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“To open or not to open, that is the question.” Shakespeare is probably rolling in his grave at my lamentable misuse of his famous “To be or not to be” but these days “To open or not to open” IS the question. And it is driving most of us absolutely crazy.
It was one thing to engage our ... Views: 898
Have you ever noticed that there appears to be more than one person inside your head?
There’s you and then there’s this other voice observing everything you’re doing and sometimes that voice does not have good things to say.
EXAMPLE:
I have been in the real estate business for over ... Views: 897
I was on a coaching call recently where we discussed learned helplessness and how it plays a role in our lives.
If we don’t all have learned helplessness so deeply embedded in our psyche then why is it so easy for most of us to say “I can’t” when faced with a challenge that takes us outside ... Views: 897
Even in lieu of factual evidence, when uncovering another side to Mary Mother of God, so many Catholics are reticent to embrace this new reality about Mother Mary. Definitely, Change would be the main part of this equation. Some might be in Fear of taking away or removing in some way, the ... Views: 896
Last week we started our conversation about procrastination. It’s something I struggled to overcome and could have gotten in the way of my dreams. Hearing the honest truth, that I didn’t have the discipline to complete my dissertation, was tough to hear. But sometimes it’s tough love that is ... Views: 895
Do not wait till the harsh business storm strikes your company; relatively, always consider what to do better or next. Like, what're what exactly you will need to set up position to make certain organization development? What point is your organization on the business information, that is, in ... Views: 895
“Believe in your infinite potential. Your only limitations are those you set upon yourself. Believe in yourself, your abilities and your own potential. Never let self-doubt hold you captive. You are worthy of all that you dream of and hope for.”
― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart ... Views: 895
Connecting is about your ability to engage in a way that leads to trust, belief, joy…it’s this physiological shift that occurs when people feel like they are heard, understood and cared for. You want to connect in a way that you create a reputation and are memorable. It’s not just who you know, ... Views: 894
By Frosty Wooldridge
Gossip remains the mainstay of social media, sewing clubs and emails worldwide. Humans love talking about someone else more than the weather. They choose rumor, tattle-tales, speculation and allegation over facts, truth and reality.
Gossip may be called “The ... Views: 894
Ok lets be very clear about this, a ‘belief’ doesn’t mean it’s a fact – it’s actually only your perception of the truth and this can be changed, with some work.
One great example of this is our pre-programmed beliefs about money – most of us have inherited negative beliefs or bad vibes ... Views: 894
Be the best you can be by Beth Shepherd psychic.
To be the best you can be can be as simple or complicated as you choose. And it depends on how complicated you and your life already are and how much more you want. If your idea of a normal life is a big family, lots of friends, hobbies, ... Views: 893
Son: "I am in deep stress!, I am feeling very depressed since the last few days. I don't feel like doing anything. Help me! Mom!" Mother, "We will visit psychiatrist in the evening and you will get immediate relief,"
Stress & Depression are modern enemies in the existing world. Previously ... Views: 893
Life keeps changes. So the peoples are. But life in your 20s are the totally different than other stage of life. Most of the people around you notice a change in you ,a positive life changes that are due to 20s Age. They found that you are not the one which you were earlier.
Here are some ... Views: 892
Results are everything. We can’t deny the fact that there are a lot of people who only think and look at results. Sometimes it irks us to no end to meet and know that people close to us are like this even though we are, at times, like them as well. It has been ingrained in us that there is ... Views: 891
People Skills Win Over Knowledge
Research proves Mom right!
By Connie Timpson/Keynote Speaker/Instructor/The Leader’s Institute
As a journalist I got to do a lot of really cool things, like ripping a hole in the clouds with the The Blue Angels. It was easy to talk about “tearing across the ... Views: 891
Today I was reminded of an acting class I was in about 20 years ago. During an improv set in an art gallery, a fellow actor pronounced Manet as "Man-eht." He said (and truly believed), "In America you pronounce French names differently." I not only pointed out the correct pronunciation, I made a ... Views: 890
We live in a modern age where the use of our imaginations is so important to making a success of our lives. Any new idea that is dreamed up, whether it involves a new invention, the writing of a song or the design of a new car, they all involve the process of realising the power of the desire to ... Views: 890
Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek. -Barack Obama
Wow…what a great quote from our president! He is one of many influential people that have used change to move mountains and make a ... Views: 889
“One of the tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon - instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.”
