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- Family Meetings - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2012 from Tina TessinaEvery member of your family has a right to have his or her opinions respected. You don’t have to agree or go along with what your child wants, but you should at least know what it is, and your child should know why you're overriding his or her preferences. Regular family meetings, where ...
Views: 1896(2 votes) - Advice to Parents: Things You Can Do To Decrease the Likelihood of Your Child Being the Victim of a Sexual Predator - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2012 from Jay Tow, M. S. Counselor, Life Management and Relationship CoachAn article by Jay Tow, M.S. Certified Sexologist Much has been written and discussed about the things we can teach our children in order help them avoid being victims of a sexual predator or molester. We all know about staying away from strangers and good and bad touching. There are steps ...
Views: 2155(2 votes) - Pediatric Dentistry: A Practical Approach for Parents - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2012 from Sam RichardAn innocent smile on pearly white teeth can truly lighten up your day. But, as a kid’s deciduous set of teeth may look sparkling, parents are often under the impression that their child’s spotless teeth are dirt-free. The truth gets revealed when the child’s pediatric dentist discovers painful ...
Views: 1071 - ***Sex Education - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2012 from Corynna ClarkeSex Education by Corynna Clarke The act of bringing a child into creation is almost as significant as being human. You give of your self completely. Wanting to be fully present emotionally, providing for them materially and even physically when they fall down and skin a knee. You are also ...
Views: 3624(1 vote) - What is Loyalty? - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2012 from Jennifer RussellHow to teach your child about loyalty? As your children begin elementary school they learn a lot about relationships. Your daughter's best friend today may betray her trust tomorrow. Or possibly your son wants to leave his basketball team because there's someone he doesn't get along ...
Views: 2368(1 vote) - The Mother/Daughter Code of Conduct - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2012 from Kelly MarquetAre you concerned about your daughter's self-esteem? Do you worry that she may not be happy? Does she seem to have a non-focused energy around her? Has she shut down lately? Is communication getting more difficult? Are you wishing you still felt the connection with her like you did before she ...
Views: 2483 - My Daughter Has Changed Overnight - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2012 from Kelly MarquetEach day I hear from someone that their daughter is just not acting the way she should be. “something has changed, she is secretive, sneaky and not too much fun to be around.” Well depending on her age and your past relationship with her this may not be all bad. It is so hard for us as mothers ...
Views: 4259 - Just Ignore Him—Does it Work? - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2012 from Carolyn StoneI recently read a blog post by a counselor who said that ignoring your children’s misbehavior is not helpful. He said that parents need to interrupt behavior. I think that ignoring can be a very helpful parenting strategy, but it isn’t appropriate for every situation. Clearly if your ...
Views: 1592 - Parenting Alternatives For Saying “No” To Kids - 1 - - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2012 from Bob LancerThere are good reasons why parents seek alternatives to saying “No” to their children. One is that saying “No” often makes some parents feel that that they are being too negative. If this is your parenting issue with “No”, try instead to inform your child of the reason why, and of what he ...
Views: 1559 - What’s in Your Toolbox? - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2012 from Carolyn StoneIn the past few weeks there have been more anxious children and adolescents in my office than usual. This is probably just the randomness of the universe. Anxiety is often a feature with children who have ADD, learning disabilities and Asperger Syndrome. The situation has caused me to reflect ...
Views: 1175(1 vote) - The Magic of Consistency - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2012 from Daniel Forde-PogsonOne of the most important things in a child’s life is consistency. Of course, you could argue that love is more important, or safety, or nutrition and you’d be right in one way! But consistency is a thread that weaves through all of these areas. And the reason is fairly clear – yet so often ...
Views: 1258 - The Secret to Being a Good Mother - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2012 from Teal ScottBefore a child is born, a woman may have existed but a mother is born the moment a child is born. It is true that some of us are more adept at mothering than others. For some of us, the dream of raising and nurturing a child has been one we have had since we were children. For others, it ...
Views: 1590 - Teen addiction signs - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2012 from Steven ThomsonToday, there is no city or country that is still untainted by the plague of drug abuse and drug trafficking. The high levels of drug abuse among young people and particularly teens is a very distressing matter. There are many reasons that teens these days are starting drugs and in time becoming ...
