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- Family Communication - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2010 from Jo-Anne CutlerCommunication...it is the root of many misunderstandings and conflicts that we experience in our relationships, whether it is with our partner, our parents, our kids, friends, siblings, bosses or anyone! Sometimes we may keep silent because we don’t know how to say what we want to say and ...
Views: 2451(1 vote) - Feng Shui Tips for Great Pool Parties - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2009 from Chriss BarrIt’s summer and that means inviting friends and family over for bar-b-que, beer and parties around the pool. Start your summer celebration off right by creating the ideal feng shui atmosphere so everyone has a great time. The Setting: The water in the pool will likely dominate your party ...
Views: 2451 - ***Expert Q&A: How to Overcome Difficulties in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2011 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishHave a relationship question and want Dr. Wish's advice? Email her a question, here. Your query may become an article! Happy marriages and long-term relationships are not happy every day. John Gottman, a pioneer in marital research, discovered that even in mutually satisfying marriages, ...
Views: 2447(1 vote) - How To Pick Self-help Resources That WORK - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2010 from Peter GerlachEACH YEAR, hundreds of "revolutionary" self-help books, articles, groups, and programs appear on a wide range of human stressors. Publishers and producers keep churning them out because (1) the old ones don't work for long, and (2) the needy, hopeful public keeps the cash registers ringing. A ...
Views: 2444 - ***Twelve Things Divorcing Parents Should Tell Their Children - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2008 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishDivorce is a difficult enough experience, and when children are involved, most divorcing parents have to set aside their marital feelings and work together to co-raise children responsibly. The goal is not to have children survive divorce but to thrive. However, many parents are so hurt, ...
Views: 2439(1 vote) - ***Instant Relief From Grief: Tip Sheet*** - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2008 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishInstant Relief from Grief: Tip Sheet Introduction Give Back Stay Connected Cry and Yell Get Inspired Get Help Introduction Grieving is one of life’s most unpleasant events. Like falling in love, experiencing grief can make you feel as though you are going a little crazy—except ...
Views: 2438(1 vote) - 4 Ways to Move Forward After a Family Death - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2017 from Eileen O'ShanassyDealing with the death of a loved one is one of the hardest things that most people will ever endure. Someone that you love has moved on and you have to deal with the fact that they are gone and the things that come with their loss. Funeral arrangements, estate settlements, and helping other ...
Views: 2427 - ***The Movie "Knocked Up": How Realistic and How Recommended is This Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishThe movie “Knocked Up”: How realistic and how recommended is this relationship? No surprise that the 2007 movie “Knocked Up” is a hit. The women of Generations X and Y especially recognize this increasingly familiar kind of relationship—the educated, successful and professional woman who ...
Views: 2423 - Keep Your Memories Safe Forever In Personalised Photo Albums - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2012 from Albelli AlbumprinterTaking a photograph is only the start of the adventure when you’re using digital technology. The range and variety of things which can be done with the images once they’ve been captured is dazzling from small scale novelty items such as key rings to larger luxury objects like bespoke one off ...
Views: 2420 - Dysfunctional Family Bingo - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2011 from Dawn SinnottIt was the week before spending Christmas with my husband’s family and I was sick to my stomach. This had become the typical response when I was anticipating spending time with them. I had been dealing with their inappropriate behavior and my husband’s denial of the situation for a very long ...
Views: 2418 - Parents and Backtalk: Five Stunningly Simple Ways to Turn Backtalk into Communication - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2010 from Sandra DyeIf you think backtalk is something you have to endure as a parent or have to control with strict limits and consequences, you are mistaken. If you follow 5 simple steps in the proper order you will dramatically reduce backtalk and become closer with your child than you ever ...
Views: 2413(4 votes) - Family Communication is Possible by Trusting Your Teen - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2009 from Alicia BowyerTalking to teens and family communication is very important while raising your family. What's interesting is that your teen wants to communicate with you as much as you want to communicate with them. Make as much time as possible to do this so you know what is happening in your teens ...
