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The idea of value and purpose is linked to the concept of discovering a greater good, a mission, or a higher calling. Most people know the story of Mahatma Gandhi. But most people only know his story after he became a prominent figure. He was born into a middle class family. He had low ... Views: 2572
Every country and culture appreciates gratitude for good deeds, yet today we have grown so busy that we neglect to show appreciation. Although we all learned those warm words of thank you as a child, our world is filled technological advances that have replaced the simple and kind “thank you” ... Views: 1496
In a recent article on the Alabama-LSU football game, I stated, "a fumble is simply a recovery waiting to happen." It was as though Dont’a Hightower heard me, because he sacked Jordan Jefferson, LSU's quarterback and caused a fumble in the fourth quarter of the BCS Championship game. The ... Views: 1712
You are not here merely to make a living. You are here in order to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world, and you impoverish yourself if you forget the errand.
- Woodrow Wilson
Some time ago I ... Views: 1917
Sometimes goals and resolutions are empty and disembodied from our spirit and soul. No wonder they fail! Often they are not authentic; they are not true to who we are. If a goal is not something you fundamentally want, if it is not a decision made by your authentic self, you will be fighting ... Views: 1519
When we look at people who have made a name for themselves and have accumulated an abundance of wealth, we should ask ourselves...
"What are they doing differently that makes them so rich?"
Some people might say that they were born with certain talents. This may be true, but that's really ... Views: 1630
The key to real success, as we saw in the previous article in this series, is neither what you have, nor what you do. So what is it? How much time have you invested in contemplating this crucial question?
First Reflect on Your Answer
If you haven't already come up with your answer then ... Views: 1622
What is success?
I ask this because it is a interesting thought exercise. What is it?
How do you define success?
Is it the money we earn? Is it being happy? Is it the sense of accomplish that we experience after achieving our goals?
Is it defined by the number of relationships and ... Views: 941
“So what is your why?” asks the man sitting next to him. Paulo was sitting by his departure gate at the airport waiting for his flight to arrive. It was his first business trip after his first son was born. He was a bit nervous about it but knew that his wife, Alicia, was more than capable of ... Views: 650
For anybody to have success online as a business entrepreneur you must possess a certain self awareness along with the right mental attitude! Being successful online in most cases will involve you either taking the right actions or making the right decisions or both. With this being said it is ... Views: 714
The fundamental secret of success, as you saw in the previous article in this Secret of Success series, is your choice of what to be.
Every time is different. There's no one answer or even a right answer to this crucial question. It's always: What am I this time? (I am, you are and he is form ... Views: 1613
I admit it. I'm frustrated. I'm tired of getting emails from people who write, "I can't do what you did because ---."
Just fill in the blank with whatever excuse you can think of.
People say they can't write as many books as I have because they don't have the time, or they're too old, or too ... Views: 1177
When you have a goal or dream in mind, do you ask yourself where the best place to start is? The answer is in the question: Where you’re going.
You’ve seen floor plan maps in public places like large malls, stores, or office buildings that let you see where shops, offices, or sections are ... Views: 1132
You argue when you both decide the other person is wrong. Two people are needed to argue, yet stopping an argument actually only requires one.
You both insist you are right, which causes the argument. And from the viewpoint you each have on the issue, both of you are right. But are you ... Views: 1282
Very briefly and simply about what prevents us from enjoying life.
Why can't we taste life?
Imagine you are eating an apple. But watch the movie. When your attention is focused on the storyline, you stop feeling the taste of the apple being eaten. And here in your hands is a stub from an ... Views: 733
One day a friend of mine asked me to teach him how to hunt. I politely refused, saying that I could offer him more.
In view of the fact that he had a whole month ahead of him in Sloboda, I did not want to deprive him of the opportunity to master the technique of self-study. After all, this is ... Views: 632
According to UK Government statistics and numerous studies by universities, less than 20% of all companies achieve sustainable growth. Why is the number so low? What stops the majority of companies achieving growth?
