This past winter I was watching a football game with my husband and the TV camera panned across the stadium. A whole section of fans raised large foam fists with extended index fingers and shouted “We’re #1!” That moment got me thinking about what it means to be number one. Regarding what? To ... Views: 2004
I’m Larry Crane. Here’s a question I’m hearing over and over from my subscribers…it seems to be on everyone’s lips. The question goes something like this: “I’ve heard of something called “letting go” as the secret behind The Secret. Can you ... Views: 2126
One of the things that keeps us from moving forward in our lives is our tendency to hold on to things that no longer serve a purpose. This can be in any aspect of life--certain activities, thoughts, feelings such as worry, relationships, jobs, objects, your past.
Everything that we attract ... Views: 3012
A Red Cross Responder’s Notes from the Monument Fire, Arizona
Since the fire people have asked what life in a shelter looks like. The following is my take.
From outside the shelter at night you could see orange flames peek beyond the mountains turning the black smoke above them to a red ... Views: 2278
“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” These words, written by Chinese philosopher Lao-Tzu, are as true today as they were in the 6th century BC. Every undertaking –long or short, simple or complex – starts with action. But what is it that inspires us to get into action ... Views: 5707
The desire for life meaning resonates deep within each one of us. We want to believe that our lives have purpose. We yearn to make a small difference in the world. But life is messy and unpredictable. Often life seems to fall apart despite our best efforts. We experience a profound loss of ... Views: 3306
The other day I was driving in my car and a dashboard light came on that I had never seen before. I thought to myself, “I’m WAY too busy to deal with a car issue – I don’t even have time to stop and check it out.”
Fortunately, I had the owner’s ... Views: 2161
It seems likely that humans, and even some other species of mammals, have consoled others forever in history with food and other comfort at times of loss and grief. There have been many long standing traditions and examples throughout history and in many diverse cultures of this custom. This ... Views: 2237
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Loneliness is a huge problem in our society. It doesn't have to be this way.
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A study "followed nearly 45,000 people ages 45 and up who had heart disease or a high risk of developing the condition. Those who ... Views: 1736
“If I had known I was going to live so long, I’d have taken better care of myself”. (Eubie Blake, celebrated ragtime pianist, 1883-1983)
Are you interested in living a longer, healthier, happier life? Would you like to avoid chronic diseases, feel better and stay younger for longer? ... Views: 2277
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We have often wondered over the years if the “stuff” that makes marriages work in the Judeo-Christian tradition around the world applies to marriages in predominately Muslim countries. Our first country in which we interviewed married Muslim couples ... Views: 2007
Here are words from Lester Levenson from the recording Willpower, Part A.
“Whether you are aware of it or not, you are creating matter all the time. Whether you want to be a creator or not you are.”
“Nothing comes into your experience unless you had a thought of it at some ... Views: 2109
If you are reading this, I’m guessing that you want to change some aspect of your life. While you cannot change everything in your life in one moment, you can change the direction in which you’re headed. As with everything else, I believe that the way to have a rich and ... Views: 1649
WHY DOES SELF-DOUBT REAPPEAR AFTER PERSONAL GROWTH?
You’ve done so much work on yourself, and you love yourself more than ever. You began with the baby steps, like “I deserve a treat today!” Then you progressed through “I deserve better than that!” and “I really am OK just like I am!” You ... Views: 5235
By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
November 07, 2016
You have a much better chance at conflict resolution when you are loving yourself rather than trying to control the other person.
One of the questions I often receive is about how to manage conflict. If you think back to the role-modeling you ... Views: 1289
Machiavelli and his book, The Prince, may be among the most notorious and derided authors and works in history - attacked by the church from day one, and to this day, synonymous with deception and cloak-dagger-politics, espionage and subversive trickery. A closer read may reveal something ... Views: 7186
Even the most successful people have experienced periods when they have been confused, disillusioned, and discouraged. Yet these very people have overcome trials and tribulations to triumph and victory because they have chosen the right attitude.
When we feel discouraged and stressed; when ... Views: 2300
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Today, we were on an hour show with a “blow-torch” radio station, talking about love, relationships, and Valentine’s Day. We had a blast!
