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Views: 3294 - *** Law of Attraction: Allow and Receive Your Desires - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2007 from Carolyn EllisSeparation and divorce are two of the biggest roller coaster rides you’ll ever find emotionally. The Law of Attraction can give you some traction so you can regain your footing and see your way forward in your divorce journey. Our thoughts create feelings, which in turn create vibrations ...
Views: 3291(2 votes) - My Husband Is Not Intimate With Me Anymore: Lack Of Touch In Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2018 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Is Not Intimate With Me Anymore: Lack Of Touch In Marriage Do you know why a 90% of couples get divorce? Is your marriage getting boring? It is almost inevitable to prevent Boredom and Fatigue in a marriage, which unfortunately are the causes of most divorces as a result of loss in ...
Views: 3288 - My Wife Is Controlling: Living With A Controlling Wife - How To Deal With A Controlling Spouse - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2018 from Sylvester DanialMy Wife Is Controlling: Living With A Controlling Wife - How To Deal With A Controlling Spouse Are you in a marriage where you're saying my wife is controlling and it's ruining my marriage? If this is the case then you have to know that you're now alone... Not by a long shot! But the good ...
Views: 3287 - ***Marriage and the Pain of Abuse - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2011 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. While we normally write positive stories about successful marriage, a recent interview caused us to alter course, albeit, temporarily. A few weeks ago we interviewed a woman who had recently gotten divorced. Her story was so emotional and ...
Views: 3280(11 votes) - Is There Such Thing As A "Good" Divorce? - by Submitted on May 24, 2007 from Belinda Rachman, Esq.If you are like half of married people, you are going to divorce. It is a sad but true fact of life. If a marriage has to end, at least end it with as much dignity as possible. A public court brawl is not nice to watch and even worse to live through. If you have children together or have amassed ...
Views: 3280 - ***How Do I Know I Am Ready for a Divorce? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishHow Do I Know I Am Ready for a Divorce? A great question not so easily answered. Research has shown that even happy long-term marriages have rough patches that the couple manages to triumph over, not just survive. Yet, there are truly very bad marriages that often involve behaviors such as ...
Views: 3277 - What To Do Right Now To Keep Your Spouse From Leaving You and To Build A Better Life Together. - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2010 from Peggy FergusonWhat if you were called into your boss's office and told that s/he was thinking about letting you go, that you were not fulfilling your job responsibilities, and that you were holding the company back rather than helping the company grow and prosper? Yes, you might be shocked or stunned. You ...
Views: 3257 - My Wife Says She Doesn't Feel Loved: How To Make Your Wife Feel Loved Again - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Wife Says She Doesn't Feel Loved: How To Make Your Wife Feel Loved Again You want to make your wife feel cherished. You love her deeply and you're not always certain that you express that to her in the right ways. She's the woman you'd marry all over again if given the chance so why not ...
Views: 3253 - Being Thankful During a Breakup - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2011 from Laura Smitht sounds kind of hard at first, doesn't it? I mean who wants to be grateful during a breakup? How DO you get over a breakup and be appreciative all at the same time? It can be done. It will brighten your day and you deserve a brighter day, right, Dearie? Here's a few easy steps to ...
Views: 3248 - Creating Happiness After Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2010 from Merlene BishopCREATING HAPPINESS AFTER DIVORCE Divorce is the loss of a relationship, and it's painful. You will go through a grief process that involves denial, sadness, and anger. Depending on your particular circumstances, recovering from the sadness and anger and moving into acceptance can take ...
Views: 3234(2 votes) - My Husband Is Verbally Abusive When He Drinks: Why Is My Husband So Mean To Me When He Drinks - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Is Verbally Abusive When He Drinks: Why Is My Husband So Mean To Me When He Drinks Anger and abuse in relationships are about blame: "I feel bad, and it's your fault." Even when resentful, angry, or emotionally abusive people recognize their behavior, they are likely to blame it on ...
Views: 3222 - How To Get Your Wife To Be More Affectionate: Lack Of Affection From Wife - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2018 from Henry JosephHow To Get Your Wife To Be More Affectionate: Lack Of Affection From Wife You want to get your wife to be more affectionate. It's understandable. Marriage isn't always the easiest road to travel and it becomes a bit rockier if the affection that the couple once shared has all but disappeared. ...