I spoke to Roderic Michelson, a company growth expert from Aralex Consulting. ... Views: 1130
Who is currently the best men's basketball coach in NCAA Division I? There are certainly quite a few candidates worth considering but any conversation on the subject has to include Tom Izzo of Michigan State University. Here are some of the things Coach Izzo has accomplished at MSU as of Spring ... Views: 5002
I was drawn to a posting made by an inspirational friend on Facebook recently; she drew my eye to the subject of ‘regret’. Now this is a subject that I have expressed opinion on before.
Anyway, my mind is inclined to work overtime, become supercharged once stimulated, and just before entering ... Views: 1243
“When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.” - Harriet Beecher Stowe
Think like a Billionaire
I am fascinated by ... Views: 919
Cherokee Indians have an interesting insight on your internal motivation which can change your life. They say two wolves live inside everybody : a black wolf and a white wolf!
The black wolf feeds on negativity, it lives to bring you undesirable experiences. It's the enemy within, also known ... Views: 2102
I got the idea for this article one day as I watched an older sitcom on TV. In the program a man was really pouring on the charm as he sought to create a relationship with a woman who was a housemaid. He thought that her self esteem needed to be boosted because when he met her and asked her what ... Views: 1377
To boost visibility for business and amplify conversions from search traffic, Small and Medium Size Enterprises (SMEs) need frequent and genuine online reviews from their new as well as old patrons. Interestingly, SMEs have a more flexible business model, than established brands, which enable ... Views: 662
Is there such a thing as failure? You can only fail if you choose to give up and stop trying. As long as you are pressing on, taking action and trying to achieve anything, all you have encountered is an unresolved roadblock, challenge or difficulty. These unresolved challenges, roadblocks or ... Views: 1936
Life is difficult. What an awesome start to psychiatrist Dr. Scott Peck's seminal book, The Road Less Travelled.
So Much to Learn!
Life is also complex, so much to learn and so many rules to follow. There are so many laws and regulations on the books in America it's been said that, reading ... Views: 1385
Achieving anything needs personal power which comes by increasing your awareness, as we saw previously in this Change my Life series #6. So how do you become more aware?
Start Noticing
Start by noticing more. The more you notice, the more you realize there is to notice. As the brilliant ... Views: 1756
You do all kinds of things which are necessary in your life. Yet one thing remains common and that is your consciousness, a golden thread running through all your actions. Your body changes and your actions change, but you're there unchanged.
When you change your context by increasing your ... Views: 1723
Do you disagree with other people much of the time? This is not to ask if you're generally disagreeable, that's a separate question for some other point in time.
The Negativity of Disagreements
Whenever you find yourself disagreeing with what someone else is saying, or with one of their ... Views: 1333
Be Logical
Our society teaches that it's right to be logical and, when dealing with the outside world, being logical is indeed very valuable. There's always at least one opposite, and logic deals very well with the opposite. You can change your life by investigating the possibilities and ... Views: 1463
I’ve been running my Personal Development Workshops for the last fifteen years and, during that time, I’ve met plenty of people who, for one reason or another, wanted to change their life. I’ve all sorts of reasons – from the proverbial midlife crisis to the career crossroads, from low self ... Views: 3034
Self-responsibility both reflects and generates self-esteem. People with high self-esteem feel that they are in charge of their lives. They have a sense of agency and self-efficacy. They take responsibility for their feelings, actions, and lives. It also means that you take responsibility for ... Views: 2967
It is true, and the first thing you have to do, is to make up your mind that you're going to do it, no matter what it takes. You are also going to have to ignore the friends and family members who will try to tell you that you cannot do it. Can you imagine that some people who are close to you, ... Views: 3675
How healthy are your boundaries? Maybe you think about this directly and often, maybe not. Boundaries weren’t something I personally spent much time thinking about for many years. I’ve often related to the concept of boundaries in a negative way. Of course I’ve known they’re important, ... Views: 1672
Are they really a Master? Have they been through all the five steps to mastery themselves? Or are they just pretending?