Views: 2409(2 votes) - Helping Adults Abused As Children - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2012 from Roni Weisberg-RossWhen I began working in this field many years ago, I was told that if I hadn’t already picked a specialization, it would pick me. And that is exactly what happened. I worked in a non-profit clinic where we had big caseloads, having to see many more people each week than one would ordinarily ...
Views: 2408 - ***Quiz: When Do You Give Your Partner a Second Chance? - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishWe tend to give our partners more than second chances—even when they have betrayed, disappointed or hurt us physically or emotionally. It’s as though we’ll do almost anything to defend against rocking the boat, and being alone or wrong about our love choices. In this brief article ...
Views: 2407 - Are You Determined to Be Happy? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghAre You Determined To Be Happy? You already have everything that you need to live your dream life except perhaps a solid understanding of who you are and a bit of courage. And a desire to be happy; no; a determination to be happy. In fact, I think that it is determination that sets satisfied ...
Views: 2403(1 vote) - ***Expert Q&A: Dating Again After a Major Break Up - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2013 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishQ: How long should I wait before dating again after my divorce? A: Most of us have heard this advice about looking for love after you've just ended a marriage or intimate partnership: "Don't jump from the frying pan into the fire." In other words, to avoid re-bound love, take time off from ...
Views: 2402(1 vote) - What are the Best Intercourse Practices to become pregnant? - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Olivia HelmHave you ever wondered what sexual position may be best to increase the chances of conception? Although there is no real scientific evidence that proves one position is any better than the next, I’m going to talk about some theories that make a whole lot of sense to those wondering what type of ...
Views: 2399 - Kids and Chores - Why Children Need to Help at Home - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2009 from Judy WrightAre you a frustrated parent who sometimes finds it is easier to take the garbage out yourself than to keep nagging your son? Do you wonder what kind of employee he will become since he doesn't always follow through at home? Is it worth the effort on your part to insist that he do his share? ...
Views: 2392(5 votes) - ***How Can Our Marriage Survive Holiday Stress - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2012 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. The holiday season is a time of celebration. It is a time to be with family and friends. It is a time to be with the one you love. The holiday season is not a time for stress! We have all seen it—the grandest of holiday plans come crashing ...
Views: 2389(19 votes) - Book Review - Homecoming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2013 from John BradshawAre you outwardly successful but inwardly do you feel like a big kid? Do you aspire to be a loving parent but all too often “lose it” in hurtful ways? Do you crave intimacy but sometimes wonder if it’s worth the struggle? Or are you plagued by constant vague feelings of anxiety or ...
Views: 2380 - Dr. Romance Video: Guidelines for Co-Parenting after Divorce - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2012 from Tina Tessina(To view video, click here.) No matter how angry or hurt you may be after a divorce, if you have children, you’ll still share a lifetime with their other parent, your ex. Dr. Romance offers guidelines for moving past the anger and hurt, and finding a way to co-parent your children that is ...
Views: 2375 - The Narcissist and His Family - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2008 from Sam VakninWe are all members of a few families in our lifetime: the one that we are born to and the one(s) that we create. We all transfer hurts, attitudes, fears, hopes and desires – a whole emotional baggage – from the former to the latter. The narcissist is no exception. The narcissist has ...
Views: 2369 - The Greatest Gift You Can Give Children - Wherever You Are, Be There! - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2010 from Jill DarceyI believe most of us have what it takes to be genuinely great parents; regardless if we have been separated, divorced or attempting to co-parent. More often than not, it is through our efforts to juggle an already rather hectic lifestyle that we neglect some of the most crucial aspects of ...
Views: 2365(4 votes) - How to Create a Classy Dinner Night for Your Family and Friends - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2017 from Anica OaksEating the same dinners with the same drinks in the same clothes can get monotonous very quickly. Before you consider blowing your budget on expensive takeout food or at a fancy restaurant, you should first rethink your approach to home dining. It doesn't have to be boring. With a few simple ...
Views: 2364 - What is Loyalty? - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2012 from Jennifer RussellHow to teach your child about loyalty? As your children begin elementary school they learn a lot about relationships. Your daughter's best friend today may betray her trust tomorrow. Or possibly your son wants to leave his basketball team because there's someone he doesn't get along ...