Views: 1491 - What Did You Just Call My Daughter? - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2012 from Rosalind L. Heiko, Ph.D.On the benefits of having an open mind about one’s child called a “retard”, or having intellectual deficits, being mentally deficient, and other interesting and ridiculous things... When I was just starting out as a child and school psychologist in Syracuse, NY almost 35 years ago, I ...
Views: 1534 - Roller Coaster Emotions: Some Thoughts on How to Deal With Your Child’s Roller Coaster - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2012 from Carolyn StoneI went to a conference over the weekend that was aimed mainly at therapists who treat adults. However, one of the presenters talked about how children learn to understand their own feelings and those of others in the course of interactions as they grow up. I found the talk was really relevant ...
Views: 1254 - Juggling Responsibilities - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2012 from Lorrie FlemJuggling regular responsibilities like meals, housework, errands, etc. is a lot to do. But when you add a precious baby into the equation you add a lot more than seems logical. The baby is maybe 8 pounds at birth but the weight of the equipment that you got to make life easier with an infant ...
Views: 994 - Why Adoption Matters - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2012 from Holly TowersOccasionally I’m asked by someone to explain the purpose of our ministry. My answer is always- we exist to provide families for children who need them — whether through adoption or foster care. Almost 50% of pregnancies in the United States are unintended. Of those, over 40% end in ...
Views: 1409(2 votes) - Experiencing an Unplanned Pregnancy: Adoption an Alternative Solution for Abortion - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2012 from Holly TowersIn January 2008, I learned that I was pregnant with my third child. I had recently moved to Oklahoma and was trying to secure a stable life with my two children. I was in a relationship but it was not going well. He and I were fighting all the time and I knew I needed to get out of that ...
Views: 1244(2 votes) - Preserving Your Kids Habits even though Vacationing - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2012 from Buddy NguenIf you are planning to travel and you've got kids there are certain things that can make your trip far more satisfying. Initially is attempting to keep your bed time and eating routines. A vacation is often a anxiety reducer for mother or father, however the comfort of your own home is the ...
Views: 939 - Happy Father's Day! - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2012 from Maureen Brennan MercierHappy Father's Day to all of you fathers today. Whether you are called Dad, Daddy, Pop, Poppa, Poppy, Father, Pappy, just know that you are loved and needed. We honor you today on Father's Day. Today I am grateful to my dad on the other side for his loving, patient way of being a father to me ...
Views: 1506 - Being A Father - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2012 from Ken ThomAnother Father's Day has passed. This was a time of family gatherings to celebrate fathers. Family traditions of cookouts, picnics, sports, and dining out are fairly common. I believe that the role of fathers has been diminished over time. There’s been an evolution of his earlier role of ...
Views: 1355 - Living Life as a Cross-eyed Optimist - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2012 from Sally MarksWhen I was six weeks old my mother noticed my right eye turned in. I think I was checking out my nose. People stick their faces close to a baby’s and I saw some real honkers on some of the folks who were cooing at me. My guess is I wanted to make sure I didn’t grow a Pinocchio schnoozola in the ...
Views: 3490 - Giving Children Choices Fosters Responsibility - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2015 from Marvin MarshallYoung people have choices, both conscious and nonconscious. These choices are a significant factor in determining their lives. The sooner young people become aware of this, the earlier they will start to make responsible choices. Young people also become more responsible when they learn that ...
Views: 1937 - Any man can be a father - it takes someone special to be a dad - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2012 from Matt CrowleyWith Father’s Day coming up this Sunday, people across the country begin the search for the perfect gift that shows Dad just how much they care. But have you ever wondered where the tradition of Father’s Day began? While the idea of “Father’s Day” has many proponents, credit for what we now ...
Views: 1150 - Recommendations for ADHD Friendly Colleges - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2012 from Carol GignouxThere are many Colleges and Universities throughout the nation that offer excellent services and support to students with the ADD/ADHD brain type. That means offering personal assistance and mentoring, innovative teaching styles, tips and strategies for better organization and, above all, ...
Views: 3628 - Encouraging Children to Visit a Dentist More Bravely - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2012 from Ross AndersonTo let your children understand the importance of having healthy teeth, make it a point to bring them to an oral health expert at least twice a year. However, as noble as this plan may sound, it may be quite terrifying for your kids to think about having a tooth removed by a complete ...
