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A torn piece of land, not quarter acre in size. A bite of dust on the horizon, a place of the unknown. It looked shallow in its attempt to reach the sky, yet underneath the earth I knew was a mountain just waiting to be born.
A small frame and size, my garden is but a land of possibilities. ... Views: 1275
As I leave my teens behind and await turning 20 in a few months, I thought I'd pay a tribute to the world and give a little insight into what I've learned so far. Here are some of my personal life hacks or lessons learned that I'd like to share in the hope that they can benefit others ... Views: 972
The future times are going to be direr. This is the opinion of great intellectuals of the world. In the Christian text Bible a description is given of “Seven Times” which is akin to world annihilation. This present time corresponds to it. In Islam religion it is said that a great calamity will ... Views: 2284
A wintry mix of snow and rain forced me to cancel our monthly fashion sewing group meeting recently. In doing so, I imagined that some people would take advantage of this found time and put the pedal to the metal to whip up something on their sewing machine.
I had all good intentions of ... Views: 847
Remember playing car-racing games at the arcade, trying to stay on the virtual road while going as fast as you can? In those videos, sharp curves keep switching and obstacles suddenly appear, causing you to crash and burn if your reactions aren’t fast enough.
It may be fun to play a game, ... Views: 778
Whether one is working with a professional in the field of psychology, or one is working on one’s own internally to resolve disturbances and inner conflicts, attain peace, or achieve balance in one’s life, certain basic knowledge is required. One needs to understand the complex nature of the ... Views: 487
Our life feels so fulfilling when our mindset is positive, whereas negative thoughts and feelings drag us into suffering. So if our mindset is already negative, we should look at changing it into positive, at the earliest.
What can we do to bring about this change? Let’s see…
1.Fight ... Views: 987
Negativity Not Allowed - Determined Optimism
It seems like every conversation I have had with someone lately, they have brought up the terrible state of the economy. I’ve started off many conversations with my friends this week with the sentence, “No negativity allowed.” I refuse to accept ... Views: 1986
It’s an interesting time of year once Christmas comes and goes leaving many...”hopeful,” for the new year ahead.
Across Facebook and many other social media platforms you see post after post about what a shit year it was and somehow we are left to believe that with a flip of a month in the ... Views: 832
Are you too tired… too stressed …too everything?
Are you filipendulous (hanging by a thread)?
Do you frequently want to curl into a fetal position from overwhelm?
Welcome to 2015, where the pace will be quicker. Y-e-s, quicker, so, hold on, lovies. Here are a few tips to help you ... Views: 1229
Reality is a story you tell or repeat in your mind over and over again. What appears to be your reality, is a mental story, a string of thoughts, playing on loop in your eternal Now.
In every one of your Now moments, you are generating an image of your life complete with all the characters you ... Views: 1229
OMBIVALENCE: as a state of mind and body; a philosophy. A statement of personal reality; I am ombivalent.
Ombivalent: (ombi-valent) pronounced om-biv-a-lent
ombi ( from the Swahili meaning “request”)
om (aum) of the Hindu; representing the divine energy united in its three ... Views: 2485
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The smallest of tangible conventional achievements are celebrated – getting good grades, cracking college, jumping on a new job, pacing to a promotion, etc.
These milestones of a “normal” life are placed under harsh scrutiny, ... Views: 606
[If for you the breath is associated with trauma and discomfort, you probably shouldn't try this practice in its form below. But you might adapt it to something that is more nurturing for you, such as a saying or image.]
Breathing brings you home. Body and mind twine together in the ... Views: 289
People are people all over the world. Success is overrated in most instances after all, what standards do we use fro measurement of success yours, mine' or countless other philosophies? Who's right, who's wrong or could it be that it takes a combination of all of the above to create global and ... Views: 1281
Online therapy - also known as e-therapy, e-counselling or cyber-counselling – involves a therapist providing support over the Internet. But does it work? How does it compare to face-to-face therapy? And is it worth a go?