Views: 2363(1 vote) - Christian Parenting: How To Teach Your Son To Respect Women - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2012 from Karla DowningIt is your job as a parent to teach your children. Much of this teaching has to be intentional. One of the things that you must be conscious of is how to teach your son to respect women. God created men and women to be different but not to be any less valuable. Throughout history, women have ...
Views: 2362 - 7 Ways of Dealing With Negative People - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2009 from Mark ShepardI got a very thoughtful comment from one of my readers in response to my Brainwashing vs. Influence article that warranted a full post in reply. “Your article really hit a nerve, since my wife and i were talking about my parents recently. my dad retired 6 years ago, and my mom retired ...
Views: 2361(8 votes) - Journey to Motherhood; An Inspirational Story - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2009 from Kay KopitAn Inspirational Mother's Day Story by Kay Kopit Road to Mariah A Telephone Call That Changed Lives As we are walking in the house my husband Bryan excitedly says, “The red light is blinking, pick it up, it might be someone important!” Underneath strewn clothes and luggage is an answering ...
Views: 2359 - The Emotional Life of Adolescent Abuse: A Daughter’s Poetry - by Submitted on May 25, 2012 from Roni Weisberg-RossThe following words and poetry were written by Kallel Hunter. She has graciously allowed me to share them with you. My name is Kallel and I am 13 years old. I live in the U.K. and have Irish, Jamaican and Barbadian in me. I also have two sisters and 3 brothers. I am the eldest. We ...
Views: 2355 - Issues Regarding California Child Custody and Visitation for the Holidays - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2011 from Lance ClaeryDisagreements regarding holiday child custody visitations frequently occur between separated parents. This is especially true during the period that includes Thanksgiving, Christmas/Winter Break, New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day. Some court orders are not clear enough and are interpreted ...
Views: 2353(4 votes) - ***11 Lifestyle Signs of a Bad Relationship - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishIt’s difficult enough to meet someone who seems like a good love match. But then, over time, things happen between you and your partner that make you wonder: “Is this the right person for me?” It seems as though it should be such an easy question to answer. But once you fall in love, your ...
Views: 2350 - My Grandmother: A Model for Positive Psychology - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2009 from Mary Jane Hurley BrantMy grandmom was a model for positive psychology and she taught me a valuable lesson: it’s easier catching bees with honey than with vinegar. I was given the name “Mary” because of her and her devotion to The Blessed Mother. My mother, father, brother, sister and I lived upstairs in her roomy ...
Views: 2348(4 votes) - Holiday Hug - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2011 from Womens Recreation, Inc.This is for those of you who are missing that someone special at the table. For those of you who are trying to cope with the holidays. Here is a heartfelt hug for you. You will never understand the loneliness of a holiday until you have lost someone that means so much to you. I pray that this ...
Views: 2344 - Why Are Hello Kitty Games so Popular? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Charles MutrieInstead of wanting to be like Barbie, many girls want to be like Hello Kitty because she has just as much and can do as much if not more than Barbie. Of course, Hello Kitty is younger than Barbie, starting out in 1974. Who knew she was going to take off and be so successful. She is in over 60 ...
Views: 2344 - An Answered Prayer for Another Person - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2011 from Manuel BerongaAfter more than fifty years, my aging father sought closure of the previous life he had before he and my mother lived together. He had another family prior to the war in the town of Dalaguete 72.5 kilometers (25 miles) south of the city of Cebu, and where he begot six children. According ...
Views: 2342(1 vote) - Today I thank Dad a Fathers day message from Father to Son - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2011 from Carl Tuchy PalmieriToday I thank Dad he gave me life and he gave me reasons to live What I learned from Dad has brought me to places I never knew I could reach. He gave me the belief that given the desire and the willingness I can achieve almost anything. Dad believed that in his heart and it got into my heart. ...
Views: 2337(1 vote) - When Your Parent Moves In - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2010 from David HorganThree years ago my mother-in-law moved in with us. Today we have a wonderful arrangement, but getting there was a little bumpy. We never had big problems. We did have some little ones. The fact is, my mother-in-law is a sweet, easygoing person who is a pleasure to be around. The real ...
