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Whoever spent time as a child on a school playground and been the victim of name calling knows the deflective phrase used to counter those slurs, “sticks and stones may break my bones but names can never hurt me,” isn’t enough to overcome the impact of those bullying communications to youthful, ... Views: 2434
The art of conversation has long been perfected by the Romeos and Juliets of the day. Lucky for us, we no longer have to dig deep inside ourselves to start a perfectly decent conversation with another person.
However, there are still a good number of people who can't seem to hold up a ... Views: 2432
Anger is a high energy emotion. When you can focus the energy in your anger towards an action that leads to a constructive outcome, you are turning your anger into power. Speaking up rather than acting out or holding back leads to healthier bodies and relationships that work.
Two divorces ... Views: 2432
Have you ever failed to come across the way you wanted to when you needed to the most?
Did you ever find yourself struggling to make a good impression or persuade the person you’re talking to whether in social situations, at interviews, or at presentations?
Does speaking to an audience or ... Views: 2431
In all my years training managers how to coach staff, common misconceptions always arise regarding what we actually mean by coaching in a business setting.
If you are planning to improve your coaching skills with your employees to help develop their potential, here’s what you need to know ... Views: 2428
A majority of the population today can speak English. Whether they speak it correctly or fluently, is a different matter altogether. Nevertheless, English? Yes. Many people can speak that language.
For improving your spoken English, it is not enough to simply learn new words and their ... Views: 2428
“Our action speak louder than our words”
The above said statement is true to its every word. Good communication skills are the foundation of any successful relationship, be it personal or professional. Body language is one of the most important aspects of non-verbal communication. The ability ... Views: 2425
Financial independence is a dream that every individual starts cherishing as soon as he has to face financial hurdles in his life. Today when there is extreme unemployment and downsizing going on in every corporation, financial independence is turning in to a far and unapproachable dream.
In ... Views: 2424
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*** Body Listening - by Paul Chek, The Official Guide to Personal Development
Truly hearing someone when they’re speaking to you can be far more challenging than you might imagine and there’s lots of training out there to help you become a better listener. Most of this training, however, misses out on an important first step to genuine communication. When it comes to ... Views: 2422
Before the Statute of Limitations runs out on making resolutions, I have a suggestion. Not a casual, easily cast aside resolution like signing up for spin class or cutting back on caffeine, but a biggie and one that calls for commitment. Executive presence is the core of my suggestion and in ... Views: 2421
“Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so.” – Douglas Adams
We all make mistakes. What matters most is how we respond to them. But what often stands in the way of this is ... Views: 2420
Though a term usually expenses the services less than a penny to route between mobile handsets, the price tag customers as much as 20 dollars to supply a written text and an additional 20 bucks to receive a single. But within the final two years there has been a progress of cell mobile phone ... Views: 2419
Many people suffer from chronic hoarseness, sore throats and even loss of voice; and, most of these people do so because of misuse of the speaking voice. It is common; it is world wide; and, it is a growing concern.
Through the years that I’ve had a website on voice improvement, 40% of those ... Views: 2413
There is one problem we’ve all encountered that can be simultaneously frustrating and disappointing. As an innovative leader and team player you present a great idea to your boss. But the boss doesn’t accept the idea or promote it upward through the organizational chain of command. Instead he or ... Views: 2410
There’s no one on the planet who hasn’t been in a situation wherein tempers and/or emotions escalated – perhaps even dramatically – due to miscommunication or poor communication. When this has happened in your own life, you’ve likely looked back on it afterwards and wondered how things got so ... Views: 2409
I got a very thoughtful comment from one of my readers in response to my Brainwashing vs. Influence article that warranted a full post in reply.
“Your article really hit a nerve, since my wife and i were talking about my parents recently. my dad retired 6 years ago, and my mom retired ... Views: 2405
If you are dissatisfied with a product or service, impulse prompts you to fight back when you contact customer service. In anger, you might accuse and threaten the company representative. If you have tried that approach, you know that you are likely to alienate the frontline individual who could ... Views: 2401
One of the many challenges to achieve respectable google ranking is in the area of backlinks to your blog. While the idea of having links exchanged is good, the quality of the incoming sites comes into play as far as Google is concerned.
