woman ripping her phone in half, asks “Why do cellphone customers have to ...
Views: 3202(2 votes) - Are you the best motivational speaker? - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2013 from Jef MenguinHave you dated someone who knows only one topic. Nothing but himself? A fellow trainer said that Anthony Robbins is so full of himself. That is my friend’s opinion. Tonny Robbins is a motivational speaker not because he is a very good public speaker. He is a motivational speaker because he ...
Views: 3196(3 votes) - How to Develop Listening Skills - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2011 from Liz UramWhat does it mean to listen effectively? It means that you are in the moment and open to the message that is coming your way. When you are listening effectively you are receiving, interpreting, and responding appropriately to the message that is being given. The type of response required, or ...
Views: 3196 - How to READ People: Evaluation - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2011 from Doug GradyE- Evaluation. Once your prospect is within realization (see part 1), evaluation begins. Human beings are evaluation machines. Evaluations are simply questions your prospects are asking which much be answered to their satisfaction before they buy. Your prospect consciously or unconsciously asks ...
Views: 3196(1 vote) - The Handshake, a Mightly Communication Tool - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2004 from Jan NoyesA handshake is often part of that all-important, made only once, first impression. Introductions can produce some anxiety when we aren’t sure what to do. Rules are more lax than they used to be, but following these guidelines helps to avoid anxiety and creates an atmosphere for building ...
Views: 3191 - Conversation Tips: What to Do When You Forget Someone’s Name - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from Tracey BennettYou’ve just met this person at the office, and 2 minutes into the conversation, oops! Her name flies out the window of your memory. When you’re talking to your neighbor, you forget her name, too. Welcome to the club. What are you going to do now? Begin With These 3 Tips: 1. Stay calm. 2. ...
Views: 3182(3 votes) - Handling Criticism - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Greg BakerPeople will criticize you for all sorts of reasons. And if you take any sort of stand, good or bad, you will be criticized for it. But how you deal with it is a key to retaining sanity and an even disposition through life. I pastor a Church. I have my own opinions about God, religion, ...
Views: 3171(1 vote) - "Don't Wipe Your Dirty Feet On My Mind" - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Susan FoxleyThe monk just finished clearing and purifying his mind with meditation, and decided to have a glorious walk with one of his students. On the walk the student began to spew arrogance, pride, vulgarity, and vanity. The monk quietly said,”please don’t wipe your dirty feet on my mind.” When ...
Views: 3166(2 votes) - 8 secrets of speaking like a native English Speaker - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2012 from Susan (Teacher Su) McKenzie8 secrets of speaking like a native English Speaker. Are you prepared to do what it takes? 1. THE SECRET You have to be prepared to do what native speakers do. Are you prepared to do what native speakers do? 2. ENGLISH ENVIRONMENT English speakers have an English environment: radio, ...
Views: 3163 - Leadership Effectiveness: The Power of Communications, Motivation, and Emotions - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2010 from Brian WalshEffective leaders see more in other people than people see in themselves, and one of your objectives as a leader is to bring their talents to the surface. Understanding the three fundamental elements that affect performance will build team loyalty and cohesiveness. These elements are ...
Views: 3156(4 votes) - Surviving Tenure - Ten Lessons the TV Show Survivor Teaches Strategic Perspectives - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2009 from Kathleen KingEvery time I share my analogy of tenure to the TV show Survivor™ faculty colleagues start laughing, nodding and poking each other like school children. Why do they react this way? Because the comparison strikes home so squarely and exposes the extreme pressure, high costs and yes, some, absurd, ...
Views: 3148(3 votes) - How to Smile - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2012 from Andre ThunaFrom the time we are children we learn the great spirit of a smile, whether it is our own creation of art work and the joy we feel, or watching the performance of a clown, we realize the satisfaction that a smile brings. A smile is one of the greatest attributes of a person and it is important ...
Views: 3145 - I'm Just Too Nice: The Truth About Passive Behavior - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2013 from Janet PfeifferPeople often tell me, "My problem is that I'm just too nice! That's why I get hurt a lot." But what they perceive as a case of terminal politeness, I see as an issue of passive behavior. Don't misunderstand: most of these people truly are nice. But those who are yes people, who don' t disagree ...
Views: 3142(3 votes) - Communication in Recovery - Ten Steps to Fair Fighting - by Submitted on May 24, 2009 from Peggy FergusonUse the following ten steps to replace old, ineffective arguments with an effective fair fighting session: 1. Fight to resolve an issue or solve a problem. 2. Identify the problem to be solved. 3. Take turns stating your case, using I messages. 4. Practice active listening. 5. Generate ...
Views: 3139(1 vote) - How to Increase Your Earning Potential - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2011 from William WuDo you think you are underpaid? You might consider to change your job. But before you do that, it's worth to do some research to see if, and how, you can improve your earning potential and negotiate a pay increase in your current job. How a boss Determines Your Value There are some factors ...
Views: 3139 - Introductions and Mingling: How Do I Conduct Myself? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2019 from Rita RockerMany people are uncomfortable mingling during business networking or other public events. Are you one who is often worried about what people will think of you? The easiest way to get around that is to put our focus on "them". How? First of all, look for people who appear somewhat lonely, ...