Views: 1350 - Child Custody & Visitation Mediation - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2012 from Edward L. Amaral, Jr.Child Custody & Visitation Mediation Do you wish there was a way to make getting a separation from your significant other or divorce from your spouse easier on your children? Mediation helps preserve and maintain whatever is left of the good part of your relationship by significantly ...
Views: 2692 - Good Babysitting Tips for Grandparents - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2012 from Maria Khalife“What is it about grandparents that is so lovely? I'd like to say that grandparents are God's gifts to children. And if they can but see, hear and feel what these people have to give, they can mature at a fast rate.” ~ Bill Cosby If you are a grandparent, it’s probably been a long time since ...
Views: 1553 - Clarify The Confusions Surrounding Your Identity with DNA Tests By Yourself - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2012 from Hanley MorganKnowing your past cultural background can be extremely interesting, in particular if you are interested in your family history. To some people, the thought that they might have specific backgrounds might even have shaped their identity. At the same time, other people may simply want to verify ...
Views: 1237 - When in doubt, moms figure it out - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2012 from Jamee TenzerAs a mom I find that I am often providing services for which I have no training at all. For example; I have no business helping anyone with 9th grade math. In fact, I am finding that I am only slightly qualified to help with 4th grade math. And yet, on a regular basis, I hold my child’s hand ...
Views: 1135(1 vote) - The Age of Reason (Does that exist in the life of a working mom?) - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2012 from Jamee TenzerDoes this sound familiar? In addition to showing up at work, doing a fantastic job, keeping hearth and home moving along with enthusiasm and brilliance (and looking great all the while,) you maintain a second career as social secretary to your children. This is the reality of many working moms ...
Views: 1352(2 votes) - Scheduling for the Real Mother (time for a nap) - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2012 from Jamee TenzerHave you ever had one of those weekends where you were just having too much fun? You attended three 8-year-old birthday parties, went to dinner with friends, cheered the Dodgers at a game and hosted a brunch with the extended family – only to wake up Monday morning thrilled at the thought of ...
Views: 1157(1 vote) - Ready, Set Launch (Celebrating kids as they grow, and go) - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2012 from Jamee TenzerReady, Set, Launch! I have a child who is going off to college next year. The first of my three to reach this point in life. I am mindful of my role as a support system during this time, but also that I have a responsibility to be doling out opportunities for her to self manage and possibly ...
Views: 1197(1 vote) - Dating After Divorce: Be Careful About How You Tell Your Kids - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2012 from Rosalind SedaccaBy Rosalind Sedacca, CCT We all know divorce creates havoc in any family’s life, especially when children are involved. Moving on after divorce can also be challenging. It’s a time to be very gentle, both with yourself as well as with your children. Chances are, you made a considerable ...
Views: 1640 - Summer Routines for Your Quirky Child - by Submitted on May 31, 2012 from Carolyn StoneSummer is the time of ease, of rest and relaxation, of freedom from all those rigid schedules. Hurray! However, if you have a child with learning disabilities or ADHD or other atypical profile, you know that your child needs some structure in order to get along well and be happy. Not knowing ...
Views: 1200 - How to Communicate More Effectively with a Difficult Ex - by Submitted on May 29, 2012 from Nancy KayDoes your stomach churn at the thought of having to communicate with your ex? Would you rather clean out a 45 gallon fish tank than contact your ex about the kids’ holiday schedule? Many former spouses continue to experience significant difficulties in the ways that they communicate with each ...
Views: 1618(2 votes) - Dr. Romance Video: Repairing a Dysfunctional Mother/Daughter Relationship - by Submitted on May 28, 2012 from Tina Tessina(Watch the video here: http://youtu.be/1Fp55ZFayeU) When you hit your teens you and your mom had a bad time, and you still are. Maybe she's not the mother you always wanted, but she's yours. How do you bury the hatchet and repair your connection? This will also be helpful for moms trying to ...
Views: 2676 - Some Parenting Myths and Facts - by Submitted on May 26, 2012 from Pooja SharmaChild rearing methods like a legacy is passed on from one generation to another. Every new mom and dad is lumbered with oodles of advices regarding child care and parenting. Little we know that, parenting is all together a unique and different experience for every parent. Every set of parents ...
