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Last spring, a Robin flew against my window in the morning, luckily the Robin survived, but strangely he didn’t learn from its painful experience. The Robin immediately flew against the window again and again and again.I was truly puzzled by this little bird’s behaviour.
I searched the ... Views: 998
Early in the year, everyone talks about planning, changes, moving-forward, transformations, and some interesting and well-meant resolutions that seldom come to fruition. However, how about “Freedom”? Yes, freedom to be who you are without feeling the “need” to please anyone but yourself?
I ... Views: 811
What is the Difference Between Involvement and Commitment?
This is by no means a trick question. When it comes to your Success in life are you Involved or are you committed? Many people get frustrated with life; they get ticked off when they think of their current situations or place in ... Views: 1725
I’m watching ‘American Idol’ again and am often asked WHY in astonishment. The show remains a great metaphor for how to create your life and actively participate in it – according to your dream.
Stephen Covey says to begin with the end in mind. All the kids dream of being the ‘next American ... Views: 1198
Somewhere along the line, back when you were working your way up the corporate ladder, someone probably gave you advice.The advice made sense at the time, you followed it, and today you’re the owner, leader, or manager of your organization. Congratulations! Now is the perfect time to take a ... Views: 1305
We humans invest huge amounts of energy, time and resources trying to create a sense of certainty and security. Uncertainty can terrify us because it threatens the control we believe we have over life, and so we cling to those things that are supposed to bring us certainty, and refuse to ... Views: 1533
It is not always easy to say exactly what you are thinking. You want to, you really want to; and then...there is this big BUT that holds you back. And then, there are those times, when you say exactly what you want to say, and it turns out to be the wrong thing with dire consequences. So what ... Views: 1047
Hoping for a good future without investing in today is like a farmer waiting for a crop without planting any seed. John Maxwell – Today Matters
Develop Long Term Perspective
Many people in today’s fast paced society get caught up in the rat race and forget where they are going or what they ... Views: 1193
"It is only through your conscious mind that you can reach the subconscious. Your conscious mind is the porter at the door, the watchman at the gate. It is to the conscious mind that the subconscious looks for all its impressions."
— Robert Collier: Self-help author
Are you hoping that your ... Views: 7210
Many of us are raised into believing that humility, modesty and inner values are virtues. — And that those are superior and contradictory to being vain, selfish, and superficial.
That money not only can’t buy you love, but it’s the root of all evil. That we’re not supposed to think too highly ... Views: 1352
Are you traveling through life or are you on a journey? Are you looking forward or at the past? Your answers reveal a lot about the direction you’re going in and what kind of experiences you’ll have.
Maybe you can relate… It was a major life change for me to move from New York City to my ... Views: 1780
I was listening to an audio from the Healing with the Masters series (http://www.healingwiththemasters.com/audio.htm) by this guy John Assaraf whom I have never heard of before. I was multi-tasking and didn't hear every word he said, but this question he posed to the listeners called out loudly ... Views: 1775
I recently had one of those life flashbacks that can make your stomach turn. For me, it was all the complaining I use to do. I would whine about the injustices of my life. Raising my fist to The Big Guy and exclaiming how could you do this to me.
It was easy to sit around and do nothing ... Views: 1481
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, is that one size does not fit all, and I don’t mean clothes-wise, I mean, people-wise. We get into new relationships with certain expectations, only to be disappointed (some times.) - Why? Because ONE size doesn’t fit all. Not one person fulfills all your ... Views: 927
I flew to Houston recently to do one thing: test drive a Spyker, a hand made exotic super car from Holland.
It was a departure from my usual way of doing things. I never take a day off to fly to another city just to see a car. But it felt right. It felt like I almost couldn’t stop myself from ... Views: 1066
If you want to finally start moving towards the success you want to invite into your life. It is time to stand out from the crowd and go the extra mile. As long as you allow yourself to remain trapped in your comfort zone. A place where you are, neither content, nor fulfilled your life will ... Views: 2733
Are you proactive or reactive when faced with life’s challenges? Throwing your hands in the air and acting as if you have absolutely no control over what happens doesn’t do any good. That’s being reactive and staying stuck. To be proactive, take the initiative, take action with steps to face ... Views: 1472
Anyone who has been marketing online for any period of times knows you have to use many different methods to achieve a solid outcome. Most everything will fall into two primary categories; push marketing and pull marketing.