If you are someone who is a thought leader or ... Views: 2401
No matter what anyone says, verbal abuse is still abuse. Sadly, people are all too ready to dismiss it as if it were nothing; hence, there aren't enough discussions on how to stop verbal abuse.
But when somebody calls you names or screams at you for no apparent reason, that's abuse. When a ... Views: 2401
Part 1 of this introductory article highlighted whether stretching, aka personal growth (not to be confused with parking your butt, reading self-help books, and watching the world whiz by you), is for you and whether you are open to using it to grow your business and improve your lifestyle. Part ... Views: 2400
Emotional Intelligence, the combination of self-awareness, "other"-awareness, ability to recognize and regulate one's own emotions and interpersonal skills, is at the core the ability to listen. Listening Inwardly for our own assumptions, beliefs, and emotional reactions. Listening to what is ... Views: 2400
Self sabotage stems from unconscious interference. We desire a certain outcome yet sometimes, a part of us refuses to cooperate. Yet if we could train our unconscious mind to work in harmony with our purpose, almost anything ought to be possible.
How can we train our unconscious mind to ... Views: 2400
We have all probably been in a situation where we do not know what to say. Once we have broken the ice and began speaking things usually get a lot easier, but whatever situation you are in, whether it be a conversation in a bus line with a complete stranger, talking with your siblings at a ... Views: 2396
This is the first in a series of articles to help you improve your communication skills and establish stronger relationships at all levels.
A lot of stress and angst can be removed from our lives if we can learn to effectively communicate.
Communication is far more than words; it involves ... Views: 2389
Much can be said about the value of communication in business. But nothing is more important than clear communication when it comes to combining friendships and business relationships.
Over the past several years, I have been privy to disputes that I should never have been made aware of. ... Views: 2388
Microsoft is such a powerful tool for presentation, but sometimes we are limited by its requirement; you must have a computer with PowerPoint installed. Sometimes we want to send our presentation like photo presentation to friends or families and share with them, but on different operating ... Views: 2388
To know how to develop your interpersonal skills, the first and the foremost thing is to know and understand the meaning of interpersonal skills.
Interpersonal Skills are the skills used by a person to interact with other people. Interpersonal skills are also at times referred to as ... Views: 2384
People form opinions and make judgments about us in the first 60 seconds of a meeting or when speaking with us on the phone. Statistics indicate that 87% of people's opinions are formed based on the tone of our voice while only 13% is based on the actual words we use.
The 500 most frequent ... Views: 2381
Learning Visual Basic for Applications has its benefits. Visual basic for applications is a programming language used with excel to help excel perform certain tasks with worksheets that you have created that have data on them. It is because of the programming language that you can create macros ... Views: 2379
Jodi is waiting for Marco to come to her office. Today is feedback day and she has the Feedback Sandwich formula open on her desk.
Marco arrives and plunks himself down in the chair opposite Jodi, submitting himself reluctantly to what is about to occur. “I’m glad you’re here,” says Jodi, ... Views: 2376
Riddle me this: What technique works as well with a negative person at work as it does with a two year old at home?
Answer: The Polarity Pattern!
What happens when you tell a two-year-old to go to bed when the older kids are still up, or you tell a negative coworker that things ‘aren’t so ... Views: 2374
SELL MORE TO EXISTING CUSTOMERS
• Analyze each account for cross-sell and up-sell opportunities
• Accompany your reps on key account sales calls – call on executives if possible
• Conduct customer satisfaction surveys and look for opportunities to improve service and to sell more
• Inspect ... Views: 2370
Have you ever gotten to the point of frustration that you just wanted to explode?
If you lead people, then I think that you can probably relate. This is where you find yourself in a situation of mounting anger and annoyance that it makes you just want to throw in the towel? This is where your ... Views: 2367
During the 2008 presidential debates, the Wall Street Journal reported that Michelle Obama told Barack to get out of his head and into his body-to sit back and let his feelings flow. In the language of Whole Body Consciousness (WBC) that I have sketched out in my book, What's Your Body Telling ... Views: 2366
Hi, I'm back again.