Firstly, does it work? The short answer is yes. Much like face-to-face ... Views: 1243
“It won’t work!” “It can’t work!” “No way, no how!” So basically what we are really holding in mind, is, “What’s the worst that can happen?” Clearly this is not how an article should begin if it is titled "Only the Best." And yet, this is what most of us are doing, most of the time. We ... Views: 1638
Life has a way of wearing on you. Sometimes things go your way and sometimes they don’t. Regardless if life has knocked you down, or someone has, it is up to you to get back up! One million bad things could have happened to you, but it is up to you to stand back up. When you do get back ... Views: 1069
THE ART OF OPENING THE INNER EYE
Hello spiritual warriors! I am grateful to be part of this wonderful community of sharing and inspiration.
I was in Canada for 3 weeks visiting family and friends. It was nice to go back and get new perspectives on self, life and others. Stepping out of my ... Views: 938
How we relate to others can shape how they feel and how we feel. We can determine our orientation and that affects the relational field we create. There is a positive openness that we can offer that is supportive for the other person. It will affect how the other experiences us and how she/he ... Views: 1136
By "sobriety," I mean healthy self-control, a centered enjoyment of life, and an inner freedom from drivenness. We typically apply this sense of balance and self-care to things like food, drugs and alcohol, sexuality, money, and risky behaviors. And if you like, you could bring sobriety to other ... Views: 1040
The first thing you can work on to make the coming year a great one, is your belief system. Your belief system has the power to create and destroy your life. The way you view life and everything in it (people, events, information, circumstances) is all interpreted by your belief system. So, if ... Views: 1176
As a therapist, I’m always working to find practical, easy-to-use and quick solutions to problems my clients are having. One of the conditions most appropriate to treat with quick techniques is anxiety. While working with my anxiety clients, I’ve found a five-minute technique that works ... Views: 9890
Fighting a legal battle is challenging. Often, it can be very difficult to stay strong and positive both in and out of court. To arm yourself for the conflict, prepare mentally in advance to mount an effective defense for the best chance of success.
Organize the facts
Sometimes a criminal ... Views: 1194
Humans are meant to feel and experience a wide range of emotions. Growing older has taught us that not everything is as bright and sunny as it seems. While we hope that the good days outnumber the bad, each experience is integral to our journey.
As we navigate through the ups and downs of ... Views: 61
Negative thoughts
“We live who we believe we are”
Tony Robbins
I have recently enrolled in the part-time Psychotherapy program at Transformational Arts College here in Toronto (Thanks for the recommendation GY!). Part of the reason I enrolled was the realization that throughout my ... Views: 1489
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection”
― Gautama Buddha
I used to suffer greatly from a bad case of self-criticism, in my teenage years, it was so severe that I could never ask a girl out on a date. I feared that she’d say “no” and I’d ... Views: 1179
Sometimes such times appear wherein like epidemics unwholesome activities/behavior are on the rise and like a gigantic creeper grow uninterrupted. Despite having no roots this creeper grows fast and in a short time span a full grown tree gets covered by it. There are worms that grow on plants ... Views: 775
I had a client the other day that was feeling overwhelmed, not good enough, and experienced a need to have all details taken care of and everything in its place. That worked for her when she didn't have any children, and when she was just taking care of her husband, her home and worked full ... Views: 1039
Hypnosis has and is still being utilized for all kinds of various reasons. Did you know that it can also be a helpful technique for pain control?
Hypnosis is just another technique you can use to rid your body of pain by employing numerous hypnotic methods, that stops the pain indicators from ... Views: 1166
It’s becoming more and more apparent, the older I get. Everywhere I look, there seems to be pain. There is physical, emotional and spiritual pain. All pain is definitely inevitable.
Those who choose to live in pain due to their choices will someday realize that the word P-A-I-N stands for: ... Views: 2219
House moves are among the top five most-stressful life-changing events a person can experience, alongside the divorce, sudden unemployment, loss of a family member and long-term illnesses. There are many reasons behind the need for home relocation, some good, some not so much but once started ... Views: 1062
What is patience? Basically, patience is waiting with difficulties. It's confidence in yourself, with a good feeling of hope. It takes place during some difficult circumstances.