Online push marketing is literally “pushing” information to your ... Views: 1553
When I was a little girl, my Mom used to tell me that I was “remarkable” and it made me feel very special. Then I heard her say the same thing to my school friends, my sisters, and so on. When I called her on it, she explained that in her world, every child was remarkable, every one of us had ... Views: 1085
When I meet my clients for the first time, the majority of people actually know deep down what they SHOULD be doing, but they are not moving forward due to fear of what COULD happen. We often fear the worst if we change a habit or behavour fearing that other people won't like it or that we ... Views: 1456
I can remember what it felt like as if it were yesterday to be hiding out in my massage therapy and acupressure business in that uncomfortable comfortable place. I wasn’t attracting enough clients, and was terrified of promoting myself and putting my expertise out there for the world to see. So ... Views: 1395
Recently, out of a coaching session I had with my own coach, I was asked to write down all the expectations I have of myself. I am a bit of a perfectionist, and this tends to come up time and again. I put off the assignment for several days, but knowing my coach would ask me about it, I sat ... Views: 1836
In the winter, if your car can't get traction on an icy patch, your tires will spin and spin when you accelerate.
If you get really freaked out about being stuck on the icy road and keep stomping on the accelerator, do you get more traction? Does your car move forward? Not usually.
How ... Views: 1382
Arsenal football club, one of the most famous and wealthiest clubs in English football, has a large fan base. This soccer club has defeated many long-standing rivalries and has earned acclaim around the world. For Arsenal football club fans, it is now like a dream come true to achieve some ... Views: 130
Thinking about probable tomorrow had been a subject of study for over two thousand years, when Chinese historian Ssu-ma Chi'ien (145-90 BC) analyzed social patterns. In 1901, the English writer H. G. Wells published a series of writings by which he tried to imagine the 2000s world.But it was in ... Views: 849
DO YOU HEAR a growing rumble in the distance? Chalk it up to the coming the Baby Boomer Express, an enormous number of older folks in this country getting ready to retire.
In fact, every 7 seconds an American turns 50 -- more than 12,500 people every day, the U.S. Census Bureau ... Views: 2543
Many years ago, before I had any sense of spirituality, a friend of mine, a practicing Buddhist shared with me that most of us are constantly immersed in thoughts that are driven by hopes and fears. Think about that for a moment … My thoughts coalesce around either fear-based monologs or I’m ... Views: 1565
Noticing is the most powerful tool for cultivating awareness and for bringing valuable spiritual concepts to the workplace. Most importantly though, is having the intention to notice, in order to notice whether you are noticing or not.
Notice, for a moment, what is occurring within your work ... Views: 1460
One evening as I was laying in bed, preparing for a restful night of slumber, a voice from inside my head said: “I want to live my own life?” I was shocked with this outburst as I am one of the most independent individuals I know; I live a thousand miles away from my husband, on a secluded ... Views: 1478
Xenophobia is defined at Wikipedia as “an unreasonable fear or hatred of foreigners or strangers, or of that which is foreign or strange”.
My sense is that we are all xenophobic. We are all wary of new people, new things and ideas that, though proven by research to be effective means to ... Views: 1404
Stepping out of your comfort zone is the norm for competitive athletes. Highly motivated athletes are expected to train harder, perform better for optimal results. High performance is easiest under ideal conditions.
If you’ve been competing for any length of time, you know conditions are not ... Views: 1523
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Think About This ... Listen to your voice of adventure!
Max Lucado, Imagine Your Life Without Fear
"There is a rawness and a wonder to life. Pursue it. Hunt for it. Sell out to get it. Don't listen to the whines of those ... Views: 1039
Benjamin Zander, author, motivational speaker, and conductor of the Boston Philharmonic, often quotes his father as saying that "there is no bad weather, just inappropriate clothing."