Dale Carnegie
How true is that? How many times do ... Views: 888
Most people start off with a simple divorce case, or one that could probably become simple if handled right. However, such cases don't usually stay simple after an attorney is retained.
Divorces tend to be fairly sensitive, so it doesn't take much to stir them up, but lawyers and the legal ... Views: 888
Sandy came to see me to be hypnotized to quit smoking. As we talked, she indicated that she'd tried everything else, and this was a last resort for her. If this didn't work, she was going to give up. Unfortunately, that was the message her subconscious got. Not that she wanted to stop smoking, ... Views: 888
Sometimes we clutch the past so tightly to our chest that it leaves our arms too weak to embrace the present.
Each of us – I bet all of us – are clutching tightly to some things from our past, whether they are beliefs we cling to, or fears, or insecurities. Or maybe we hold onto self-talk ... Views: 886
Life is all about choices. We choose to be poor or to work hard to elevate ourselves to greater heights in life. The great change a man can have depend on how bad the man want to change. Wishing to change alone cannot bring about any change, but taking a determined effort to change for the ... Views: 885
Pretty much everything in your external world has come from the vibrations you send out from within. If this is new to you, bear with me on this one, I know it can sound a bit wacky, but it’s not and this can really change your life, when you begin to work on it. When you have a feeling or an ... Views: 884
You signature is just as important as your appearance as they all impact negatively or positively on your personality. And since you must have a matching signature for every document that you sign, it is important that you spend time learning the knowledge of making your own ideal signature. To ... Views: 884
Do you know the quote, “If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten?” A preacher’s wife restated this in a way that made me take notice.
Once again, I woke and channel surfed to the early-morning religious program. A preacher interviewed his wife; and though I’ll ... Views: 884
Really smart people can draw accurate conclusions, right? In fact, as we go through high school and enter the work force or perhaps continue onto college we are taught that having strong opinions and being able to draw quick conclusions is the mark of intelligence.
Someone asks you, “What do ... Views: 881
As if aging isn’t enough of a worry, now I have to quit complaining or worry about impacting my wife's intelligence. A recent online article mentioned that research shows that exposure to too much complaining can actually make you dumb. ... Views: 881
Is patience still a virtue in our almost-instant gratification world? Here's why just a little patience can help you make better decisions.
In our fast-food, fast-fashion, fast-paced, want-it-all-now world, it can be easy to wonder if patience is truly a virtue. It often seems so easy to get ... Views: 880
Birth of the human is the first triumph of every person. All of us now are breathing on this earth as the only luckiest one out of 400 trillion who failed to get born by not meeting the right sperm to the correct egg. From that day onward, we have been trying to continue our victory or success ... Views: 879
Do you feel as though you are maximising your full potential? Or is there something holding you back, but you just can’t put your finger on it? If yes
Then you may well have developed a limiting belief in your life or more realistically several!
So what is a limiting belief? A limiting ... Views: 879
“Those that are succeeding and are thrilled and joyful in the unfolding will often tell you, ‘I've dreamed this since I was little. I imagined it, I pretended it, I used to practice with the hairbrush pretending it was a microphone.’ Purity is the alignment of energy. Doesn't matter what anybody ... Views: 878
One of the greatest qualities for anyone to cultivate is the quality of being resilient. I think this is especially true for someone in business for themselves.
The dictionary says resilience is: capable of withstanding shock without permanent deformation or rupture, tending to recover from ... Views: 878
There are huge advantages to doing your own divorce, but to be successful you'll need recent and reliable divorce books or kits created specifically for your state. The key word is reliable, because I've seen a lot of divorce books that definitely do not qualify.
