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Sundown, letdown; why is it that when the sun sets, the dishwasher’s ready for its evening spin and all is quiet in your home that the desire to consume food is such a powerful force? It’s as though when twilight is upon us it stirs up feelings, thoughts and behaviors inside our mind, body and ... Views: 1020
On my last show, I interviewed Duncan Bridgeman, the co-creator of the new film 'What about me?'. This film, which took five years to make, explores the common thread mankind has regardless of the geography or social circumstances of the individual. Interwoven with unique music it is truly a ... Views: 789
What creates, or is creating, a negative attitude in your life?
Perhaps you are worried, concerned, or frustrated about your financial situation, your child, your relationship, your health or someone else’s.
Maybe you are doubtful about your present or future circumstances, or angry or ... Views: 1375
Several decades ago, I began studying goal setting as if my life depended on it. I was committed to learning anything and everything I could about how to set goals and "have it all". I was certain that having it all would bring me a very deep level of happiness. My motivation was the fact that ... Views: 1517
Suddenly, I felt present.
Here I was, looking in the mirror at this radiant woman, with a smile, with tenderness and with love. I shook my head and felt so light. My shoulders were back and there was so much space! My face was clear, open, happy.
“Isn’t it amazing how much lighter you ... Views: 921
When challenges arise we need to decide!
To take a survival approach to a challenge means to look at the challenge from a safety point of view. What are the options that offer the most security? How can I ensure that I, my stuff, my loved ones, and my lifestyle will get through this with the ... Views: 1210
When you spend your time in different places you tend to become very aware of their different cultures. Having just returned to England from America I was once again hit by the amount of swearing that goes on. Swear words are used more frequently than punctuation is any given sentence, it ... Views: 1726
This month I saw my one of my ultimate goals and dreams come to pass: the publication of my first book, Get off Your Attitude!
For two years, I have been working on it and I must be honest with you, it wasn’t easy. It was a struggle. There were times that I thought “this is never going to ... Views: 1887
“To be or not to be..., the melancholy Dane mused (the past tense of another word for think). He might just as well have asked himself “To think or not to think”because that was what he was doing: thinking.
He thought (the past tense of the verb to think) that he had seen his father's ... Views: 1318
"You must take personal responsibility. You can notice the circumstances, the seasons nor the wind does change, only you yourself can change "~ Jim Rohn
The most widespread myth in modern times is that we firmly believe that we have a right to a great life - that somehow, somewhere, someone ... Views: 4875
Is your cup 1/2 full or 1/2 empty. That is the conundrum every individual is wondering in this economy.
It’s not easy to keep yourself positive with so much negativity and change taking place in the USA and the world. But looking at the 1/2 empty glass just breeds more negativity. Look for ... Views: 1222
Get action. Do things; be sane, don’t fritter away your time . . .
take a place wherever you are and be somebody; get action.
—THEODORE ROOSEVELT, twenty-sixth president of the United States
In 1973, on an eighty-nine-day cruise around the world, I met a very special person. He was Bruce ... Views: 1414
One American company is taking advantage. AAI or All American Imports was founded in 2006 by Mark James Lehman. Mark spent most of his career in international sales working for Hydrospa in Tampa, FL. After setting up multiple Hot tub accounts and building dealer networks throughout Europe he ... Views: 748
The heart of any commercial laundry business is a washing machine, as we know how depressing it can be to wait for a washing machine to cycle at home. Therefore, buying a good quality washing machine is really profitable to carry out your business. Having a fast washer is always doing its job ... Views: 124
We all have habits, some good and some not so good. These are behaviors that we’ve learned, and that occur almost automatically. And most of us have a habit we’d like to break, or one we’d like to develop.
For most people, it takes about four weeks, maybe less in some cases, for a new ... Views: 1180
Standing in front of a group of people is always a scary experience. But it just takes practice. Have you ever noticed that there are some people at the age of 15 that can stand up in front of 50 people and feel confident? Most likely, this was not their first time. If you want to make a ... Views: 1064
Taking your 50’s in their stride.