Views: 3221 - HOW TO GET OVER YOUR PAST (AND PAST YOUR HURT) By Mort Fertel - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2009 from Mort FertelHas your spouse neglected you? Rejected you? Emotionally abused you? Are you struggling to get over the pain of an affair? If you're having marriage problems, the chances are good that you need to put some hurt behind you. It's one of the most common questions I get. "Mort, I want to ...
Views: 3218(3 votes) - Wife's Past Bothering Me: Forgetting My Wife's Past - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyWife's Past Bothering Me: Forgetting My Wife's Past Overcoming feelings of jealousy in a relationship can be extremely hard to do. Once jealousy takes root it feeds off itself, justifying itself and seems to nurture an environment that welcomes it. So overcoming jealousy is never going to ...
Views: 3216 - ***Dating After Divorce - Tips To Getting Back Out In The Dating World After Divorce - by Submitted on May 01, 2008 from Carolyn EllisDating after divorce can be intimidating. For some people, it may be a few decades since you've been out there in the dating scene. As a divorce coach and author, a big concern my clients have is what to do to ensure they have more success in their future relationships. Here are some important ...
Views: 3210 - Should I Have a Heart to Heart Talk with My Ex Boyfriend? Why This May Not Help - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2016 from Michael UadialeYou’re a woman. You feel things deeply, don’t you? You love ferociously and when you’re hurt you can feel it in every corner of your heart. Since you and your boyfriend parted ways, your life has been in turmoil. You miss him and the break up has forced you to really realize just how much he ...
Views: 3198 - ***Top Tips For Life After Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2008 from Carolyn EllisPeople going through divorce often focus on the endings it represents – the ending of a relationship, a dream, a way of life. To thrive after divorce requires you to look at divorce as a beginning – the beginning of a new life, of new possibilities for loving relationship, of a sense ...
Views: 3191 - Helping a Friend Through Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraOne of the most painful experiences a father can endure is divorce. Yes, men hurt as much as women, although it is always assumed that women are the only hapless victims. A lot of men going through divorce also feel loneliness, anxiety, disappointment, and depression. There may be feelings of ...
Views: 3186 - How To Get Your Relationship Back On Track With Your Ex Boyfriend / Girlfriend After A Break-Up - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2016 from Patrick UadialeWhat you do after the break up matters! Relationships on the verge of permanently falling apart can still be saved, but only few are successful. That's because unfavorable moves and mistakes are done on days following the big breakup. Heartbroken people are so weighed down by what happened that ...
Views: 3178 - Heal Your Heart in Just 21 Days - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanConventional wisdom says it takes just 21 days to establish a new habit. So what if that new habit involves getting over a breakup? Is it possible to exorcise your ex, clear your head, and heal your heart in just 3 weeks? It is when you enroll in a crash course in breakup survival, immerse ...
Views: 3175(3 votes) - Should You Get Divorced or Stay Married? - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe Beam“She’s pregnant by her lover. But she says she has come to her senses, loves me, and wants to save our marriage. My family practically hates her and wants me to divorce her and have nothing else to do with her ever. I don’t know what to do.” Call him Jim. Call her May. Every year situations ...
Views: 3174(3 votes) - Wife Never Makes The First Move: How Do I Get My Wife To Initiate Sex - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2018 from Henry JosephWife Never Makes The First Move: How Do I Get My Wife To Initiate Sex Because I'm in the business of helping men create a happier, more sexual marriage relationship, I've had men from all over the world ask me this question, "How do I get my wife to initiate sex?" Many of these men had ...
Views: 3165 - The Seven Stages of Becoming Single Again - by Submitted on May 12, 2010 from sarah palmerEnding a long term relationship can be devastating, destructive and depressing but… there is light at the end of the tunnel. Having experienced at first hand a 21 year marriage blast apart with a hurricane force, I know that the effect is, to put it mildly, earth-stopping. If you’ve ever ...
