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It's an issue that crops up for people at every stage of life and can be improved for anyone, regardless of age. It is called our self esteem and can take a battering without warning. I'll help you to understand and increase your self esteem so that your internal 'bank account' of self esteem ... Views: 1443
Debbie was called into the boss’s office Thursday and berated for something she didn’t do. She stewed all day, thinking about how her promotion was now in jeopardy. At 5 p.m., she grabbed her purse and headed for the mall. Debbie thought she needed a little retail therapy.
And why not? She ... Views: 5251
How can disappointments be opportunities to grow? When we feel thwarted, frustrated or empty it is difficult - but not impossible - to see the positive side of our pain. It is from this type of situation we are trained to coach people to success- however they define success.
Most ... Views: 768
No doubt you’ve heard of Life Coaching. As one of the hot, new, trendy buzzwords on the market, it’s hard not to be intrigued by this service. However, it does leaves one wondering, ‘exactly what is a life coach?’
So...what is a life coach?
Coaching works with individuals who are ready to ... Views: 1480
What does it take to be trusted? Ask 100 people and you'll get 100 answers. The reason is that the concept of trust is complex; and whilst we are often clear about whom we trust (and don't trust), we're often much less clear about why. Are you ready to learn about three very critical elements of ... Views: 1119
Recently, well over the last couple of months, I have been going to a great gym. Well not exactly a gym but a place called Core Cambridge where I am being helped to regain core stability and a better structure~ regain my way of standing and moving in alignment.
Well bully for you I hear a ... Views: 3241
Amidst the yards of fabric and the glitter of jewels, the 81st Academy Awards might seem an unlikely place for 40-somethings or sandwiched boomers to look for role models. After all, the red carpet doesn't exactly represent the clothes in our closets or the figures reflected back to us in the ... Views: 1195
How many of you slipped in behind the steering wheel of your parents’ car for the first time and just drove away? Okay, maybe a few of you. But how many of you ended up denting a fender and then had a lot of explaining to do? How many of you sat down in the first grade and wrote a best selling ... Views: 2023
"Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony."--Mahatma Gandhi
“Paul Harvey died today,” I walked into the room feeling an odd sense of remorse for a person that I had never met yet, yet whose storytelling magic I aspired to.
“Paul Harvey died today,” I ... Views: 1397
Are you familiar with the idiom "God helps those who help themselves"? My own experience has shown me that it holds much truth.
When we begin taking action we create a magnetic field around ourselves that says "I mean 'business' and I am serious about moving forward with my goals and ... Views: 2200
It's so easy these days to wallow - to get stuck in that endless loop of 24/7 gloom and doom. Losing a job, worrying about making ends meet, wondering if you'll be able to retire when you planned to...according to the news, this is all everyone's doing. I started to feel myself get caught in ... Views: 1022
The greatest quality a human being can have is humility. Why humility? Because it gives us the capacity to relate to everyone. A truly successful person is someone who can put himself/herself in the level of whomever he/she is speaking. That’s what humility is.
To really listen to others, ... Views: 8421
We are well into this “new” year and perhaps it is time to review where you are in terms of your intentions and goals for the year. By this time many of you may have drifted off course, if even slightly or even worse may have totally lost track of your true direction. So the question becomes how ... Views: 1184
The Relationship between Work and Self
Work\werk\n: an opportunity for discovering and shaping; the place where the self meets the world.
You know, regardless of what business we are in, what projects we are working on or what interests we have in the world – we are all in the business of ... Views: 941
The Single Most Important Reason You Are Not as Effective as You Can Be! Self-Judgment is sabotaging your professional efforts learn how to STOP it!
I work with clients daily to clarify their efforts toward success and to see what is hobbling them in that process. After over twenty years of ... Views: 899
Messy homes, cars or offices are common issues today with our busy lives. True clutter however, and I mean really messy environments, is actually a symptom of something other than a busy lifestyle.
Often clutter is a Control Issue. Being unwilling to let go of things is a way people can feel ... Views: 5469
The energy generated from fear, stress and upset is the energy of force. Force takes incredible amounts of energy to exert and therefore it does not have lasting power and it drains you of your own life force.