Most people have a fear of aging so by the time they reach 50 many are quite paranoid when they need not be. As a matter of fact if you have the right attitude and desire your fifties could be some of the best years of your life. By this time you don’t ... Views: 2180
You’ve made your list, you’ve checked it twice. Oh, no, not that list – I’m talking about the list you’ve made of the 1022 ½ things you need to get done for the Holidays, everything from the perfect gift for Cousin Henry, to the perfect surprise for your sweetheart, to the perfect outfit for ... Views: 1582
Taming Our Terrible Twin Within
By
Bill Cottringer
“I have noticed that even people who claim that everything is predetermined and that we can do nothing to change it, look before they cross the road.” ~Stephen Hawking.
We are all on a mission to become our best selves and to help ... Views: 698
No one has a perfect child. Even the most well behaved little one will throw tantrums, get irritable, make messes...it is a part of childhood and who would want to teach their kid to hold themselves up to such a high standard anyway?
One area where many times people (not just children) ... Views: 1379
I am sure that you have heard of the ten year overnight success. This happens when all of a sudden someone seems to appear from nowhere and turns into an overnight success. They seem to just arrive on the scene, where they have the Midas touch and cannot put a foot wrong. They enjoy one ... Views: 1478
Technicolor Moments
By Susan Bock
2010
Everyone’s life has superlative moments – times when we feel extraordinary and our experiences are recorded in Technicolor. Think back to when you were a child – everything was new, exciting, bigger than life. You could become so excited by ... Views: 1087
With technology dictating our lifestyle, technology devices are increasingly becoming an integral part of our lives. The word "gadget" is considered to be used as a placeholder name for technical material without a specific name. A technological device is generally a product or technological ... Views: 137
Technology: The Ritalin Cure For ADHD
By
Bill Cottringer
“For normal people, the artificial urgency created by today’s hyper-speed technology is a demon to be tamed; for people with ADHD, it turns out to be an angle in disguise just needing to fly itself into being tired.” ~The author.
... Views: 2276
Ten Best Success Door Openers
by
Bill Cottringer
“If you really want to do something, you will find a way. If you don’t, you will find an excuse.” ~Jim Rohn.
There are lots of ways to find to do something or the excuses if you don’t. In the meantime, here are the best-known door ... Views: 1347
Ten Life Lessons You Can Only Learn the Hard Way
By
Bill Cottringer
“Though nobody can go back and make a new beginning, anyone can start over and make a new ending.” ~ Chico Xavier.
Here are ten valuable lessons about life that lead to success and happiness. Unfortunately this ... Views: 554
Ten Right Attitudes to Have About Love to Get More
By
Bill Cottringer
“Love is the gentle touching of two souls without the clamor of their external equipment.” ~The Author.
Want more love? Consider adopting these ten right attitudes that will help you enjoy more love:
1. Keep Things ... Views: 1361
Ever experienced a foiled appointment setting campaign, particularly those that used telemarketing as a medium? While some people will point out that telemarketing is to blame for it, it would be more productive to know what went wrong in your team’s attempt to generate sales leads. Besides, you ... Views: 1440
Living in the moment means letting go of the past and not waiting for the future to arrive. It means living your life consciously aware that each moment your breath is a genuine gift!
So how do you start the process of living in the moment?
First you must become aware of how much time you ... Views: 903
South East Asia has glamour of its own, because of which thousands of visitors from all over the globe tend to book cheap flights to Thailand on regular basis to enjoy the lush tourism at this dazzling country. You won’t imagine how sophisticated array of attractions and natural amenities the ... Views: 552
The main economic factor in Thailand is tourism which continues to increase every year due to various reasons. Development of science and technology, standard of living and leisure are some of the factors that led to the rise in mass tourism.
These factors have made Thailand Travel cheaper ... Views: 157
How often do you stop to catch yourself in the act of doing something right? Or anybody else for that matter . . .
As opposed to dinging yourself for every single mistake you make, every flaw you find on your face, in your character, your clothes, your finances, your relationship, your ... Views: 1401
When you think of the word “success” is the first thing that comes to mind a self-portrait?
If you don’t see yourself as successful, that vision needs to change. You truly deserve the success you want…
It’s just a matter of achieving that state.
And that’s the tricky part, isn’t ... Views: 987
At the beginning of every year, so many people set “resolutions” for the year ahead, hoping to create some, or massive personal change.