Views: 3163(1 vote) - Have Trouble Dealing With Your Wife's Sexual Past: How To Let Go Of Your Spouse's Past - Dealing With A Sexual Past In A Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHave Trouble Dealing With Your Wife's Sexual Past: How To Let Go Of Your Spouse's Past - Dealing With A Sexual Past In A Marriage Are you having trouble dealing with your wife's sexual past, and now it's really starting to affect your marriage in a negative way? Believe me, you're ...
Views: 3162 - How Can I Reconnect With My Wife: How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Separation - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackHow can I reconnect with my wife? It's one of those questions that you find yourself asking now even though a year or two ago you never could have imagined it. Marriages are like any other relationship. Over time they do change and a couple that was once happy and couldn't imagine a future ...
Views: 3159 - Child Custody Mediation: Things to Keep in Mind - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2011 from Matthew BrickmanIn many states, a child custody mediation session must take place before any legal court documents can be drawn up outlining custody of the child and visitation rights. This is in an attempt to get everything settled legally and peacefully instead of having to go before a judge, which would take ...
Views: 3156 - You Can Get Your Girlfriend Back! - 5 Crucial Techniques - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2010 from Andrew HunterIt's not startling to learn that more than fifty percent of men involved in breakups want their girlfriends back. Instead of thinking it over and making a comprehensive plan to get their girlfriends back, though, too many men say or do foolish things on the spur of the moment that actually ...
Views: 3150 - Different Parenting Styles after Separation - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2009 from Carolyn EllisIt’s not uncommon for the difference in parenting styles between parents to become very apparent after separation. Children usually experience some transition time to get acclimated to the unique rhythms of each household. Realizing you have little control over what happens “over there” at ...
Views: 3146(2 votes) - ***Mel Gibson Had His Button’s Pushed - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2010 from Teagin Maddox,Mel Gibson strikes again, and this time, his disgraceful tirades have been caught on tape and released for all to hear. His behavior has generated a domestic violence investigation and some surprising discussions amongst celebrities, some whom are more upset about the tapes being made public on ...
Views: 3145(1 vote) - Definition: Divorce Counseling - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2007 from Debbie MolisA positive trend becoming noticeable in marriage counseling and therapy is that more couples are going in for counseling before seeking a divorce. However, there are more useless and incompetent marriage counselors and marriage therapists than ever. So it's best to check out and look for the ...
Views: 3142 - Making Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Jealous To Get Them Back - How It is Done-New Ideas - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreMaking Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Jealous To Get Them Back - How It is Done; We have all tried to use jealousy to our advantage throughout our lives, sometimes more successfully than others. If you have any experience with jealousy you will know that it can backfire a lot of the time and ...
Views: 3139(1 vote) - ***Divorce Management: 5 Ways to Stop Your Energy Drains - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2008 from Carolyn EllisIs divorce draining your vital energy? Are you facing your own personal energy crisis? It’s a common challenge. Going through divorce is like playing a whole new ball game in life. If you’re feeling drained, overwhelmed or worn out, please realize that some of those old moves, habits ...
Views: 3121 - ***How to Know if Your Marriage is in Trouble - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2012 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. In our thousands of interviews around the world over the past three decades, we have discovered many truths. Among these are the warning signs of a failing marriage and relationship. The telltale signs of a relationship going down the tubes are ...
Views: 3110(22 votes) - Even the best relationships come to an end! - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Dr. D. Ivan YoungChances are, that relationship you’re ending has been knocking at death’s door for quite some time now or should never have begun to start with. The handwriting has been on the wall but you didn’t have the courage to say that it’s over. Bad advice from your peers, relatives and ...
Views: 3109(2 votes) - Life After Divorce: Living with Change and Uncertainty - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley Stile“If we can recognize that change and uncertainty are basic principles, we can greet the future and the transformation we are undergoing with the understanding that we do not know enough to be pessimistic.” -- Hazel Henderson (Economist, writer and syndicated columnist) Fear of our future ...
Views: 3102(1 vote) - How Long to Get Over a Breakup - 8 Factors That can Affect the Recovery Process - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2012 from Ashley KayA common question most people who are recovering from a breakup is “how long to get over a breakup?” They are recovering from the end of their relationship and they are having a hard time coping with it. If you and your ex had a bad breakup and you’re also wondering “how long to get over a ...