Do They Have the Wisdom of Experience?
An author who has no experience lacks credibility, his articles have no authenticity. Yet his pretense of expertise is not ... Views: 1552
OK, this is an old joke, so forgive me if you've heard it. A psychologist is giving a talk and describes how every couple has its own unique frequency of making love. She then asks people in the audience to state how often they have sex. Hands shot up as she called out "Once a day?" "Several ... Views: 2279
You want success in whatever you choose to do, and the secret of success is to adopt principles which enable you to be successful.
The old adage says that all roads lead to Rome, and it's indeed true. But it's generally not explained that some roads are more direct than others, they'll get ... Views: 1677
One would think that such an enormous task like organizing a life would take days, weeks, even months. But 30 minutes! What’s the catch?
So often we allow our minds to over-complicate things. It really is a very simple process to organize your days, in a few short steps. Once you’ve ... Views: 1068
10 Techniques to Instantly Shift Your Energy
Learning to balance your energy is an essential key to success and happiness. During times of great change or challenge it can be a daunting task to stay centered and positive. When the things that we see as permanent begin to crumble it is common ... Views: 2044
From CEO’s to entrepreneurs and entertainers to parents all over the globe, we are constantly in search of ways to boost productivity. To put it simply, we want to get more done each day. For some this goal is rooted in the desire for greater abundance while for others productivity is the ... Views: 4338
Whether you are in business for yourself or working for someone else, you need a vision for your professional life. And that vision should incorporate your personal aspirations as well. (We often act as if we are multiple people- one individual lives our work life and another lives our ... Views: 2452
The growth and success of your business depends on building trusting relationships with other people. Ask yourself this one simple question:
Do my words pull people towards me or push them away?
This question requires a willingness on your part to honestly evaluate how you use your words ... Views: 1955
Failure is something we all face in our lives. I've sure had my share. I remember in the mid-1990s, I had worked myself all the way from a sales person to Marketing Director to COO of a thriving company - only to discover that I really did not like that position. So I did something radical. I ... Views: 2944
The word ‘focus’ is often used in the context of success. We’re told, for example, that highly successful people are better focused than the rest of us. We hear stories about athletes or sports people who are totally focused. Surely, if either you or I could get some of this focus, at the ... Views: 1771
You've probably heard or read some of the nerve-wracking headlines that have been leading the financial news. The gloom and doom includes "Caterpillar, Inc. Joins Other Large Corps Warning of Recession." "Broad Profit Woes Spark Stock Plunge On Recession Fears." "Shares Tumble as Fears of ... Views: 1240
Success comes from doing what you want and desire in life. It is living your life to the fullest and being who you really are. You will find that as you do this all else falls into place, things begin to happen, and the obstacles fall away. This is because you are doing what you are meant to ... Views: 1281
Life is based on decisions. Either you drink a glass of coffee or you write for five minutes longer. Either you put the money in savings or you go out for a nice dinner. Either you ask for the divorce or you keep trying for one more year. Decisions.
Often they hurt, but that's a good sign. ... Views: 1361
If you're looking for a guaranteed way to win the lottery (other than purchasing every ticket available), you won't find it here or anywhere else. But there's another kind of luck, and it's not the "luck of the Irish." You have it within your power to create your own luck. Real luck is about ... Views: 2376
"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work." ~ Thomas Alva Edison
Having lived most of their lives with the inconsistency, unpredictability and undependability of life with ADHD, it is incredibly common for adults with ADHD to view themselves as “failures”. Because the ... Views: 3225
Your self image is the opinion you have about yourself. Just like how you would form judgments about others, you can also view yourself in a certain way. The problem is that many people do not have very positive self images. They can judge themselves pretty harshly. A negative self image ... Views: 5560
"To change my life, I have to make a change in my life." This made so much sense to me when I first came across it! One of my goals was to change my life and, since you're reading this article, I guess it's one of yours too. My list was rather long, how about yours?
You want life to become ... Views: 2016