When a person says to himself calming words such as “it's going to be ok”, “every thing will be alright”, “I ... Views: 27707
I’ve been dealing with a lot of unwanted changes, and it’s not easy. Losses, disappointments, changeswe all struggle when life doesn’t go our way. Why is it so hard to handle change? Then there are the changes we want to make, fight hard to makelosing weight, giving ... Views: 1330
From moment to moment, the flows of thoughts and feelings, sensations and desires, and conscious and unconscious processes sculpt your nervous system like water, gradually carving furrows and eventually gullies on a hillside. Your brain is continually changing its structure. The only question ... Views: 351
How to know the truth about any issue or decision.
All of us every day, multiple time a day are trying to figure out what is the right thing to do, what is the best decision for this or that. Regardless of whether it’s your job or career, in every job or career there are decisions to be ... Views: 1244
Today I had the privilege of being posted as a "MEET MARSHALL". Privilege?, well, let me re-think that one. . . OK, so I was "assigned" to be a meet marshall. Unless you are involved in swimming yourself, or a parent to a swimmer, the term is probably just as foreign to you as it was to me. ... Views: 885
PERMANENCE
OUR STORY OF WHO WE ARE
THE ILLUSION
Yesterday opportunities came to visit- opportunities to embrace the ways in which I was introduced to my own assumptions of what would always be? Intellectually, should I be asked-does anything last forever, I would have said no. ... Views: 1059
Comparing ourselves with others is unfortunately part of the human condition, although some do so more than others. Living on this planet amongst billions of other people naturally results in their being people who are living completely different lives from you. It is, to a certain extent, ... Views: 1033
Comparing ourselves with others is unfortunately part of the human condition, although some do so more than others. Living on this planet amongst billions of other people naturally results in their being people who are living completely different lives from you. It is, to a certain extent, ... Views: 1104
Metaphysical teaching through the ages has proposed that fostering a certain mentality will connect us to the esoteric and the supernatural. Meditation, positive affirmations, focused breath and movement, are all spiritual practices which guide one to develop a sense of inner connection to the ... Views: 2482
Perspective on a Positive Attitude
Based on the happenings in my personal life over most of the almost 51 years I have been on this Earth, I would say the major “life lesson" I have learned is this (as my motto states on my www.HubPages.com bio): "You create your Universe with your ... Views: 1306
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Most people assume their personality type is written in stone, but that may not be the case. Pessimism, a personality type is characterized by ... Views: 1258
I've always liked lizards.
Growing up in the outskirts of Los Angeles, I played in the foothills near our home. Sometimes I'd catch a lizard and stroke its belly, so it would relax in my hands, seeming to feel at ease.
In my early 20's, I found a lizard one chilly morning in the mountains. ... Views: 410
In life, everything is connected. Be it our health, wealth or relationship, if one of them takes a hit, the other two suffer as well. Here, however, we shall be talking about the aspect of relationships and how we can maintain them successfully.
Hello, I am Rabbi Pinchs Gold, and I will be ... Views: 623
This blog is unpunctuated allowing you to expand your wisdom in a free flowing way. Because punctuation stops the flow of the vision in the subliminal landscape.
Pizzazz-Zing Terra Incognita
Eye unleash my courageous curiosity unlocking my enterprising energies to explore my pizzazz zing ... Views: 1195
My dad is turning the BIG 5-0 soon. Usually, my dad will use his birthday to throw a party, inviting our extended family members and his close family members, as an opportunity to get together and foster bonding. As it is a big event, the planning takes place at least 2 months before the ... Views: 631
There is a special type of head line that is long, extends straight across the hand and terminates about ½ inch before the edge of the palm. See a picture at www.AcademyofHandAnalysis.org under Articles. Check your own hands to see if you have one. If you, or someone you know has one, ponder ... Views: 2179
The personality of person is mainly a habit, a way of life of that person. If a person is fit and carries a personality of a sportsman then it can be directly related to his habit of daily workouts. These habits start developing is a person right from his childhood. A child sees his parents and ... Views: 599
During my rugby career I was always looking for ways to keep ahead of my competition and perform at the optimum level possible. Whether it was experimenting with different fitness and training methods, nutrition and diet, or various mental training methods and techniques I explored every ... Views: 827