The problem is that most everyone was conditioned with force. Get to school on time ... Views: 747
Did you get to journal what you really really want in life? It would be easier if we break it down into different areas of your life.
Did you write something about what you really want:
In the area of work
In the area of your income
In the area of relationship
In the area of your family
In ... Views: 1180
To find your passion in life requires that you follow that path. The Universe will present the trail, you need only look for it and follow it. Wherever you are, you will find the forks in the road. One will take you toward your goal. The other will take you back to where you are.
In 1965, I ... Views: 1163
Do you have a to-do list?
I am not talking about a day-to-day list of tasks that need to be accomplished, although having one can certainly help you be more productive and give you the sense of satisfaction that comes when you can cross something off that list. No, I am referring to a bigger ... Views: 975
It's 7.30 in the morning and I'm sitting at home listening to the radio. Job losses, credit crunch, home repossessions, new twists on the same old theme.
Before I get dragged into this mire, this stinking, sinking-sand, let me shout from the embankment - 'This is the biggest opportunity we’ve ... Views: 692
"I've learned that the process of life - including the work, obstacles, even the hassles - is my life. Life isn't the end result - it's everything in between the beginning and the end."
- ANON
Let's begin by stating the obvious - there is no such thing as work-life balance. Although there ... Views: 1609
They are everywhere you go--at work, in the family, among friends, at the church and synagogue. They are difficult, annoying, irritating people. You want to avoid them, but no matter where you go, thee they are.
The fact is, they are playing their part PERFECTLY by allowing you to figure out ... Views: 3066
When I came back to working with horses, after being thrown and dragged, I had a lot of inner work to do around fear. My horse Moon helped me work through my fears while riding. I practice the Mind Body Method (a coaching process I developed) to slow down my automatic responses and stay present ... Views: 1323
BEDEVILMENTS (interesting word)
Got this reading this morning, and the word bedevilment is one I have not seen in ages. So over to Mr. Webster. He says, "exasperating interference and trouble; a besetting with devils". The way he puts it, I know I have experienced it. Have you?
The message: ... Views: 1123
When we build up our self confidence, life can take us on the most amazing journey into new and exciting opportunities.
Confidence is an attitude of the mind.
"If you believe you can or believe you can't, you are probably right" Henry Ford.
Self confidence is something that we can grow and ... Views: 882
I love giving myself permission to do what I want, don't you? Or do you? I know, it's hard, you have so much to do, and people depending on you and when you do have time to do what you want, it means sitting in front of the televison or computer (my vice) until it's time for bed. I hate to ... Views: 925
The problem is obvious. So, rather than talk about the problem, let's talk about the solution.
Here are some tips and suggestions for coping with the negativity and challenges that seem to surround us these days:
1) Don't spend more than 30 minutes a day on media. Between the radio, the ... Views: 1374
See I have these adoption yahoo’s who sit at a table in my head and when I get tired, run down or just having a plain old bad day - they start to chatter like squirrels in an argument over nuts. No, it is not schizophrenia – thank you very much. It is more like a bunch of people arguing their ... Views: 1452
Goal setting skills are put into action by a great majority of productive, highly successful people. Yet many that would greatly benefit from goal setting practices, particularly in today’s challenged economy, seem to have a hard time implementing a goal setting practice. In this article I will ... Views: 1920
Everyone has heard of vision boards at one time or another in their wanderings thru life. They have been used in classrooms for elementary students; and churches for bible school studies, for years, as a fun and productive craft exercise.
Vision boards have been around for years. The ... Views: 1576
Life coaching for anyone who is open, honest and willing to explore their potentials.
Life Coaching for anyone who is open, honest and willing to explore their potentials.
A Journey of Self discovery to Self Love
I guess it is divine timing that I am writing these articles to share with you ... Views: 1104
Ah, rejection! No one likes it, but everyone has felt it at one time or another. Rejection comes in many forms: romantic relationships, contests, writer’s group critiques, friendships, job interviews or credit applications. Some people feel depressed about it, while others grow angry or ... Views: 2105
What exactly is energy? How many forms of energy are there? What does coaching have to do with energy?