Views: 3096 - Healing After a Break Up - 7 Helpful Tips To Heal a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Johnny WayneHealing after a break up can still give you so many questions left unanswered at the back of your mind. Really, when will you realize that you're done grieving? Is it really enough for you? Are you aware with what you are feeling? Will you allow yourself to keep on asking reasons and why's ...
Views: 3095 - Divorce Survival Kit - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2007 from William CottringerDIVORCE SURVIVAL KIT By William Cottringer, Ph.D. A pending divorce can be a scary and devastating experience for a married couple. For every divorcing person, the future is nothing but uncertainty, anxiety and confusion. Such an emotional state is not good for focusing on priorities or ...
Views: 3090 - Tips On How To Restore A Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2010 from Amy AndersonAttaining your goal in the game of love entails a great deal of dedication, energy, and hard work. Because so much effort is necessary, failing this game is undoubtedly upsetting. For this reason you'll find plenty of suggestions and guidance on how to fix your relationship. For a great article, ...
Views: 3081(6 votes) - Children Are Not Pawns in Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2010 from PD RiversChildren Are Not Pawns Has your significant other become “de trop” (as the French like to say)? Has he or she gone outside of your relationship for anything other than a casual friendship? Have you cause to re-examine your relationship? All too often we allow ...
Views: 3074(2 votes) - What To Do When Your Wife Stops Sleeping With You: Wife Avoids Intimacy - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenWhat To Do When Your Wife Stops Sleeping With You: Wife Avoids Intimacy The sexless wife is often the stereotype of the downtrodden everyman in stories and comedies especially but if you have a sexless wife then you know it is no laughing matter. The humiliation and misery of being rejected ...
Views: 3073 - Marriage After Divorce: 5 Tips to Help Children Adjust - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2009 from Patzia GonzalezUnfortunately, second marriages have an even worse track record than first marriages. Part of this has to do with the kids, yours, his/ hers. Don't get me wrong, it has nothing to do with the kids as people, the kids are all right. It has a lot to do with our feelings about them. And I mean kids ...
Views: 3063 - Husband Won't Talk To Me for Days: What Silent Treatment Tells You about Your Partner - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaHusband Won't Talk To Me for Days: What Silent Treatment Tells You about Your Partner Many marriage counselors identify communication as a major problem in marriage. Lack of communication has a devastating effect on the couple, leading to emotional isolation. Because communication nurtures ...
Views: 3055 - BE FREE: A Formula for Releasing a Person - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2011 from Lisa CaroselliWhen you’re dating spiritually, breaking up isn’t as hard to do. I say as hard because there is always a grieving period where we need to release the attachment we have to that person. If we do not recognize this, we may either stay attached or we may build a wall against future relationships to ...
Views: 3053 - Stuck On Your Ex? Reasons & Hints To Help You Move On - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2011 from Lori PinkertonOne of the hardest stages in the relationship cycle is moving on. Many of us ask the question, "Why am I still thinking about my ex?" We've all suffered through nights when we couldn't sleep because thoughts about the ex just wouldn't quit. That's normal. Here are 4 reasons why we continue to ...
Views: 3051 - Deciding When to Divorce: Dealing with Fear of the Unknown - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2012 from Nancy KayAccording to the legal website, FindLaw.com, the middle of January to mid-February is the time that courts traditionally see the highest level of filings for divorce. Are you or someone you know, contemplating the thought of whether and when to file for divorce? Since divorce cuts across all ...
Views: 3023(2 votes) - I cheated on him and had an abortion but I want him back - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2017 from Alex WiseI got the following email from one of my site visitors: My husband & I are currently separated. I have messed up big time and I know that. About 4 months before we got married I found out I was pregnant. My dad was going through treatment for lung cancer and the Dr told us not to move our ...
Views: 3020 - Discover How to Avoid Getting Divorced - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2010 from Gerry RestriveraRelationship means a lot of work to make it stronger and last for years. It is sad that divorce is always an option for couples when things are getting complicated in their relationship. Although divorce is a painful reality experienced by most couples, of course, if you know how to avoid ...
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