Views: 2595 - How Does Screen Time Affect My Child? - by Submitted on May 25, 2012 from Carolyn StoneI thought when I chose this topic that I would dash it off quickly, but I found myself doing some research about what we know about how much children in the US use electronic entertainment and the research on what the effects of this are on children. It turns out that we know a lot. We know ...
Views: 1830 - Understanding the Different Parenting Styles - by Submitted on May 24, 2012 from Ari NovickLet’s face it, parenting can be a challenge. One can be highly educated, financially well-off, and a have a huge support network and still find it difficult to raise children. Most parents are conscientious and want to do what is best to help their children develop into smart, stable and ...
Views: 1523 - Important Information on Surrogacy - by Submitted on May 24, 2012 from Dandy RockwellSurrogacy has been one of the many options for childless couples to have their own baby. This process involves the mutual agreement between the intended parents and the surrogate mother who would carry and nurture the unborn child until birth. Normally there are two types of Surrogacy and they ...
Views: 1102 - Important Tips to Consider in Surrogacy - by Submitted on May 24, 2012 from Dandy RockwellSince surrogacy is gaining popularity as one of the most effective methods of having kids. There are now many countries and states that are being open with this process or agreement. There are places in Asia that openly permit surrogacy like in India and there are states in the US that protect ...
Views: 685 - Being a Mother - by Submitted on May 23, 2012 from Ken ThomIt goes without saying; mothers play a very important role in our lives. Many articles and books have been written about this. There is a tremendous amount of research about being a mother. It has been dissected from every angle and from numerous counseling theories. Attachment theory says that ...
Views: 1419(2 votes) - Top 10 U.S. Cities for a Family Vacation - by Submitted on May 22, 2012 from Jamie Mary BakerPlanning a vacation with the whole family? Perhaps just a weekend getaway where every family member can relax and have fun? Here are the top 10 cities in the US where you can vacation to your heart’s content: 1. San Francisco, CA Start off some sightseeing at the world-famous Golden Gate ...
Views: 2004 - Learn the Benefits of Positive Parenting - by Submitted on May 22, 2012 from Ari NovickBringing a child into the world is one of the most profound experiences that parents will ever undergo in their lives. The best way to bring up a child with good behavior is to start early on in their formative years. "Train up a child in the way you wish them to grow and they will never depart ...
Views: 3533 - Surrogate Agencies for Successful Surrogacy - by Submitted on May 22, 2012 from Dandy RockwellThe choice to become a surrogate for someone else or for a different family for money can be considered an act of loving kindness that can entail a severe legal arrangement. For many surrogate mothers compensation is indeed an important part of this process however after considering all the ...
Views: 730 - Do Our Children Do as We Say or Do as We Do? - by Submitted on May 21, 2012 from Linda LipshutzTara (not her real name) couldn't listen to another word. Her mother was complaining yet again that she'd gotten the short end of the stick in the divorce. Tara really didn't need to hear how horrible her father was. Jordan closed his eyes in disgust as his father berated the coach. Jordan ...
Views: 757 - Creating Family Acceptance - by Submitted on May 20, 2012 from Tina TessinaLately, I’ve gotten so many anguished questions from people who are being criticized and rejected by family for making relationship choices the families don’t like, usually for cultural or religious reasons, that I changed my mind about what I was going to write this month. If your choice of ...
Views: 3192(3 votes) - How Do I Handle A Client in Crisis? - by Submitted on May 19, 2012 from Caron GoodeMark Brandenberg, who specializes in coaching men, said: Men have trouble asking for help and calling a coach is asking for help. It is a new field and people don’t know much about it. Coaching is good for men because it is in the comfort of home; it is private. However, men don’t call ...
Views: 1692 - Counterwill: The Most Misunderstood Dynamic in Teacher-Student Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2015 from Marvin Marshall“Counterwill” is the name for the natural human resistance to being controlled. Although adults experience this phenomenon, we seem to be surprised when we encounter it in young people. Counterwill is the most misunderstood and misinterpreted dynamic in teacher-student relationships. This ...
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