We’ve all heard that nugget, first impressions are important.
The thing is, you don’t know what will make your first impression. It won’t necessarily be your first contact.
People have busy lives. They may or may not read your first email or blog post. They may or may not see your first ... Views: 714
Is your mission big enough?
The problem with your mission, purpose, even your Why, is that it may still be small, self-focused, and therefore not very useful.
Mission based on the impact that you want to have includes others. An impact focus isn’t just about you, although it includes you. ... Views: 714
Few things strike terror in the heart of an introverted entrepreneur more than networking. Even extroverts can be put off by the prospect.
That’s because networking has such a bad name. It feels fake. It feels icky, as one of my clients put it. It feels like a bad idea from the moment you ... Views: 712
Change your business or it will die.
Ouch.
That’s a pretty dramatic statement, and it carries a serious truth. For your business to be sustainable, it has to change.
Incrementally, as you adjust to small shifts like the changing needs of your customers for a new product or ... Views: 711
Saying no can be really difficult, especially for women. Women are trained to be agreeable, and culturally, the pressure is still heavy to ‘just get along’. Plus, we’re wired for cooperation. So saying no can feel downright wrong, even as a leader.
Women are by no means the only ones who have ... Views: 710
The media tells you, you have to grow! Investors want growth too.
But is growth necessarily a good thing?
We’re so distracted by growth that we fail to ask ourselves, why does growth even matter?
Sure, growth can mean that you make more money (though not necessarily!). It can mean ... Views: 710
When I was a little girl, if I got too loud, too rambunctious, too ME, I was quickly pulled aside by my mother and told to stop. It was too much for her.
When I tried to have impact in my family, to be myself, whether it was self-expressing with crayon on the basement wall or being ... Views: 709
Your choices are very powerful.
When you make choices that are world-class, you’ll get world-class results. Mediocre choices? Mediocre results.
Most of us spend a lot of energy justifying bad behavior. How many times have you ignored your best self and gone ahead and done that thing you ... Views: 708
OK, that was a little harsh. But really, it’s a valid and oh so important question.
As entrepreneurs, we can so easily get derailed. The temptations are many, and they center around one thing.
You are not connected with yourself.
When that’s the case, it’s easier to look outside of ... Views: 706
In the explorations of my own growth, I’m always deepening my understanding. Always wanting to grow, even if the growing pains hurt and I avoid it at first.
A number of years ago, I was talking with a coach about working with her. I knew I wanted the support, but what I also felt was a need ... Views: 705
When a company makes a public mistake, it’s revealing. Like when Forbes recently released a list of the 100 most innovative leaders in America and included only one woman, and no women of color.
Ouch.
They did acknowledge their error, but the horse was already out of the barn. What was ... Views: 705
Racing to the next meeting. Hurrying to finish the project.
That can define your days. And busy as you are, it can still leave you feeling that you haven’t used your time well.
With all our many time management systems, time still seems to slip by. You haven’t accomplished everything you ... Views: 705
Jessica came to our first coaching session dejected. “I’ve tried everything I can to market my latest offering, and nothing’s working. What am I doing wrong?”
As I always do with new clients, we went back to basics. My first question was, “Tell me about your audience”.
After stumbling ... Views: 704
Mentoring advice is extremely valuable, even for experienced leaders. It can be a lighthouse, guiding you away from rocky shoals and onto a clearer course.
At the end of every Work Alchemy podcast interview, I ask the highly impactful leaders that I interview to share one piece of advice with ... Views: 703
The ability to make good choices is what makes your income grow.
This discernment also helps you have more impact, to make a positive difference with your business.
It’s a choice between adding everything you feel anxious about that day to your to-do list vs. being disciplined to make ... Views: 702
It’s a new year, which means an opportunity for new beginnings.
The beginning of more impact for you and your business.
Impact is more than a mission, more than a purpose.
Impact is where your uniqueness, your unique voice, meets the needs and desires of the world. It’s where only you ... Views: 701
When my mother died, I went shopping for a nice dress for her to be buried in. She’d been in a dementia ward for some time, and almost all of her beautifully handmade (by her) clothes had vanished.