It is always fun reaching the folks with our positive message about our more than 30 years of research on ... Views: 2764
Many people don't believe in the adage, "Do what you love and the money will follow," and, consequently, they spend years in unfulfilling jobs. They know, deep inside, that there is more to life (and to work) than what they’re currently doing, but they don’t believe that they can actually make a ... Views: 5130
There is a tendency to see the onset of hair loss in men as a lifetime sentence in a prison of baldness. But this kind of thinking is not a reflection of reality. The belief that hair loss is a permanent condition is only true as a self-fulfilling prophecy, and no one has to live in this prison ... Views: 3358
Mammograms are inaccurateexcerpt from Breast Cancer? Breast Health! the Wise Woman Wayby Susun WeedAvailable at www.wisewomanbookshop.com
Low-radiation mammograms are safer mammograms, but less radiation means a fuzzier picture. Standard x-rays-rarely used any more for breasts-create ... Views: 1397
Mammograms don't replace breast self-examsexcerpt from Breast Cancer? Breast Health! the Wise Woman Wayby Susun WeedAvailable at wisewomanbookshop.com
Women find their own breast cancers most of the time. (Ninety percent of the time according to one English study.7)
Monthly breast ... Views: 1584
Every month it’s the same thing. You’re bloated, tired, cranky, fighting cravings, and trying to get rid of headaches. You wish you could be like your friend or your sister, who seems to just breeze right through her cycle with little or no problem. Take a look at your diet and see if these ... Views: 1876
No matter how seasoned and successful you are, you still may experience disappointments and setbacks. Here are tips to empower you.
Read this several times:
No one is immune from experiencing career setbacks, disappointments and regrets and making mistakes big and small.
Setbacks come in ... Views: 2426
Ask any mother who's been there, and almost every woman will agree trying muster up energy every day to take care of new children and young kids is a mountain of a challenge. Add onto that task maintaining a job as well, and it's no surprise mothers are completely stressed out and high ... Views: 2314
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Our recent trip to France reinforced for us something we already anticipated – marriage is alive and well in France.
Recently, we again traveled to Europe to conduct more interviews with successfully married couples for our new book entitled, How ... Views: 2072
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We know very well how important it is to rebound in a timely manner from a failed relationship. Of the thousands of couples we have interviewed over the past 30 years on all 7 continents of the world, many of them were remarried after suffering ... Views: 2642
Living in the modern world can be stressful. It’s your choice. A choice you make many times each day when you choose how to react to things that happen. There’s no shortage of research proving that it’s HOW we REACT to life’s events that determines whether we experience stress and how much ... Views: 1400
Every person in an office struggles with focus and fighting off distraction. For a business owner or entrepreneur, the challenge of finding and holding focus is critical each and every day. While the cost to a company might be significant if staff are surfing social media all day, the cost to a ... Views: 4122
When families are thinking about providing a college education for their child, they need to have a plan.
If you were driving from New York City to Los Angeles you would need an interstate map or a turn by turn navigation system. With out some sort of navigation guide, you may encounter ... Views: 4295
Divorce can really knock your self-esteem for a loop. When you’re in an intimate relationship with another human being, a huge sense of who you are and your self-worth is tied up in the relationship. When that committed relationship ends, the degree to which you’re reliant on someone ... Views: 5101
There are two facets to medical identity theft; one is financial and the other involves your health care. Medical identity theft happens when a thief uses your social security number or health insurance to obtain medical services and health care benefits –including prescriptions, without ... Views: 2081
For over 30 years, I have been meditating. For almost as many years, in workshops, consultations, friendly conversations, and writing, I have been encouraging, teaching, or leading people to meditate and create quiet times. During this time, the world has changed considerably, and so have I. My ... Views: 1394
If you ever wondered what it was that made your ex-partner leave you for someone else-they met their emotional needs. You look at the other person and comment how they aren't as beautiful as you or how they don't take care of body as you or anyone else you know so why did he choose her. She met ... Views: 2375
Mel Gibson strikes again, and this time, his disgraceful tirades have been caught on tape and released for all to hear. His behavior has generated a domestic violence investigation and some surprising discussions amongst celebrities, some whom are more upset about the tapes being made public on ... Views: 3291
“Pay attention now,” Grandmother Growth says, taking your hand and holding your gaze. “The Change known as menopause deserves your full attention.”