In particular you should ... Views: 877
Are you tricking or treating yourself? What kinds of things do you say to yourself throughout the day? Are they loving or hurtful? Do they motivate and encourage or paralyze and frighten you?
And what about those things that others say to you? How do you interpret them? So often we put a ... Views: 876
MY FAVOURITE PLACE IS SHIMLA BECAUSE IT IS VERY BEAUTIFUL CITY , IT IS SURROUNDED BY MOUNTAINS AND HILLS. SHIMLA IS A CAPITAL OF HIMACHAL PRADESH AND SHIMLA IS ALSO THE SUMMER CAPITAL OF BRITISH INDIA. HIMACHAL IS ONE OF THE MOST SAFEST PLACE FOR TRAVELLERS IN INDIA WHICH HAS FAMOUS PLACES FOR ... Views: 876
I recently completed a 30km cross-country skiing marathon – a real stretch for a girl who lacked confidence and skill in high school athletics. But this journey wasn’t about competing; it was about
completing… and contributing. My efforts were inspired by a desire to raise funds for my ... Views: 875
I have a resistance to change in things that I feel comfortable with and that I'm used to. Dennis Quaid – American Actor
As I write there’s some great guys making a back garden out of a jungle and one in the front sand blasting clean my paving. Both jobs have needed doing since I don’t know ... Views: 873
What does it mean to "have an attitude of gratitude"? What is gratitude? How can gratitude change your life? Gratitude to me is being grateful and thankful for everything in our lives. This includes the people in our lives, the lessons and challenges in our lives, the things that bring us joy ... Views: 873
This question is thrown around a lot and many different people have different views about it. Particular people would answer yes it is, whereas others would answer no even saying that it is too old!
In America the driving age is 16, some believe that it's better for younger people to be ... Views: 873
It may seem counterintuitive to have any trust when it comes to business ventures during this time of crisis. This may be especially true if you have suffered setbacks that are related to somebody that you trust who is not coping well with current circumstances. The importance of patience and ... Views: 873
A quick Google search shows a listing of ten examples of scandals in the Catholic Church. Yes, scandal’s presence from the past to the very present day is all-pervasive.
Most of us would probably associate the word secrecy to the topic of scandal, though it’s very meaning includes the word ... Views: 873
‘Maximising on available time to get more results’ is one of the mantras of today’s generation. Living on the edge and performing 24/7 seems to be an exciting concept but in reality, does multitasking really works? does it bring in the desired outcome? Do people achieve extraordinary results? ... Views: 873
"I must say, I don't feel very qualified to be a pop star. I feel very awkward at times in the role." ~ Edward de Bono
As we live our lives, we have the option of playing a lot of different roles. Some we choose. Some, we just seem to slide into, like the role you played in your family. We ... Views: 873
Ahhhh food. In many situations it’s an incredibly pleasurable experience. Yet, some food is not so pleasurable. There are foods that are actually stress inducers.
You might not have thought of food as a stressor before, but here is some food for thought: The last two decades have produced a ... Views: 872
Unfamiliar with the city and location where I was to speak, I added the address to the GPS before leaving home. Arriving in the conference city hours later, I turn it on and dutifully followed the route that chirped at me from the device. "That's odd," I thought as the directed turn took me away ... Views: 872
If there was one thing that proved to be my biggest challenge or most difficult obstacle during my rugby days it was consistently having the correct mindset- that mindset for success.
You’re hear it time and time again, but it really is true
Having a positive mindset is the silver bullet ... Views: 871
It's a common mistake to associate manners to being nice, kind and enjoyable, but Truly Rich Club only describes it in one word “EMPATHY”.
Empathy is knowing another person’s experiences and emotions; it's beyond sympathy that is understanding the feelings. It is seeing things the way others ... Views: 871
Do you know the best way to get a simple divorce in California? The simplest way is to get one by default. Before I tell you how a default divorce works, let me explain to you what it is. For those of you who already know, you can skip the next paragraph, but for those who do not have a clue ... Views: 871