The dress I found was perfect, but had cap sleeves and I, perhaps strangely, was concerned ... Views: 699
Upping your employees’ engagement level is well worth the effort, not only in your bottom line, or even triple bottom line, but also in the culture of your company, that sometimes ineffable ‘stuff’ that makes yours a great place to work.
Employees who are highly engaged are set apart from ... Views: 699
Forbes Magazine recently published a list of the 100 Most Innovative Leaders. One out of 100 was a woman. And none was a woman of color.
Seriously?
In these times (or any time), for a list like this to appear in a reputable business magazine is, in my view, downright deplorable.
They ... Views: 696
Are you, in fact, doing too much? Seems an odd question to ask right after one of the biggest holiday seasons of the year, but who hasn’t experienced the tiredness that comes from trying to pack in as much as possible in a limited period of time?
The thing is, when you’re trying to have ... Views: 694
So you want to have more impact? To do that, you can’t be wasting your valuable time and energy on things that don’t matter, that don’t have impact.
Productivity only matters in the context of what you ultimately want to accomplish. Being productive in the service of your bigger goals and ... Views: 692
Have you ever had a prospect say they want to work with you, and they suddenly decide to go with another company?
Have you ever poured energy into helping a prospect make a decision, with great content and multiple conversations, and then they have one conversation with another provider and ... Views: 690
We’re all living through a period of significant disruption. When the seas are rough, the temptation is to hunker down, batten down the hatches, and hope you survive until it all blows over.
But what if disruption represents an opportunity, an opportunity for your business?
Then it makes ... Views: 687
For your business to thrive, clarity about your audience is a cornerstone. You just can’t market effectively if you don’t know who you’re marketing to. Everything you do in marketing, all the decisions, the plans, even the wording of individual social media posts, is built around knowing your ... Views: 687
I have a problem.
My name is Ursula and I have trouble celebrating big accomplishments.
Hi Ursula.
I’ve been encouraging my clients to celebrate their accomplishments. Every day.
Like every coach I’ve ever talked to, I don’t always take my own advice.
Sure, I do daily celebrating. ... Views: 687
I appeared recently in an entrepreneur forum as a panelist. One of the questions asked was, what was the biggest challenge you faced when launching your business? My answer? Fear.
Fear is like the annoying text messages that won’t stop until you answer.
Fear has been described as, ‘False ... Views: 683
Much has been written about leadership skills. But what does it take to lead an organization focused on impact, on social and environmental change, just as much as profits?
These organizations are special. They are the face of the changing business environment, as companies shift away from a ... Views: 682
So much is going on in the world right now, that it can be difficult to focus on your business’ values.
You may be going through some financial challenges due to the pandemic, and even if that’s not the case, it can feel hard to consider one more thing as you pivot and adjust.
I have had ... Views: 680
Your mindset, your thoughts, can buoy you up, inspiring you to take courageous action, or they can drag you down, keeping you up at night with worry and paralyzing you with fear. Even though our brains are wired to dwell on the negative, on past mistakes, how we think in this moment is something ... Views: 680
Even disciplined people say they can’t do discipline well! What is it about self discipline that’s so scary?
Entrepreneurs tend to be motivated at least partially by self-determination, our ability to decide how our time and energy will be used. That’s a premium level perk of entrepreneurship ... Views: 679
You know all that stuff you’re supposed to be putting online to promote your business? It seems like a lot of work, doesn’t it? Truth: it is!
Well, here’s a way to make that a lot easier and keep you from getting content fatigue: reimagine your one piece of content into many others.
When ... Views: 676
No, this isn’t another coronavirus / COVID19 article cautioning you to wear full body armor or avoid contact with other humans for the foreseeable future. Those would produce a certain kind of impact, but is the exact opposite of what we’re going for here.
Impact lives and breathes ... Views: 675
You want stuff. It’s only human.
I want stuff too. I’m only human.
But I bet the ‘stuff’ that you want isn’t necessarily stuff, objects, hunks of physical reality. Or at least, it’s not ALL of what you want.
You want impact. You wouldn’t be reading this if you didn’t.