Energy – There are many definitions of energy, but here I will define it as an exertion of force or a healthy capacity for vigorous activity (Merriam-Webster).
How many forms? Technically ... Views: 1321
Everyone has gone through Life Transitions: a move, a new job, a new baby, a new partner, divorce, etc. The question is...How do you deal with it? A change in your daily lifestyle can sometimes be overwhelming; even if the change is something you wanted and initiated. People deal with these ... Views: 3759
Do you have a dream you want to realize or a goal you want to accomplish, but you keep getting stuck? Do you feel stuck with an unsatisfactory personal or professional life? A Life Coach will help you get "unstuck". Imagine having someone in your corner to always be supportive of you. Imagine ... Views: 921
The air conditioned briefing room felt as cold as ice as I waited for the arrival of my instructor. I was a bundle of nerves. One more 'busted' check ride would put me one flight away from washing out of Undergraduate Pilot Training (UPT). My dream of becoming a fighter pilot hung by a thread. I ... Views: 871
"As long as you derive inner help and comfort from anything, keep it."--Mahatma Gandhi
Coming off of the incredible historical high of January, the energy of a hope and vision are building in everything we do. I can see people reaching out to one another to help and create connections in ways ... Views: 1468
“Whether you believe that you can or that you cannot, either way you are probably right.” - Henry Ford
With the election of a new President, this month has been filled with hope for change and possibility for a better tomorrow. As each of us looks with anticipation to the future, it seems like ... Views: 1288
If I’ve said it once I’ve said it hundreds of times “Leadership is not any one method taught by an instructor. Leadership is developed from within with the support and guidance of an expert.” As a Leadership Coach I challenge people already in leadership roles, to reflect on integrity. That’s ... Views: 2938
I have a friend, Marshall Sylver, who says, “Power is for use”. He says, “Power is the ability to take immediate action.” A lot of what he says is true, power is for use. When you think about that he’s talking about we each have our own—sometimes I call it a match strike existence, because it ... Views: 744
More and more professionals today are tired of the frenzied, highly demanding age we live in and the constant pressures brought about by the wish to succeed, be financially secure, fit and healthy, sociable, a good wife and parent.
Career women, in particular, have to cope with the sometimes ... Views: 1054
Essentially it is about helping you to reach self-actualisation - a point at which you not only truly know yourself but within this knowledge possess a feeling of comfort with and understanding of the person you discover.
Your coach engages in a collaborative alliance with you to establish and ... Views: 1045
This year is the year for change! Are you procrastinating on starting a business, making a career move, making time to spend with the ones you love, taking better care of your health? Remember, only you have the power to change your life. So, what are you waiting for? By 2010 what will you ... Views: 968
Contrary to popular belief and Wall Street propaganda, investing is not a competitive event. Rather, it is a uniquely personal, goal-directed activity that individuals must organize and control for themselves. Too few appreciate that it is a long-term enterprise and only a handful, at best, have ... Views: 1404
When I was at a recent retreat I participated in an intense process and spent some time sharing a painful experience I had and my own limiting beliefs about myself. One of the wise women from the circle shared her very profound observation:
"I think when we all look in the mirror we see a ... Views: 2389
So often during our Artist’s Way Workshops the subject of extra weight and extra baggage comes up when discussing the creative process and how to let creativity flow without blocks. If you are a person who has added un-wanted pounds or whether you are feeling figuratively burdened with the ... Views: 850
I got a call from an old friend this morning, informing me that his aunt passed away. She was a lovely woman – generous, kind, and funny, and I hadn’t seen her in many years. I went to the wake, and was transported back into a crowd of people I’d known in my early 20’s. ... Views: 2292
As a Spiritual Life Coach and tarot reader, I find that many of my clients come to me looking for a "magic wand". They want me to lay down the cards and tell them that all their dreams and hopes are going to come true; that they will be happy ever after. They want me to tell them their lives ... Views: 663
Look closely at the title of this article. You’ll notice a question. Before we get into what drives you, let us examine the question. Thoughts…Where do they come from? Think this through and give yourself plenty of time. I firmly believe I have the answer, and that is thoughts come from the ... Views: 1154