Views: 3139 - WHAT TO EXPECT IN ADRIAN MORRISON’S SOCIAL COMMISSIONS PROGRAM - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2013 from Adrian MorrisonAside from being a best-selling author, successful entrepreneur, and effective motivational speaker, Adrian Morrison is also a software developer. One of his latest creations is the Social Commissions program. The Internet marketing program is designed to train newbies and professionals alike, ...
Views: 3137 - Communication Tips that Work - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2009 from Carole Hodges1. Listen to other people. The most successful people let others talk more than they do. Use questions to expand the conversation beyond small talk. Ask probing questions to elicit a person’s dreams and passions. Uncover ways that you can contribute to others and take action immediately. 2. ...
Views: 3130(7 votes) - Preparing For Your Next Job Interview - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2009 from Leon EdwardWhen you're in search of a new job, the first thing to do is to check out the job listings available in your area. You can look for job listings in your local daily and weekly newspapers, employment centers and of course, increasingly the web is a good resource for finding a job. However, ...
Views: 3125(4 votes) - SOCIAL MEDIA PROFITS FROM HOME: MAKING MONEY THROUGH SOCIAL NETWORKING SITES THE ANTHONY MORRISON WAY - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2013 from Adrian MorrisonSocial media marketing is an aspect of Internet marketing wherein income is earned through various social networking sites. These sites include Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, LinkedIn, Foursquare, and Google+, just to name a few. Online advertising probably wasn’t one of the major goals of these ...
Views: 3119 - ***Color in Public Speaking Does Not Refer to What You Are Wearing! - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2011 from Nancy DanielsOne of the requirements for dynamic speaking, whether it is at the lectern or just in normal conversation, is to be expressive when you talk. This is known as color and refers to your vocal variety, facial expression, and body language. All three elements work hand-in-hand to make your ...
Views: 3109(1 vote) - “Water Cooler” Conversations That Promote Success - by Submitted on May 06, 2009 from Holly True VerretHave you ever walked away from a conversation with a co-worker that left you feeling anxious or upset? Do you ever find yourself in a conversation with co-workers where everyone is complaining, but you don’t know how to exit the conversation or how to turn it into a positive one? Do you find ...
Views: 3086(1 vote) - Five Tips to Help You Improve Your Social Skills - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2008 from Laurie WilhelmThere are many different social skills and the impact they have on other people varies. Acting on two or three "easy" skills isn't enough. The best results are achieved when several skills are used in combination with one another. The expression "the total is greater than the sum of its parts" ...
Views: 3084(2 votes) - Cubicle Culture: Etiquette in Open Office Spaces - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2012 from Diane CraigIn any office, it is important to be respectful of others’ workspaces, as well as mindful of the presentation of your own. When your office layout is composed of cubicles or is an open environment, considerations of space and conduct are doubly important. As a component of the shared office, all ...
Views: 3081 - Improve Your Communication with Body Language - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2011 from Joel SeahBody language is a reflection of a person’s non-verbal communication. It includes movements or expressions that are so subtle the person may not even be aware of it themselves. Albert Mehrabian conducted a research in 1971 and concluded that there are three elements in any face to face ...
Views: 3079(3 votes) - Public Speaking 101: Owning the Stage - by Submitted on May 11, 2009 from Marc AdamsNo public speaker should ever forget this important fact! “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” You have most likely heard that quote before, and it is true. If you are a speaker who wants to be a dynamic and exceptional communicator, then you need to start ...
Views: 3055(1 vote) - 4 Stress Management Tips for Effective Relationship Communication - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2009 from Joshua UebergangNot enough time, boss pushing for work to be completed, children are loud, bills to pay, shopping to be done, housework to do, partner asking for your help... and to top it all off you're suppose to be nice to people by communicating effectively with them? Yikes! If you're like me, you find it ...
Views: 3053 - Influence - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2010 from Eugene Yiga“Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire.” – Confucius There are a lot of ways to get what you want, some of which are simple and others a little more complex. In this day and age, the principles of persuasion are crucial. We’re often called upon to make arguments and win ...
Views: 3050(7 votes) - 10 Tips For Learning Whiteboard Selling Skills Online - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from Milly SonnemanHow can you get the most out of learning whiteboard selling skills in online? Create a total training immersion approach. Find out 10 best bets to boost conversations, ignite sales discussions and improve results--without leaving your home. For years, sales professionals have relied on ...
Views: 3047(1 vote) - Secrets from Teleprompter Pros - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2009 from Stephanie ScottiWatch any skilled speaker on TV - a celebrity, news commentator, or political leader - and chances are, much of their seemingly "effortless" delivery is due to practiced use of a teleprompter. It's also likely that, at some point in your role as a professional communicator, you'll be called ...
Views: 3046(2 votes) - Getting to Yes - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2012 from Tina TessinaThe average person pays more attention to what she's saying or thinking about than what she is hearing, or how her words are "landing" on the other person. This self-involvement gets worse during an argument. You can become a much more effective communicator by using "attentive speaking" a ...
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