I live in southern coastal New Hampshire, about an hour north of Boston, and when each winter brings day after ... Views: 1308
I have before about emotional hygiene and doing the necessary maintenance on feelings as well as your physical body and household. Health reminders tell us to wash our hands frequently to prevent transmittal of diseases. Did you know you can “wash” your mood, too, and give yourself an attitude ... Views: 1952
I have written in this column recently about emotional hygiene, and doing the necessary maintenance on feelings as well as your physical body and household. Health reminders tell us to wash our hands frequently to prevent transmittal of diseases. Did you know you can “wash” your ... Views: 1642
Attitude might not exactly be everything when dealing with conflict management, but it sure plays a big part. The most productive attitude in addressing disputes, especially in the initial stages, is one of letting go of resentment toward the other party. Regardless of what events have ... Views: 1207
If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment. -- Marcus Aurelius
Do you know when Marcus Aurelius said that? Almost two-thousand years ago! And yet, it still bears ... Views: 541
Attitude Is Everything
If you don’t adjust your attitude, your life will continue as it is today. Oh yes, you’ll have periods when it seems like you’re better off than you were a year ago and then Bam! You’ll realize you’re exactly the same. Nothing has changed. That’s because your bad ... Views: 1937
Attitude is Everything!
With a change in your attitude you can change your life! In my Principles of Prosperity free seminar I talk about attitudes and how they contribute to your overall experience of life. The bottom line is that our success or failure begins and ends with our attitudes ... Views: 1252
"If you are distressed by anything external
the pain is not due to the thing itself
but to your own estimate of it;
and this you have the power
to revoke at any moment."
-Marcus Aurelius, 171B.C.
We are fortunate to live in a time when science and holistic health practitioners are ... Views: 1326
When you think about stress management, what do you think of? Do you picture white sandy beaches and azure blue oceans? Do you think of soothing music, candles, and a warm tub? Or perhaps you are picturing yourself laying on a plush leather couch while you free-associate about your childhood. ... Views: 1665
How many times have you heard these three famous words?
Attitude Is Everything!
Me? I’ve heard this repeated literally thousands of times.
Every self-help guru, motivational speaker, loving parent and CEO on the planet teaches and preaches how important having a positive attitude is.
And ... Views: 1432
Overcome A Major Fear
A major source of stress in your life is the "fear of rejection" or "fear of criticism." This fear of rejection manifests itself in an over-concern for the approval or disapproval of your boss or other people. The fear of rejection is often learned in early childhood as ... Views: 1053
ATTITUDE VS COMFORT ZONE
Since the great majority of us already know what attitude is, let us talk about comfort zone:
Comfort zone is the mental place surrounded by borders in our mind where we feel secure. Even though this comfort area and its boundaries are just a state of mind that has ... Views: 1541
Consider this: 80% of all success is attitude and yet, very few people (a small percent of 5% of people on earth) can really define what attitude is - how it was formed, how it works, or how to go about changing it.
Your attitude is about your mind. Attitude is about mind power. Attitude is ... Views: 1160
“Whether you are 15 or 50, your attitude will always be under construction”- Anonymous.
Your attitude could be your best friend or the worst of enemy. Whatever the situation is, how you take charge of it will decide what outputs you will receive. Your attitude gets stored in a repository and ... Views: 924
Attitude. A great word and it reflects in every aspect of our lives!
"And we have ceased fighting anything or anyone -- even alcohol (or other addictions or destructive behaviour).
For by this time sanity will have returned.
We will seldom be interested in liquor (Or old behaviours).If ... Views: 1738
• Did you know that 75% of employees are unhappy in their current job?
• Have you ever thought about how your attitude affects…
• Personality and work performance?
• Your employees, your customers, your relationships and your work environment?
• Workforce ... Views: 16734
Possibly the greatest obstacle we face in achieving success in anything is our own "negative thinking!" Self-sabotage has stopped more people from living a life filled with passion. We ask ourselves to many questions in the wrong context. You never know how really good you are until you step out ... Views: 1637