For the last few blogs Gary has been telling providing you with some great wisdom on learning a new language fast.This week onwards I will start to advise you on the greatest language instruction courses ever created.These courses are what you should - no, must have if your ... Views: 2365
A few months back I met up with a few friends at a bar. I didn't know everyone there, so I was introduced to some new people.
This night I was wearing a particularly ridiculous outfit. Ripped jeans and shiny leather shoes with a vertical striped pink, red, white and black Liz Claiborne ... Views: 2362
An Issues Clearing Model for Better Communication
“You don’t understand me!” a wife screams at her husband. “How can I possibly understand you?” shouts the husband. “You’re not making any sense!!”
A mother bemoans to her teenage daughter, “We never spend any time together. You’re ... Views: 2360
If you are a human being (I assume that if you’re reading this you probably are) you will most likely have to engage in small talk on a regular basis with fellow humans that you come across. You feel obliged to speak to them, even though you can think of a long list of things you’d rather do, ... Views: 2360
When I first started road biking in 2016, I loved the feeling of freedom when the air passed my wet skin and became a natural air conditioner. I also loved to ride downhills at a very fast speed. It was an incredible thrill to let go and fly down those hills. It was truly exhilarating! ... Views: 2359
Years ago I uncovered a definition of communication that I doubt would appear in Wikipedia. I like it because of its simplicity as well as its inherent complexity.
Communication is behavior that transmits meaning from one person to another person
This definition tells us that we cannot ... Views: 2357
A good golf game can make your whole day. A bad one can … well, who wants to think about that?
The truth is a bad day on the course can really bring you down. Depending on how you handle defeat, it can cause you to isolate your friends, fight with your spouse, be short with your children and ... Views: 2355
The very fact that many people rank the fear of speaking in public as one of their greatest sources of anxiety could be hurting their professional and personal life.
It’s far more common than you may ever imagine; perhaps you’ve even experienced it yourself.
Sweaty palms, feeling nervous, ... Views: 2352
A general theory is floating around that says children today are ruder, more ignorant, and generally less respectful of their elders than they were in pre-electronic device days. Are children's listening skills declining as a side effect of the 21st century? More importantly, does a child of ... Views: 2352
Recently I was interviewed on a blog radio program and the host paused so long after every comment I made that I wondered how many listeners she really had. Yes, the internet station of which she is a member has an excellent listenership, but I seriously question whether this particular woman ... Views: 2348
Make Your Point!
By
Bill Cottringer
“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” ~George Bernard Shaw.
Consider the beginning of communication: We first invented words to stand for objects we couldn’t carry around on our shoulders to show ... Views: 2348
During all our research one constant shone through, that is that marketing is conversations.
Current conventional mass media are weak conductors of knowledge and comprehension. This is because of a number of factors, however the main reason is; they are non-interactive communications ... Views: 2347
Earlier this month, Global News asked me to appear on the 6 o’clock news to comment on the social taboo of foul language or cursing and swearing. I was being asked to comment on the etiquette of cursing–an oxymoron if ever I heard one! (Swearing – meaning solemn promise – is another subject ... Views: 2345
If an average nine year old child asked you "What is 'awareness'?" - what would you say?
On a scale of one (I'm totally unaware) to ten (I'm extremely aware in all situations), how would you rate your degree of *awareness* in (a) calm and (b) stressful situations? Are you becoming more aware ... Views: 2345
Technology, in the form of phones and computers, has become a kind of ubiquitous front door for customers to use any time and any place where they have the desire for a product or service. At least in theory, technology gives customers a more personal help desk than they are likely to find face ... Views: 2344
“It’s not what happens to you that will determine how far you will go in life; it’s how you handle what happens to you”.
-Zig Ziglar
A positive attitude helps you cope easily with the daily affairs in your life. A positive attitude brings optimism into your life, and makes it easier to avoid ... Views: 2343