We all start ... Views: 670
Oh, that transformative beast - jealousy. It can transform friendship into resentment. It can transform honest effort into a reason to beat yourself up. And it can really mess with your business. One of my friends, a bright and articulate woman, was the object of my jealousy. She's also an ... Views: 667
Since you’re one of my readers, you’re a world changer. You want to have impact with your business.
You’ll have a lot more impact if you get in touch with your fierce.
In a virtual meeting I was in recently, we were talking about winning vs. collaboration (as if they were two ... Views: 666
You know how frustrating it is to have your flight delayed?
You remember flights, right? We’ll get back to them one day.
The reason flight delays are so frustrating is that you have somewhere you really want to go, and you’re not getting there. You’ve been put in a holding pattern until ... Views: 666
Ever feel like you want to just bail, to leave everything behind and go elsewhere?
I sure do. I dream of going to Africa, where I’ve cried seeing elephant families roam and worked with warm, committed people to help their communities rise. I dream of going to Canada, to visit dear friends, to ... Views: 662
Are you speaking up for what you believe? Are you an authentic leader for your business? Are you advancing your impact?
If you question any of those things, you may have moved into the comfort zone.
It’s tempting. That soft place where you don’t have to question anything, where you can ... Views: 659
Your team is integral to your company’s impact. You can’t have impact alone. No one can.
How can you create an environment where they can flourish while they contribute to your mutual impact? With impactful leadership. Here are 3 ways you can implement impactful leadership in relation to your ... Views: 657
Impact can feel oddly unsatisfying.
What?!
A big reason for focusing on impact is that it brings fulfillment and satisfaction along with it, right?
If you’re feeling that your impact isn’t fulfilling you, that’s a clue. Maybe you’re not having all the impact you want to have.
Impact ... Views: 654
You’ve done the strategic planning, maybe with a consultant or coach, and you’ve got the action plan.
You’ve done everything right. And yet, it’s still not rolling out as well as you had envisioned.
That’s because conventional strategic planning techniques only go so far. They are missing ... Views: 653
Are you giving customers a good reason to spend their money with you?
It’s an important question. Chances are, your product or service is similar to someone else’s. Even if it’s unique for now, if you’re successful, it won’t be for long.
We’re in a changing marketplace. It’s not enough ... Views: 647
We sometimes talk about impact like it’s a done deal. That once you realize the impact you want to have, all that remains is to execute the steps to have it, like a to-do list.
It’s not that simple.
Impact calls you on a deeper level.
If impact were just about taking action, you would ... Views: 646
You have impact, every day, whether you realize it or not.
When you choose to be aware of what your impact is and can be, that shifts things. You can then choose how you show up. You can then become the leader you can be.
I resisted this for a long time. I didn’t see what others saw in ... Views: 645
If you’re wise, you’ll be rethinking your business plan right now. We’re in the midst of a significant disruption of business, and every business is affected.
Do you find yourself reacting to what is happening day-to-day because of all the uncertainty? Creating a new plan, instead of ... Views: 640
Small business means small impact, right? Not necessarily.
Your perspective on this makes a big difference.
Let’s get down to the core question. Can you have impact with your small business?
My answer to that question is, yes!
If you can take that in, you can stop reading now. If ... Views: 639
I recently read a gem of a book by Lisa and Franco Esile called Whose Mind Is It Anyway? Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Life. It was a quick read – under an hour. Plus it had pictures! How often can you say that about a business book?
It’s not touted as that, but it really is a book for ... Views: 632
Impact vampires - sounds a little ghoulish, right?
It’s worth getting a little nervous about impact vampires, because they can draw valuable energy and resources out of your business, and prevent you from having the impact that you could have.
An impact vampire is anyone who interferes ... Views: 625
Farah’s struggling. She’s got a lot to do, and the day just seems to get away from her. The 40 minutes she spent surfing Instagram didn’t help her cross items off her list, but it was the only break from work that she took all day.
Still, at the end of the day, she feels unsatisfied and ... Views: 625
Ever feel like you want to just bail, to leave everything behind and go elsewhere?
I sure do. I dream of going to Africa, where I’ve cried seeing elephant families roam and worked with warm, committed people to help their communities rise. I dream of going to Canada, to visit dear friends, to ... Views: 612