In a very insightful article by Ray Williams (published in Psychology Today), he mentioned that by the month of February, most people have started to ... Views: 1117
1. Debt Since we are in America, we must look at the primary means of setback for most Americans. America is designed for all adults to be in debt for most, if not all, of their lives. If you are over 18 and do not understand this concept then you may be headed for trouble. When you turn 18 ... Views: 2044
Respect is the willingness to show consideration or appreciation for someone. And of course, if we don't have respect for ourselves we can't transmit it to others. Consider that the angry person is often not angry at you but with himself projecting that self-anger onto you. But what's so ... Views: 1797
The real keys to success for an internet business have more to do with what can be found within the person then it does with any business plan or structure. Marketing on the internet successfully involves the ability to adapt to a constantly changing environment. Most online entrepreneurs will ... Views: 663
Staying motivated is a difficult undertaking for many people, especially when negative emotions cloud the mind continually. Staying motivated is about eliminating any negative emotions from the mind and focusing on accomplishing goals. For sales professionals, no goal is too large to accomplish ... Views: 1055
Ireland has a fantastic sporting heritage and enthusiasm for all sports abounds across the country, from the youth and amateur levels to the international professionals. The five most popular sports in Ireland Gaelic football, hurling, soccer and horse racing are spectator and participant ... Views: 81
Way back in 1977, while I was graduating from Simmons College (and wondering how the heck I was going to get a job using what I’d learned), James Prochaska and his colleagues at the University of Rhode Island were developing a revolutionary new theory about how people change. It was called the ... Views: 1497
Everyone experiences self-doubt from time to time. When we challenge ourselves by taking on new jobs or responsibilities, it’s natural to wonder whether we’re up to the task. Self-doubt actually can be helpful, as it spotlights areas of weaknesses where we would benefit from more ... Views: 2089
It’s easy to identify aggressive personalities. The neighborhood bully, the driver who yells at everyone at the road, the boxer who doesn’t just want to win but wants to destroy; even the loudmouth in the restaurant who can’t whisper without everyone in the place hearing. A person with an ... Views: 1444
Recently I caught the classic 1956 movie, Moby Dick, based on the famous book by Herman Melville, starring Gregory Peck, directed by John Huston, screenplay by Ray Bradbury. I was reminded of how hypnotic and meaningful the movie is, with symbols about Divinity and messages about the Law of ... Views: 1352
Do you know somebody in “The ain’t it awful club”, you know the one where life is a drag? Well we all have choices, so we can decide to join it or despise it. Many people complain and blame external circumstances for their own lack of decisiveness. They will go to work and complain about their ... Views: 1736
THE ALMIGHTY SELF
by
Bill Cottringer
Today I am graduating into my second year of my ninth decade of living life. So, I think I will venture down this rabbit hole for some profound insights into life, at least as far down the rabbit hole my current brain power will allow me to tiptoe. ... Views: 63
“A good question is better that a brilliant answer…” Richard Saul Wurman – Creator of TED
Why do adults stop asking questions? Children ask amazing questions all the time. Their innate sense of curiosity is astounding. Yet somehow, as we move towards adulthood, that natural sense of childhood ... Views: 1176
These are my dog children. They are adopted. That is why they don't look anything like me. They have been a part of my family for just over two years now. We think they were breeders because Freda (top) was pregnant and eight years old when the pound found her. Fritz had such bad teeth the pound ... Views: 1065
When you're looking for an apartment, prepare a rental search plan. Make sure you know in advance what you want in an apartment and what you can live without. Decide in advance which areas of the city you might consider living in and make a list of apartment buildings within that ... Views: 100
"To be, or not to be" is the opening line of a soliloquy uttered by Hamlet, as he ponders the meaning of life and whether the price we pay is worth the suffering that we must endure to experience it. Hamlet is a gentle and introspective young man, who is not given to bold action. One day, his ... Views: 736
Sometimes we clutch the past so tightly to our chest that it leaves our arms too weak to embrace the present.
Each of us – I bet all of us – are clutching tightly to some things from our past, whether they are beliefs we cling to, or fears, or insecurities. Or maybe we hold onto self-talk ... Views: 847