Views: 2337(8 votes) - Inexpensive Christmas Gift Ideas - Gift You Can Make Yourself - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2007 from Janice WeeWhat are you giving your family members ones this Christmas? You could give dad a golf set, mom a diamond necklace, the kids the latest video games, your newly married sister a new apartment, your favourite aunt a mink coat.. if you have the cash. What if you don't? Nothing beats home made ...
Views: 2334 - Coping When Someone You Love is Deployed - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2003 from Susan DunnHaving someone you love deployed, whether child, partner, relative or close friend, is extremely stressful. As on military spouse told me, “Why am I acting like this? STRESS When we must separate from a loved one we have reactions that are physiological and emotional that are beyond our ...
Views: 2329(1 vote) - Stepfamilies: The Difficult Ex and the Issue of Badmouthing - by Submitted on Aug 17, 2009 from Joan SarinThe “difficult ex” - I think every divorced couple goes through at least a stage of complaining about this. I hear it in nearly every couple I work with, and I had my share of this pain too. It seemed to me for years that my husband’s ex-wife looked right through me as if I didn’t exist, and ...
Views: 2329(1 vote) - Tips On Getting Your Children To Listen To You - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2010 from Greg BakerGetting your kids to listen to you can be a problem at times. Undoubtedly, you've tried a variety of methods from shouting, finger pointing, scowling, threatening, and the famous counting to ten. Kids seem to tune out your words if your tone is saying something else. Your tone of voice ...
Views: 2329(4 votes) - ***5 Things Women Do on Dates that Make Men Run for the Hills! - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishI’m sure many of you have wondered why a man didn’t call back — or call you at all after you had what you thought was a wonderful conversation. It’s very confusing. Doubts swirl through your mind such as: was I too quiet or too opinionated? Did I talk about my ex too ...
Views: 2325 - ***Top Relationship Problems: The Danger of Women Having Affairs - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishTop Relationship Problems: The Danger of Women Having Affairs Think having an affair is just one of many dating choices these days? Think again. The number of women having affairs is rising--approximately 25 % of women have them. Smart, professional women know that affairs make you crazy—not ...
Views: 2323 - Generation Huh? The impact of hand-held devices on kids and teens - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2011 from Jim HagueBeing a teenager from the 1980's, I had a good life. After school, I would put away my books, change my clothes, grab a Coke and a cupcake, and then hang around watching MTV (when they were playing videos). Then the doorbell rang. I answer and see a neighbor friend of mine holding a bat and a ...
Views: 2322(1 vote) - Essential Responsibilities of Parents to their Children - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2012 from Aidan MitchelMany people would want to become parents. The thought of having one’s own offspring, who happens to be half the person you are, is such an exciting thing to happen. However, the sad thing is that most people are only concerned about the positive things and exclude the negative ones or those ...
Views: 2320 - ***Managing Career Setback - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishNo matter how seasoned and successful you are, you still may experience disappointments and setbacks. Here are tips to empower you. Read this several times: No one is immune from experiencing career setbacks, disappointments and regrets and making mistakes big and small. Setbacks come in ...
Views: 2317(1 vote) - Are we living for working or are we working for living - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2011 from Zita FeketeAs a last argument in a debate, my best friend asked her husband: - “Are we living for working or are we working for living?” You can guess; the argument was about how much time they spend with working and how much they have left for the family. How many of us are in the same situation? The ...
Views: 2316(1 vote) - First Holidays For Blended Families - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2011 from Daniela RoherIt is normal to be overwhelmed and unsure of what to do, so don’t think you are unique or that there is something wrong with you. If this is your first holiday with your new blended family, expect challenges. Also, don’t think your situation is unique, as more than 50% of American families are ...
Views: 2315 - How to Use "Awareness Bubbles" - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2010 from Peter GerlachIf an average nine year old child asked you "What is 'awareness'?" - what would you say? On a scale of one (I'm totally unaware) to ten (I'm extremely aware in all situations), how would you rate your degree of *awareness* in (a) calm and (b) stressful situations? Are you becoming more aware ...
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