“Pay attention now, and relax. Focus, allow, observe, surrender. Your egg basket empties; your memory basket grows heavier.”
“Memories are ... Views: 2381
Plants feed us, clothe us, house us, heal us, and kill us. There’s no way around it, when you use herbs, you need to be alert and aware. Here are some ways to be sure you’re using herbs safely.
Identify all plants you intend to use by botanical name (e.g., Leonurus cardiaca). Only buy herbs ... Views: 2518
Mental And Physical Fitness has never been more compelling as it relates to heart disease,stroke,cancer,and healthy diet.
The purpose of this site is to provide a forum for those experts in their respective fields to air their views.
According to the American Heart Association, heart ... Views: 3575
The majority of mental health practices are deeply rooted in the medical model, knee-deep in the latest edition of the DSM to provide diagnostic labels and entrenched with pharmaceutical solutions. And much of this is aided and abetted by the insurance companies who look to quantify and contain ... Views: 2932
Mental Health VS. Emotional Health-Are they related?
The direct correlation between mental health versus emotional health is a bit like talking about apples and oranges. While they might both appear to be identical, they are not actually the same thing at all. Most people would tend to ... Views: 19924
Mental Photography gives clear recall to events:
What if you see something of extreme importance to you and everyone else. You saw it on the TV. You also know many other people saw the same thing. The truth revealed is ‘too good to be true‘. But it really is true. So, you tell ... Views: 3426
A few years ago, I was part of a mastermind group for coaches, lead by a highly successful coaching school.
Many new coaches had questions about what to focus on as a newbie to get going and start earning money from their new passion. They wanted to learn how to recognize the priorities and ... Views: 3862
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***MicroAgressions - by Martha Lasley, Virginia Kellogg, Sharon Brown, Richard Michaels
Excerpt from Coaching for Transformation
Any real change implies the breakup of the world as one has always known it, the loss of all that gave one an identity, the end of safety. And at such a moment, unable to see and not daring to imagine what the future will now bring forth, one clings ... Views: 8504
You know how it starts -
• you’re driving at night and a headlight blinds you, and you can feel it coming… that migraine pain you know so well…
• you’re in the mall and the spotlights in the jewelry counter catch your eyes the wrong way and instantly you’re in pain…
• too many hours on ... Views: 3001
It’s one of those nasty truths that migraine sufferers know all too well: when you don’t sleep well, you get migraines, and when you have migraines, it’s often really hard to sleep. So the question becomes: What can I do?
I personally have always had the kind of migraines that chain for at ... Views: 3086
More people today will choose natural, herbal and alternative therapies to treat Hepatitis C. Many sufferers want to avoid the horrible side effects of interferon and liver transplants that may not show a complete cure by eliminating the virus. In these later stages the solution is usually a ... Views: 2296
I once received an invoice from my former bookkeeper. The amount didn’t seem accurate so I contacted him to inquire about it and was shocked at his reaction.
He became defensive and said, “If you don’t trust me then perhaps it’s best that we ... Views: 1740
When I was a kid, I was moody. When I was moody, I was fated to get in some kind of trouble that got me in hot water. When I got in hot water, I felt resentful, and would say to myself, “See, life is tough; I can’t do anything without everyone jumping all over me. No wonder why I’m so ... Views: 2694
What are Mental Snapshots?
Mental snapshots are a simple, wonderful self reflective motivational exercise to see which areas of life are going really well and areas where things are just not where you want them to be. Completing the exercise will show you a portrait of your life right now-- a ... Views: 2582
In your busy, daily life, time management is important, and productivity is at a premium. So doesn’t it make sense to multi-task whenever you can? Who wouldn’t want to be doing two things in the time it takes to do one?
Well, actually … multi-tasking is often exactly the opposite of what ... Views: 2695